Have you ever been hurt by someone relationship wise?

[Akam93]

Like what happened that made it hurt so bad.

[LiamJHayden]

Not hurt exactly, but I have gotten annoyed when one tried to use me.

[Gent207-2]

She cheated 3 times

[love_conquers_lust]

Went to a party dressed like a skank at a party. I first saw footage of it broadcast on our school news channel. Was so fucking mad at her when she felt that was appropriate. Her body, her right? It’s that kind of shit that tests my morals and made me want to womanize the ever living fuck out of every single one of you both as retribution and because you voluntarily do it to yourselves.

At the same time, prior to that, I approved and encouraged her to make out with another girl in my presence. So, it was partially my fault, which contributed to the anger.

Feminists can be so infuriating going against natural orders which screw other people over doing more harm than good. Goes against altruism. They want my forgiveness for slutting around demanding I respect their “needs”, until they’re tired of disrespecting themselves, they all of a sudden have “personality”. They’re a “person” now who isn’t an object and I’m demanded to be respect that and follow the rules of commitment while they were committed to being uncommitted. I’m supposed to be consistent, I’m supposed to be stable, I’m supposed to be “the rock that the stream parts way”. Respect is given, not demanded. Infuriating the way those hypocrites cry about fairness. They’re born into unfairness so that justifies them choosing to treat others unfairly?

[mermaidrocketship]

Yeah. I was young and naive. He was supposed to be sober but secretly wasn’t. I thought his odd behavior and depressive episodes were caused by his chronic illness flaring, but it was caused by drinking. He almost died multiple times during it before I found out why it was happening. Now he’s engaged and I have to see them regularly. I’m still single. All my attempts at another relationship or even a close friendship have failed, so my confidence is low. I’m still gravitating towards emotionally unavailable people. Ironically, now I have two chronic illnesses I’m struggling to manage. I’m always alone, and I struggle to connect with people like I did with him. It’s been a few years.

[Beccaasaar]

Yes he mentally fucked me up so much that It took a toll on my life, everyone around me and it was very difficult to control myself such as anxiety, what to say to people and I had to reprogram myself to feel and also show emotion bc crying to him was nothing it was a weakness u can't cry infront of people u can't show people ur weakness, I had to always question people around me bc I've always thought they were gunna use me or was using me, I couldn't trust anyone, he made me think the only person in this world that cared and was gunna be there for me and for me to trust was him and he used my weaknesses my insecurities, and I had always doubted myself when he did something wrong it was my fault when 100% was him so when he left i felt nothing i felt as tho i had nothing in life i had no one to help me bc i was so dependent on him and trusting him and i kept coming back over and over again so yes I have been hurt and still hurting to this day.

[Beccaasaar]

Also a side note I also felt this was karma and I deserved every bit of it thats why i kept letting this happen i deserved the consequences of my actions bc of what I did to him but looking back he was doing the same to me and he put himself in the position of it he knew what he was doing he knew where to get me and what buttons to press and made himself the victim.

[Saarr]

My boyfriend, who I'd been with 2,5 years at the time, was going on vacation with his friends. The kind of vacation people go on when they want to drink, party and get laid. Some of his friends were talking about the amount of women they were planning on sleeping with and he mentioned to me he thought he would be having a really difficult time resisting all of the ladies (after I told him I trusting him to do no stupid things).
I dumped his ass.

[exitseven]

I dated somebody for several months. I really fell hard for this girl. She decided she wanted to dump me and go back with her old boyfriend from high school. She went to a bar that she knew I would be in and was with her boyfriend and that is how I found out about it

[Redstang88]

Yeah. Really thought she was different, thought she actually meant the things she said. Gave it everything I had trying to do the right, she just packed her shit and left town.
No explanation, haven’t heard from her since. Couldn’t tell you if she’s alive or dead

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah cheated on them dumped by the same guy after I forgave him for cheating. He felt really bad about hurting me, but that didn’t make it hurt any less.

[SolitarySolace]

Cheated on 4 times by my 4 exes, decided to give relationships one last chance and was falsely accused. Now I have a reputation as an incel. Never again will I attempt to try to find a relationship.

[Fireguy17]

Cheating, finding my ex wife in bed with the landlord while we were still married, and another ex girlfriend was cheating as well.

[Phoenix98]

Sure but it is what it is, no reason to dwell on it, if anything it showed me what to avoid in future relationships.

[Anonymous]

She was abusive and when I tried to break up with her she said she was going to kill herself. I was a stupid kid so I stayed with her. When I finally did end the relationship she told people I was abusive.

[MJtheCoach]

Usually a little bit of a pain during sex is the best.. especially trying to put my hotdog in her backdoor

[Iron_Man]

She lived with me. I was very hurt, when she left. It took me years to move on.

[Iron_Man]

We talked for years after a while, but it was just talking not really meeting we only met one time after

[LavLavLuv]

He cheated on me with my high school chairmate lol

[Luckycharms12]

Of course think majority of people have it's life you over it

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I've been cheated on by two different women. That's tough to get over.

[Anonymous]

Actually no lol is that bad

[Anonymous]

Nah because I don't give importance to anyone

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Fortunately no

[rainbowww]

Yes, it happened

[swettannie]

already?

[rainbowww]

Yeah