Do you enjoy the feeling of being lucky to have someone or do you like your partner being lucky to have you more?

[Still-alive]

I like the feeling of being lucky to have my partner more

I like the feeling of them being lucky to have me more

I like both equally

I don't like either of these feelings

[dynamicyandere]

It’s best for it to feel mutual — like you both feel lucky to have found each other.


But if I HAD to choose one or the other, I would rather them feel like they’re lucky to have me because I don’t take love for granted but my love has been taken for granted several times.


I know how to keep myself in check, to not let my ego get out of control, to make sure that I’m taking care of them well, and that all their needs are met.


Many of my exes did not operate with the same level of care.


And things just didn’t work out.


I’m grateful that in my current relationship, we both value each other equally and put a lot of effort into making sure the other is cared for as they should be.

[Bethany22]

As long as I don't feel taken advantage of, then I'm fine savouring the feeling of being lucky to have them rather than the other way around. I feel the most mentally healthy when I'm amazed at my partner. When I'm feeling as though my partner should be feeling lucky to have me, then I just feel resentment if they don't show that they are lucky to have me, and it brings out arrogance in me.

[midnightmoon05]

We are lucky to have each other and we tell each other often!

[clampfan101]

I like for the feeling to be mutual.

[Sparkie460]

I'm the lucky person in my marriage