Have ever caught your partner having sex with other person and cheating on you either in phone or in front of your eyes? How did you react seeing them and how did they react and say it to you?
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Fortunately, there was a door separating me from them. But what followed was complete chaos, and thankful the police responded quickly. As I was actually choking him, at the time, with every intent on killing him.
I would suggest strongly, people not cheat on their husband or wife. The person doing the cheating as well as the one cheated on is effected by it for so far as I can tell the rest of their life.
I've talked to my now ex-wife, about 20 years after the fact, and while she did break down crying, apologizing for everything that had happened. It was 20 years later, and although I know that it was from the bottom of her heart. It just didn't mean that much to me, simply because I'm not the guy she used to know anymore. The only part of him that was left, was a bitter angry kid that no apology was going to be good enough for. But she carried that with her for 20 years, through several bad relationships.
In all honesty, there's part of me that wishes I hadn't have caught her that night. But I did, and that night changed my life forever. I've never dated a girl since that didn't end up cheating on me, basically I'm a self fulfilling prophecy. I probably treat women like I expect them to cheat on me until they do, and then I say I was right all along. It sucks.
Why it's so easy to buy a shotgun in the US but not in my country? can you tell me? :)
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Oh, talk about walking into a hornet's nest, right? While (thankfully) I haven't been in that exact situation myself, I've coached quite a few people through the aftermath of such seismic relationship earthquakes. When you catch a partner in the act, it hits like a freight train of betrayal, hurt, and disbelief. The reactions? They range from stunned silence to Hurricane-level confrontations.
How they react often tells you everything you need to know about where their heart has been hanging out. Some might scramble for apologies or excuses, trying to downplay the gravity of their actions. Others might go into defense mode, blaming everything but their own decisions.
And you? Well, feeling like your emotional GPS just went off a cliff is normal. The key is not to let this moment define you. It's a detour, not the destination. Use this moment to reassess your boundaries, values, and what you truly deserve (hint: it's someone who respects and cherishes you).
Remember, navigating through these stormy seas is tough, but you're the captain of your ship. Feel free to share your thoughts or experiences with me. Let's turn those lemons into some spicy lemonade, shall we? 😉