Am I horrible for being envious of woman on 600lb life?

[Anonymous]

ok so I’m a gym rat that’s hyper fixated on looks and looking good for my partner.
But I struggle a lot in life struggle with making ends meet. Putting food on the table and getting help.(even tho I work) I still would like help

Also struggle with a supportive romantic partner who will help me.

the message from partners is...

no one care about your struggle work harder like everyone else

THEN 🤯🤯

And I turn on the TV and I see woman who let themselves go completely don’t do anything for themselves and have their men cater to them like babies and are always married. how do they even afford all that food on the daily if they cannot work or even walk.

wtf am I doing wrong. Do I have to gain 450lb to get a supportive partner to help me? I don’t get it.

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Thank you so much everyone

[Flatmanlewis]

You should not be envious of anyone. Especially if you are fit & healthy. The people on those overweight reality shows (they are mislabeled because they are NOT really reality, but whatever) are not happy. That’s the whole draw of the show. It’s morbid to even watch them to me - like some kind of inhumane circus freak show but on TV.


Second, you’re question kind of alludes to a craving for a devoted and loving relationship. Am I misreading it? If so, they adjustment isn’t in your weight but perhaps the chemistry of your relationship. Perhaps you can make some changes there which will improve your state of mind and satisfaction in life?

[DextroShade]

You are doing the right thing by being fit. Honestly those 600 lbs women are miserable, they struggle to basic things like using the restroom or bathing, and they will die young. The guys who are with them are creepy weirdos with a fetish. You can easily find a man and you are already overlooking many men who would be good partners for you.

[Jazzy54]

Don’t ever be envious of someone else, regardless of their weight. The people on that show are literally dying and are in desperate of help. Please don’t wish to be in their shoes. Some of them literally can’t walk and have to be 100% dependent on other people. Therefore, continue living your life and making good choices. 😊

[Anonymous]

Not horrible but you shouldn't be envious of women on that show. They live hard and very unhealthy lives. The men usually don't really care about them as much as they claim to if they are feeding them to their deaths. Some even cheat on them with other women. You don't want their lives believe me, you don't.

[Opinion Owner]

The ones I've seen they end up leaving and some cheated on them. But that's besides the point. They don't love them enough to help them lose the weight and some end up leaving once they start losing the weight which is sad.

[Opinion Owner]

At that size it does. They are at a dangerous weight. They could die at any minute. Do you not understand that? What is wrong with you? That's not an awful mindset to have when they are literally killing them with food. If you really love your partner you would want to see your partner happy and healthy. They are not happy nor healthy at that size. What part of that don't you get from the show?

[Opinion Owner]

Lol ok... can't take the truth I see.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol if you knew me you wouldn't be saying that at all. I'm not immature nor do I hate fat people. I'm just calling it like I see it.

[Opinion Owner]

Nope I'm not and I have a man who loves me. Can you say the same?

[BobLouis]

I don't like the 600lb woman because she's being praised for being lazy and fat. I work hard for my body and I don't get a TV show.

[BobLouis]

So yeah I hate her too.

[Tenderhearted]

You should read a book called “Group” by Christie Tate. Might open your mind.

[Staximus]

Those fat ladies that have people acting like their servants are master manipulators. If you weren't in the gym all the time you would have time to meet a good guy and make more money

[artgorgeous]

Next time you see that 600lb woman, ask yourself, what kind of life she has? She probably can barely walk and everything she wants is to eat, shit and sleep. Are you still envy?

[jimmy2]

Looking at the wrong thing
Fous on you
No one going to help you
It's all about your health

[Anonymous]

Thais men dont love them. Theyre just feeders who fetishize their…unfortunate weights.

[Emilianorodríguez]

Anyone can get married, the morbid obese women of The Learning Channel are married, but their husbands are just as ugly men as they are.

[Anonymous]

You realize reality t. v. is not reality right?

[Jmmmfi4]

Wish I knew what advice to give cuz I don't have a clue either

[Billlewis]

No, not at all! I love that show so much!