Because they want to be needed and relevant, they want to still be "in a game", they want to feel themselves young again. But almost nobody cares anymore.
@dummythiccferaligatr I think love is a hoax. You like people for what they have to offer. Otherwise bums in the streets would also get loved inconditionnaly. Thing is when it comes to a relationship, the biggest thing you can bring on the table when you're a woman is a child. All the rest don't matter since guys can pay for this.
You too aren't the brightest. The question I'm asking is if you're in it for sex, why bother having a serious relationship when you can just have hookups? Who's the ape now?
For companionship, they probably already had kids but want someone to grow old with not to have children again and someone to go places with and talk to about things, a partner in life
Desperation. They are starting to realize that men aren't going to be doing them free favors so they know they have to lock one down, but for most it is too late.
Love is a transaction. And I don't want to adopt I don't even understand the whole concept of adoption. If the kid doesn't have my blood, I'd rather don't have one.
In her youth, she has enjoyed with young men, so she did not went in marriage or long term relationship, now as she is old, feels unable to attract young guys, so she want to live stable life and to have longterm relationship,
@LaFemmeFatale_1 "I hope you’ll find a way to get rid of your unjustified hatred, toxicity and unfairness" dude just look at the way you speak to people. You swear like a 50 years old obese truck driver, do you really think guys like this? Do you really think it is unjustified when guys say "this woman is appaling"? Yes, it is justified.
Reassess your behaviour, learn to act like a decent female, and stop thinking you are the prize here. You are not the prize and nobody want anything except some pussy when engaging a conversation with you.
How could I possibly be jealous of any people in their 60's? It doesn't make any sense. I couldn't even be jealous of Warren Buffet because of his age.
The question literally did not have the word "want" in it, so that's not true. But to answer your second question, the same reason that almost anybody else wants to be in a relationship.
"Obviously women opinions are preferred. But guys, if you have a clue why those women are looking for this type of relationship, I'd be pleased to hear."
That's the question I asked. There is not the word "want", there is "looking for". Which is a synonym.
I already gave the reason why almost anybody wants to be in a relationship : to have kids. When kids are out of the picture, I don't understand the purpose of a relationship cause escort girls would be way better in every aspects.
Most people do not want relationships specifically to have kids. Once you realize that fact, the answers to all of your questions will become as obvious to you as they are to everybody else.
@LazerBean But that's untrue. You can start a poll right now and I'm telling you without a doubt that you're gonna have AT LEAST 80% of guys who would tick the tile "I want a relationship leading to children".
Otherwise there is no point. The girl's just offering you sex, which any random girl can do without being in a relationship with you, conversation, and presence, which any random girl can do either.
It doesn't make sense to engage yourself and take responsibilites for a girl who can't draw any plan with you. I mean real deep plans of life like raising a family, not going on full boomer mode and travel the world or some shits like this. Real life plans aren't about consumption.
Well yeah obviously most people under 40 are going to end up wanting children. But wanting children is not the primary reason that people want a relationship. Go ahead and make a poll and see. If that were true, then there would not be men and women in their 60s, 70s, and 80s who date each other. But there are, and a lot for that matter. But I can see why you are having a hard time understanding people in general since you value morality and relationships are extremely low.
I'm not talking about people in their 80s, they are completely different than other people since they grew up in totally different societies with total different values. Women and men were not at a sex war back then. There was no such thing as feminism or whatsoever. What I mean is both sex genuinely enjoyed each other's presence and speeches.
It's not the case anymore. Each sex tends to dislike the company of the other one more and more. The only catalyst that remains is the kid. And it even tends to disappear since both sex hate each other that much (people make less and less kids, a big part of millenials don't even want some).
What I'm saying is, most guys nowadays don't date women because they "appreciate their presence" or because they "have a deep interest on what they say". If I want to have meaningful conversations or a good time (sex excluded), I'm always gonna pick a dude for this. Women's presence and meaningless chit chat is really a burden, it's not something I like to endure.
Nowadays guys date women because they eventually want to reproduce, meaning either having a legacy, or just have sex. And what I'm telling you is, a guy with value can have sex with basically any girl without commitment. Which leads that kind of relationship to usually be a low value one which is only based on sex for people who can't get it another way. My conception of all this is that 40+ years old women don't really want to be in a relationship for what it really is. They want to be in a relationship for the idea they make of a relationship, and social credit. What do you think about that?
@LazerBean I don't choose to be in a sex war. The sex war came to me. I live in a western society, the sex war didn't wait for my meaningless existence to begin. It's not about me. It's about how women think and act nowadays. We don't like it. Only a microscopic minority of weird dudes with fetish like what girls became. If you ask, most of the guys out there would prefer the girls to have remained like they were 60 years ago.
