it's easy. I have been single for long periods of time by choice. I could come and go as I pleased, didn't have to ask "permission" if I wanted to buy another motorcycle, classic car, truck or what ever. I had great friends, I stayed active, my happiness was not based on being with someone else, I didn't have to go to my partners 3 cousins wedding on a championship race night, throw my crap on one of my bikes and try to remember is it left turn day or right turn day and go have fun for a few days. It was easy to laid if I wanted to, or if someone else wanted to ride me like a rented mule for the night, and then move on. Find good friends, let them know to please no fix up dates, find things you like to do and go live life. Who gives a crap if you see a move by yourself, or go out to eat alone, again, you are an adult, life is all too short so go out there and have fun. It starts with the first step. SO put the book down and go have fun. It isn't rocket science. What have you always wanted to do and never did? Now go do it! It's that easy.
To "be single" is to be completely open to life's potential and adventures but NOT a lifetime's objective. You're ideally seeking the company of someone your soul can invest in and come to trust amid THOSE adventures.
Possibly to futurely engender the next generation, to perpetuate YOUR life's experience and wisdoms that ALL YOU'VE learned does not go to waste amid the sands of Time!
I’ve never seen that book but the title seems to be leading one to finding happiness WHILE single, not how to STAY single.
Staying single is easy. I’d guess, however, you have something more specific than simply staying single. Are you trying to play the field with lots of male attention but no commitment? Avoid men entirely? Just date casually then move on?
If you're as old as your profile suggests you are, that should have already ceased to be a problem. If it is still a problem, the cleavage shot profile pic might be contributing (assuming you do that everywhere else too).
All the book needs is twenty-three words “Staying single is simple just become wealthy and learn to say no. There is even a simpler way just commit a bad crime.”
At your age remaining single will be very easy for you, but you will likely regret it when you start having health problems and nobody gives a damn or will help you.
