Who is it from your past that you have lost touch with that you would like to reconnect with? What do you want to tell them?

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aceleon · Accepted Answer

my best friend whom i am still seeing and hang out everyday with our group.

i hate the fact that we lost our 15 year of bond over not sharing same interest and my jealousy of both you and the 3rd friend i will call 3rd here and how you 2 got closer even though i was the one who first befriended with both of you, i never got cheated on in my life but i do wonder if it feels like this, it isstrange that when in our daily lives it just pisses me off but now writing this i feel like i could cry, i hate to say this but i wish you never returned from college, at least my other best friend would be mine this way.

oh my god i don't even wanna believe how pathetic i am sounding and this makes me hate both of you even more, i could hate myself too of course since only reason we are the way we are right now is my disinterest in cars and soccer, i wish i at least played league of legends or pubg when you 2 forced me to play in the past, at least we would still have them to connect us, i don't even know if i should hate the world for having most guys being too interested in cars and soccers or myself because i have no interest in them which prevents me from having as much guy friend as i would like to (strangely enough i got blessed with having so many girls comparred to my age but again i would trade all the girls i slept with for having that much male friends, female friends or sex doesn't give the happiness i got from male friends the sense of belongment, power, family, the feeling of being home, i never get this from girls only thing i get from them is lust, feeling of dominance, erotism, ego boost and appetite, it feels like i am having a delicious meal but sadly it ends when i am filled)

funny that even though i had a father for all of my life the reason i feel like i have none is the same things that made me lost my bond with the 2 guys i grew up as brothers, my lack of interest in soccer and cars literally cost me my father and my brothers.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Accepted Answer

My first cousin, Christine. I would like to tell her I'm sorry it took so many years to reconnect.

AviatorTom · Answer

After I moved away from my hometown, I lost touch with a good friend. He was the best man at my wedding, and I the best man at his wedding, both many years ago. It would be nice to get in touch again and exchange what's happened in our lives over the years.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

There are a few women from my past about whom I am curious, but experience has taught me to leave the past in the past.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

No one. I am looking forward not behind.

Cody2004 · Answer

I actually think about this a lot normally I say I never had a crush on anybody but that's a lie. In grade 8 there was this person I liked I was so immature back then. I don't blame her for rejecting me I would have done the same thing lol. We still remained good friends though but I still wish that I would have spoken up when she tried to say somewhat sexual stuff to tease me I guess. I wish I would have told her what I was feeling at the time and that being sexual with her wasn't my intentions. Instead I sat there like a dumbass too embarrassed to say anything. That's the thing I regret the most because I think that was most likely her view of me.

HotLentilzzz · Answer

A guy I met from a dating app from a little over a year ago. I tried to reach out again back in September but he didn't answer. Every single guy I met up with since him was literally worse than the last. I would tell him that yes, we can hook up even though he doesn't want to commit to me. At least he was clean, neat, talked to me and was attractive and I felt more at ease with him.

Got to the point where we were texting for months but never met up again because he wouldn't see me unless we hooked up. I really liked him though and miss him 🤷‍♀️ Was the first guy I ever met up with and was my first kiss.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Jennifer Marcin.
I have nothing in particular I wanna say (other than, maybe a chance to explain to her what happened that night at her place in Aug. `86), I'd just like us to be best friends, again, mostly because there was NO reason for us to have ever STOPPED being best friends!
And, Nadejda Moncheva because we were planning to get married until something at her end spooked her and made her stop talking to me. Even though she's with another guy, now, I'd still like to be friends with her.

Dr_CEI · Answer

It would have to be a close female friend that I crushed hard on in my late teens. She came to my wedding and when she congratulated me she whispered in my ear "now I can never have you" I always thought I was deep in the friend zone. So I'd want to ask her if she meant it and did she have feelings for me

sean1234 · Answer

It's better to forget. Remember things that can't be changed. What is the word again people use? Toxic?

With Jesus eminent 2nd coming, I would tell them the good news as much as possible along with warnings...