That's the point I'm trying to make. Since both sex grew apart that much in modern societies, relationship are not about "enjoying each other presence". It's about negociation. It's about what each party is able to put on the table to close the deal. And the thing is, a woman in her 40s isn't able to put much on the table tbh.
Only people who make poor Life choices and/or were born to poor quality parents are in the sex war. So as someone who makes poor life choices and/or is from a bad family, of course only other poor quality people will be around you which makes socializing seem not enjoyable. I can't relate, since I only associate with good quality people and in turn makes all the people I am around of both genders enjoy each other's company. I guess that's just a problem that you are going to have to work through with the other people in your station of society.
@FunkyMonkee I like being alone. I'd rather be alone than being with a ball buster that gives me absolutely nothing. A woman should have a lot of qualities to give me the need of being together with her. And being old isn't a quality.
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it's a shallow view of relationship. if that's your value, is ok. lots of women in their 40's find relationships, even for the first time.
Because they want to be needed and relevant, they want to still be "in a game", they want to feel themselves young again. But almost nobody cares anymore.
Because they want love? Women aren't only valued for making kids, ya know.
@dummythiccferaligatr I think love is a hoax. You like people for what they have to offer. Otherwise bums in the streets would also get loved inconditionnaly. Thing is when it comes to a relationship, the biggest thing you can bring on the table when you're a woman is a child. All the rest don't matter since guys can pay for this.
You're not the brightest. 40 somethings are in it for the sex and company, not the kids.
You too aren't the brightest. The question I'm asking is if you're in it for sex, why bother having a serious relationship when you can just have hookups? Who's the ape now?
For companionship, they probably already had kids but want someone to grow old with not to have children again and someone to go places with and talk to about things, a partner in life
Anybody can be in a serious relationship. Age doesn't affect that
They can, but why would they want that? And it's not true. I see many of those women struggling to find relationships by the way.
They'll find one
I think you didn't get the question or don't want to respond to it seriously. Please leave the topic, you're wasting my time lol
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Desperation. They are starting to realize that men aren't going to be doing them free favors so they know they have to lock one down, but for most it is too late.
I am in one. Should I get out and tell him I don’t want to be serious since I am over 40?
It’s never too late to find love, and love is what relationships are all about. Plus don’t forget about adoption.
Love is a transaction. And I don't want to adopt I don't even understand the whole concept of adoption. If the kid doesn't have my blood, I'd rather don't have one.
I greatly disagree, especially with love being a transaction, but I’m not going to try to make you understand.
Silly question. Because they are humans and desire love and sex with a man they love.
In her youth, she has enjoyed with young men, so she did not went in marriage or long term relationship, now as she is old, feels unable to attract young guys, so she want to live stable life and to have longterm relationship,
Not everyone wants to have children. Why are you so weird.
These women want a guy as a retirement plan.
You like this post. That’s the reason you’ll never find a type of woman you are looking for.
You should be thankful even if 80 year old woman gets interested in you.
Toxic and unhealthy.
And very gross.
@LaFemmeFatale_1 Sorry, not sorry. I call them like I see them.
A few years into being a "boss babe" women realize it isn't much fun, so they look for a way out by marrying a simp provider.
I find your way of thinking very gross, as a man who’s 43 year old, you shouldn’t be liking this toxic post.
That’s why you can’t keep a woman.
I don’t want to be anyhow reminded of existence of such individuals.
I am blocking you.
With this type of mindset you will only attract the type of women you attracted in the past, sick and gross mindset - like yours.
I am truly sorry for your twisted mind and I hope you’ll find a way to get rid of your unjustified hatred, toxicity and unfairness.
Why would any woman want to grow old with you, if you sympathize with the sentiment of this post?
Goodbye.
Hope you’ll be healed out of this sick mindset.
@LaFemmeFatale_1 "I hope you’ll find a way to get rid of your unjustified hatred, toxicity and unfairness" dude just look at the way you speak to people. You swear like a 50 years old obese truck driver, do you really think guys like this? Do you really think it is unjustified when guys say "this woman is appaling"? Yes, it is justified.
Reassess your behaviour, learn to act like a decent female, and stop thinking you are the prize here. You are not the prize and nobody want anything except some pussy when engaging a conversation with you.
I don’t swear in real life. I am very polite.
A very decent female with decent males.
But I don’t see any decent males here.
@LaFemmeFatale_1 Ok cool then. You're 26, you still have a bit of time to secure a man. So don't waste your time here and good luck
@LaFemmeFatale_1 If you don't see any decent makes here, why are you here?
There are a lot of them on GaG.
But definitely not the ones who share the same mindset as the author of this post.
@LaFemmeFatale_1 why are you suddenly so angry?
