How would/or did you feel when a partner said they are afraid to lose you?

[Anonymous]

If a partner was really vulnerable and was honest about their abandonment fears regarding you. I. e. that they were afraid to lose you or they were afraid you were planning on finding someone better how would or did you feel. React or respond?

If you reassured them did you mean it?

[BonzoInBitburg]

This happened with my wife at the beginning of our relationship. I just started sending her random pictures during the day. Some were of funny things that happened and others were at work to show her what I was working on or what I was making to eat. She said that it made her feel like she was with me during the day.

[SolitarySolace]

None of my partners have ever told me they were afraid to lose me. Makes sense though because they all cheated on me. But that’s my fault though right? 😑 Can’t consider all women to be cheaters until after they’ve cheated on me.

[sheikalana]

I felt the need to make him feel that that's not going to happen and made sure to keep him close to me and protect me. He's my husband now.

[Asker]

🥰😍🥰

[Minnow21]

I would reassure them that they are who I want to be with and I love them, and when I did this I mean it, every single word. We just went through a break up and that statement still stands true, even if they don't reciprocate

[FunkyMonkee]

I've never had that.

[laly520]

u gotta reassure em