John 9:40-41

And some of the Pharisees which were with him heard these words, and said unto him, Are we blind also? Jesus said unto them, If ye were blind, ye should have no sin: but now ye say, We see; therefore your sin remaineth.

This is the problem with most Christianity and others.

Drew-1990 · Answer

My best friend in my young school years. I would honestly just say "hwy want to game and play some games like old times" I don't know if we would become friends again at this point I our life's we probably both very different people but be fun to reminisce about our old friendship just for fun.

Kpersaud2 · Answer

My group of female friends.

We use to go shopping, outings, city drives, and more together. Enjoyed the jokes, roasts, and drama.

I would tell them “I made it but with 2 jobs. I miss you all and Emely, you were right about her. She’s gone 😅”

dreamstar72 · Answer

No one, lose all my friends at the age of 17. Had a bad freak accident and was written off as being dead, due to unbelievable events and medical circumstances that took place during the first four months. After I survived I was treat as though I was a ghost. At least I have a nice wife and daughter, about all I need.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I do really miss my friend Nick because he was the best guy to hangout with when we were kids, teenagers and in our early 20's we worked together for a few months and it was really fun but I suppose you gotta leave the past in the past. We used to be good friends but I suppose now we are nothing lol.

exitseven · Answer

i had a friend when I was in college. She was engaged to my roommate. After they broke up we remained friends. She really was my best friend for a few years. She went to grad school in DC and I never saw her again.

Lionman95 · Answer

Former colleagues or better people I studied with. I would tell them I miss them since I haven´t met people since my colleagues don´t have their level of intelligence.

TheSpider · Answer

My first girlfren We were so innocent. We parted virgins. I lost track of her over the decades. I still remember holding her and smelling her perfume. I'd like to say to her that I still loved her.. But its been forty odd years,, and she died ten years ago. Guess, Ill see her in Heaven.

JayBones · Answer

My best friend and ex mistress. I want to tell her "the porch light is off. Get fucked you stray cat" I didn't tell her that enough and it shows. The foods gone. I don't look out for you to see if your safe anymore. You probably got run over. Lol.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It used to be my parents, brother, and sister, but that dream faded a long time ago.

Anonymous · Answer

My best friend. I want to tell her I miss her and I’m still there for her if she ever needs me.

Sharkstealth · Answer

Every woman I ever had sex with. I don't really want to say anything to them because they stopped for their own reasons. I just want to be with them again although they would be very different now. Some even no longer living.

CozyCoffin · Answer

There is one woman I wish I could reconcile and start over with, but I understand her point of view. She was the only woman that ever wanted to be with me while also not being controlling.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Someone i had a misunderstanding with, i send them a email tho, everything I had to say was on the email.

Surely · Answer

A couple of people I wish I could reconnect with. But they passed away at a young age.  Maybe eventually we will meet once again!

lolilola · Answer

A whole bunch of them, friends pre covid that I've removed from my life. I'd like to tell them how they've hurt me. But, I don't think I'll do that.

azure81 · Answer

Sometimes I wish I had an another chance with exes. You know you grow, learn and live, so you could have a different experience and get it right.

In_Trance · Answer

Move on

MrZameer · Answer

a childhood friend, And two female friends from here

krafty_Ngro · Answer

My dad, I want to tell him that I was glad he left and that he should’ve left sooner.

Jennz6 · Answer

My girlfriend

abc3643 · Answer

No one. Not a single fucking person.

Kelly6 · Answer

One college best friend boyfriend

LavLavLuv · Answer

A few friends from middle school

DagonbroughtMehere · Answer

Everyone I knew has.

moneymagnet24 · Answer

My math teacher I lost my virginity with her...

azgınteke · Answer

ı miss you hacer

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

No one i guess!

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No one

eagle1951 · Answer

no one

Who is it from your past that you have lost touch with that you would like to reconnect with? What do you want to tell them?

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My first cousin, Christine. I would like to tell her I'm sorry it took so many years to reconnect.

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