I noticed this with girls in my school but i know guys do it too.
there’s been times at my school where i see a girl showing signs to a guy when they already got a boyfriend
1. One time i saw a girl say to a guy “ur cute can i have ur number” and she said she had a boyfriend already.
(in this case this girl probably wants an ego boost or wants to replace there boyfriend or have a second option. There’s many other cases where i saw this too)
2. Another time i saw a girl already in a relationship but tried to get with another guy and replaced her boyfriend for the other guy.
(i think in this case it’s because they’re not happy with there current relationship).
3. I remember a girl showing interest in me then later she got a boyfriend but then she still showed interest. I’m assuming she either doesn’t like her relationship or she’s like the girl from number 1.
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There are a few reasons why some guys/girls might try to show interest in someone else even when they're already in a relationship:
1. Boredom/Lack of fulfillment in their current relationship - If they're not feeling satisfied or engaged with their partner, they may start looking elsewhere for excitement and validation.
2. Ego boost/Attention seeking - Flirting with someone new can make them feel desirable and boost their ego. It's like getting interest from another person strokes their ego, even if they don't plan to act on it.
3. Issues with commitment - Some people just aren't suited for monogamy and get restless always wanting the "next best thing." Flirting helps them feel less tied down.
4. Rebound opportunity - They may be looking to line up someone new before actually ending their current relationship. This gives them a soft landing when they break up.
5. Immaturity - Younger or just immature people may not fully understand the meaning of commitment yet and the impact their actions have on others.
Of course, it's never cool to mess with someone else's feelings like that or disrespect your partner. If they're not happy, they should end it before moving on rather than juggling people. Shows a lack of integrity, you know?
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true tbh. They don’t seem worth it. Do you think the girls who wanna be friends with attracrive guys are also cheaters? I mean it at least shows they’re not super loyal
depends
some only wants to make friendships while others wants to cheat tho if she picks friends just cuz of they r attractive then big chance she wants to cheat
yeah it’s possible. I think it’s weird some of them mention there boyfriend but it’s probably to make them look less bad. I also think some of them look for attractive friends so people won’t be like “eww they’re dating” and instead it’ll be like “aww what a cute couple”
pretty superficial if they have friends just for that