DON'T. Not only will you need to keep this secret from him but also from every future guy and your value to every man will become ZERO. Sharing this will leave you vulnerable. Maybe you tell one close female friend but it doesn't mean they won't tell others - especially if you fall out.
IT IS NOT THAT LUCRATIVE as you might think. It is a winner take all industry. I saw a yt on how much girls make on only fans and there were a dozen OF girls and 3 other girls were guessing their monthly income. One girl earn't several hundred thousand a month. The others earn't between a couple hundred dollars a month to 500.
Some girls simply know how to appeal to guys a lot more than ordinary girls. Are you really one of those elite girls? Have men eaten out of your hand in the past?
It sounds easy - you just have to wank them and you have given hand jobs before. But oddly strippers, handjobs and full sex costs about the same amount per minute. So eventually guys will figure I can get my cock in for what I am spending. You might be one of the girls who earns at the top or you might earn at the bottom.
The problem is you can't walk it back once you have done it once. You will always be a prostitute thereafter.
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in my opinion, if you do this behind his back, he WILL find out, and you will probably lose your relationship with him - and may end up in an even worse financial situation. You REALLY need to discuss this with him and figure things out together - that's what a relationship IS. If you try to do something like this behind his back, you will almost certainly make things worse, rather than better, and may end up putting yourself in a situation where your ONLY option is to do things that you definitely don't want to do.
So let me get this straight.
You are far more interested in being, and okay with being, a prostitute then asking your friends and family for help? If you're so embarrassed to ask them, how do you think friends and family are going to treat you if they find out? Probably like dirt.
Since you said elsewhere your boyfriend doesn't want you to unless no other means do you honestly think he'll be thankful for you doing this? He won't. He'll likewise view you quite negatively.
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Instead of being sooo willing to be cheap get another job. Tell your boyfriend to get off his ass - his debt is not your debt. Look for online work, etc fundraisers, etc.
There's so many avenues to get money without becoming a cheap whore
Sounds like you both have growing up to do. I mean, are you even serious about this relationship? Why would you start hiding things from him. It’s a bad foundation. You both need to get your head out of the clouds and back to reality. Get normal jobs, 2 for each of you, if necessary. That way you won’t even have time to think about these fantasy land careers.
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Well, did he run up debts he cannot pay or would him getting a job or two jobs solve the financial problems?
I hope do mind asking me..
because to be honest... boyfriend? not husband?
If boyfriend ruined you financially it is his mess. Why would you sell your body over him? Brake up and let him deal with his own shit. If you sell your body like that and money is rolling in... he will ruin you again.. because those people can not handle money and the never will
don't stay with him because you love him and he is a sweet guy. Staying with him in the end brings you also to the ground with huge debt. and loosing everything you have.. house, car and your job
When you are married it will be a different story , you also have to pay for his debt. that is the law.
I hope you choose the best for your own being.. and not his
I trade and crypto is so difficult I won’t touch it. Bad move. He needs to get a job or two. Sublet the apartment and get a pop-up trailer to live in if you can afford it until you can build positive cash flow again. If you have an RV/camper to live in you can travel to where jobs are. I know of ranches that are desperate for help, will pay $25/hr for unskilled labor, more when hands learn the ropes. The two of you can bounce back if you work as a team. I strongly recommend against sex work especially behind his back.
Since it was him that screwed up it is up to him to make it right, not you. But I'm thinking you really want to do it, and not for the reason you state. A word to the wise. Not everyone on Only Fans make a ton of money. It's time for your boyfriend to go back to work and make money the old, hard way.
Ask him for his input. Be open and transparent with your partner. I know it may seem nerve-wrecking, but just be honest. Tell him what you are considering and ask him for his input. Set boundaries and rules regarding the sex work. If he wants to, allow him to participate in some positive way.
Did he use your money as well, if he has that blatant disrespect for you that he would invest your money without your permission drop him immediately. As for your question if you will lose your apartment i think its fair, he fucked you two over and if you think that's how you can salvage it then go for it.
His mistake was quitting his job and putting all his eggs into one basket. Why should you suffer to make it right when he screwed up? i get it, you're a team but still. This tells me more about your lack of dignity for considering selling your body in secret.
Keeping it a secret is not a good way to handle it frankly there is no real good to breach the subject. I my self think the best way to handle it to sit down and talk about how to get out of this situation and at some point ask him what he would think about you working in the sex industry to help get out of your problem on a temporary basis as a massage parlor worker.. Wishing you a lot of luck!
listen im SW sex worker... he needs to snap out of it if you'll be selling your time or your body it needs to be for you and you only... hell see the money coming in and might get jealous or might get comfortable of sitting on his ass... your not a awful person but he is a grown man abd if he can't man up and crawl up out that whole and do what he needs to do then thats a problem it takes two not one
How about Mr. Crypto genius eats some humble pie and asks for his old job back? Or at the very least applies to every similar job opening! I can't believe what I am reading here!!!
Why not just get another normal job.. get him up and looking for a new job.. you have plenty of options besides cheating on the guy and selling yourself lol
you would do it for him but you might lose him Can't he get a loan? I believe the best way is to be honest with him
honey anything u do must be discussed with ur partner... u both love each other n u both want to work things out so whatever ur plan is u should work it together
And you're more embarrassed about asking friends for help than about being a prostitute?
Suck it up and ask your friends. If they're really your friends they'll help you.Forgetting about you for a moment, just WHAT is he doing in attempting to put things right?
So your solution is to be a whore? You won't be able to hide this from him, especially when he starts asking how you are paying for things. He likely won't (and shouldn't) forgive you either. If you want to help him get a real job.
Do what you want. Just be safe about it, and don't tell him. Thatll just cause problems. But get tested a lot, don't give him something
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Yes if u keep it from him it makes u a shitty person funny how you are more open to cheating for pay then asking for help from friends
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Don't do it. You tell that bum to get off his lazy ass and go get a goddamned job like a real man
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