Hey guys. sigh. i’m not happy at all. i’m not sure if it’s my relationship or i’m not happy with myself? my boyfriend used to take me out on dates, go on adventures, or we used to go fishing or even a picnic…now we don’t do anything. i asked him why and he said that we will but never does anything, then one day he said that im not worthy. ever since that day its all I've thought about. I've asked him if he thinks that and he says no. however, now thats how i feel. we dont go out on dates, we barely hangout and he ignores me a lot. yes ill admit that i am a negative person, but thats because of all the things he has put me through. name calling, liking girls bikini and butt pictures and DMing other girls. my self esteem was low when i first got with him but now it’s EXTREMELY low. he has apologized for everything he has said and done in the past, he said he was going through a rough time and he’s not the same person he was. now we barely do anything. i must admit i dont don’t do anything to occupied my day. all i do is work and i go straight home and i wait for him to call me and see if he wants to hangout. more times then not, he doesn’t call. i dont have any friends, the people i hangout with is my sister and my lame ass boyfriend. i know i can do things myself and create hobbies and stuff, but i have no motivation to. i’m so unhappy with how everything is going. what can i do to boost my happiness and myself esteem. i don’t want this lame kid to be the center of my happiness. i want to be happy within myself.
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How can I be happy within myself while in a relationship?
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You need a professional help. Low self-esteem is mostly just an effect caused by other problems. With this, creating a healthy relationship is not possible.
By getting rid of your current crappy relationship, improving yourself, and then getting into a good relationship.
have you considered counseling?
yes 100% i just don’t have the money to go see one. i work atm from 8am-5pm Monday- Friday. and the therapist i want to go see doesn’t open on Saturday or do televist. also all my money is going towards bills. i have so much credit card debt that i want to pay off.