If your spouse cheated on you with your best friend would you be more upset with your spouse, your best friend or both equally?

[Anonymous]

Would be more upset with spouse

Would be more upset with best friend

Would be equally upset at both

[Bricealan]

Well, she wasn't my spouse, just a short-term girlfriend, but she tells me she fucked my, then, best buddy, and did so by informing me that she knew the size of his penis. That pretty much cinched it. I did not break off with her because of the comment, but DID break off after catching her 'in the act' in her apartment one morning...

I don't place the blame on anyone. It just was and/or was.

[Oldschool1981]

I can easily forgive cheating in a relationship to the point where it isn't a deal breaker, except something like this

[Anonymous]

Both.

Friend because the friend knew I was with him and still chose to go there not caring that she was going to hurt me in the process or did she care about the friendship

Him because he was the one who asked me to be his girlfriend or fiance or wife and his ass couldn't stay loyal

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

I would cut them both completely out of my life.

[Anonymous]

Only the spouse.
The third party had no commitments towards me.

[balyai]

Equally lol. They both have done it. And you deserve better. Make that douchebag your ex

[boggboss]

Equally as pissed I would think

[jahaims]

Spousal betrayal is 100x worse than a friend's.