Old women are ugly, especially after 30 years, they are invisible.
i get you , at your age 20 , 30 seems like that, but when you are 35 you will like 32. lol
@strateguy632 I'm 30, still like 18-20 ;)
I have met people that are dating in their 60s.
What are you jealous or something?
How could I possibly be jealous of any people in their 60's? It doesn't make any sense. I couldn't even be jealous of Warren Buffet because of his age.
Because they want to. Oh no, this post might change their minds. Lol.
Being alone in latter years is not something you want
That woman looks so botched it makes her look 50
Because they both want to and can.
Ok. But you're not responding the question. Which is : Why do they want that?
The question literally did not have the word "want" in it, so that's not true. But to answer your second question, the same reason that almost anybody else wants to be in a relationship.
"Obviously women opinions are preferred. But guys, if you have a clue why those women are looking for this type of relationship, I'd be pleased to hear."
That's the question I asked. There is not the word "want", there is "looking for". Which is a synonym.
I already gave the reason why almost anybody wants to be in a relationship : to have kids. When kids are out of the picture, I don't understand the purpose of a relationship cause escort girls would be way better in every aspects.
Most people do not want relationships specifically to have kids. Once you realize that fact, the answers to all of your questions will become as obvious to you as they are to everybody else.
@LazerBean But that's untrue. You can start a poll right now and I'm telling you without a doubt that you're gonna have AT LEAST 80% of guys who would tick the tile "I want a relationship leading to children".
Otherwise there is no point. The girl's just offering you sex, which any random girl can do without being in a relationship with you, conversation, and presence, which any random girl can do either.
It doesn't make sense to engage yourself and take responsibilites for a girl who can't draw any plan with you. I mean real deep plans of life like raising a family, not going on full boomer mode and travel the world or some shits like this. Real life plans aren't about consumption.
Well yeah obviously most people under 40 are going to end up wanting children. But wanting children is not the primary reason that people want a relationship. Go ahead and make a poll and see. If that were true, then there would not be men and women in their 60s, 70s, and 80s who date each other. But there are, and a lot for that matter. But I can see why you are having a hard time understanding people in general since you value morality and relationships are extremely low.
I'm not talking about people in their 80s, they are completely different than other people since they grew up in totally different societies with total different values. Women and men were not at a sex war back then. There was no such thing as feminism or whatsoever. What I mean is both sex genuinely enjoyed each other's presence and speeches.
It's not the case anymore. Each sex tends to dislike the company of the other one more and more. The only catalyst that remains is the kid. And it even tends to disappear since both sex hate each other that much (people make less and less kids, a big part of millenials don't even want some).
What I'm saying is, most guys nowadays don't date women because they "appreciate their presence" or because they "have a deep interest on what they say". If I want to have meaningful conversations or a good time (sex excluded), I'm always gonna pick a dude for this. Women's presence and meaningless chit chat is really a burden, it's not something I like to endure.
Nowadays guys date women because they eventually want to reproduce, meaning either having a legacy, or just have sex. And what I'm telling you is, a guy with value can have sex with basically any girl without commitment. Which leads that kind of relationship to usually be a low value one which is only based on sex for people who can't get it another way. My conception of all this is that 40+ years old women don't really want to be in a relationship for what it really is. They want to be in a relationship for the idea they make of a relationship, and social credit. What do you think about that?
You're wrong, and someone like you who chooses to be in a sex war will never understand the truth of how people really are.
@LazerBean I don't choose to be in a sex war. The sex war came to me. I live in a western society, the sex war didn't wait for my meaningless existence to begin. It's not about me. It's about how women think and act nowadays. We don't like it. Only a microscopic minority of weird dudes with fetish like what girls became. If you ask, most of the guys out there would prefer the girls to have remained like they were 60 years ago.
That's the point I'm trying to make. Since both sex grew apart that much in modern societies, relationship are not about "enjoying each other presence". It's about negociation. It's about what each party is able to put on the table to close the deal. And the thing is, a woman in her 40s isn't able to put much on the table tbh.
Only people who make poor Life choices and/or were born to poor quality parents are in the sex war. So as someone who makes poor life choices and/or is from a bad family, of course only other poor quality people will be around you which makes socializing seem not enjoyable. I can't relate, since I only associate with good quality people and in turn makes all the people I am around of both genders enjoy each other's company. I guess that's just a problem that you are going to have to work through with the other people in your station of society.
Why not? It sucks to be lonely!!!
@FunkyMonkee I like being alone. I'd rather be alone than being with a ball buster that gives me absolutely nothing. A woman should have a lot of qualities to give me the need of being together with her. And being old isn't a quality.
Why would you WANT to be with a bitch like that? If she's not what you're looking for, stop seeing her.
I be glad to keep a lonely lady company. I will always be there for her.