I was in the early stages of dating this guy at work. He invited me out with some of his friends, I really wasn't sure about it but he promised he'd look after me and we'd have a good time.
Firstly he sent me to the wrong location and blamed another friend then he had little tiff with that friend who also liked me. That friend also turned out to be a massive creep too but that's a different story.
So anyway we get to the bar and I need to go toilet I asked him to save me a seat and when I came back my bag was on the floor away from the table and he hadn't saved me a seat meaning I had to sit on another table with some people I didn't know very well.
He ended up ditching me to go clubbing with his friends. I had to get my mum to pick me up at one in the morning from the middle of town I was only 18 and this was the first guy I'd ever really liked.
I cried the entire way home and swore to never speak to him again after a horrible night.
Then the night day at work all the boys are talking at work saying apparently this guy I was dating nearly hooked up with a girl in the night club toilets. This broke me and I said I was done with him.
Stupidly I gave him multiple chances over a two year period and he let me down everytime.
His excuse for him kinda cheating on me was but I wasn't slutty enough for him and he didn't cheat as he was to scared to lose his virginity that night but he told all the men at work it was because he couldn't find her
Yup.
My first boyfriend carried on an affair with a married woman twice our age (who happened to be our mutual boss when we were younger) for three months.
I knew he met with her, but I didn't have reason to believe he was cheating at the time. I did feel suspicious, but I gave him benefit of the doubt - apparently he took that as encouragement.
He had her over for his birthday, despite me offering to take the day off to pamper him. And he left all the evidence out. Balloons, cake, the lunch she made him.
It was obvious and he neither denied not confirmed anything. Which was enough evidence for me. I kicked him out of the bedroom and two weeks later I left him in the apartment (I spoke with the landlady and told her of the situation, we'd already agreed he would stay in the place, and she let me break my lease).
Three months later, the side piece texted me and tried to be a friend? She wanted to meet up and mock my ex, but I told her that was stupid and unnecessary. He'd learned his lesson, and even if he hadn't, I had zero interest in interacting with him and even less in interacting with her. She even told me her husbad was still keeping her around, so I told her she should work on being a better wife and that she needs to be thankful he's giving her another chance. Then, I told her never to contact me again.
A few months later, I even ran into my ex's old boss and she didn't know I'd dumped him!
For at least four months, my ex was lying to everyone (including his mom, cause she texted me happy bday) that we were still together.
But I'd heard from his boss he was falling apart. He'd been late often, looked and acted haggard. It was hilarious.
When I finally dropped my key off, he kept me waiting at the entrance for 30 mins because he had a breakdown realizing just how he'd fucked everything up.
It was fantastic.
girlfriend 1 flat out told me that she'd been seeing another guy recently, she was selling Avon door to door and met a guy she'd been fucking but, if that's actually true or not is another story. I suspect she was just saying that to make me give her up easier.
GF2 suddenly started seeing her ex-hubby again instead of me and ended up going back to him.
girlfriend 3 had been seeing her FRIEND, David for a couple years but, I trusted her and believed her when she said he was her FRIEND!! I never caught them together but there WERE a few times I'd go over to her place and she'd say she went for a walk with him and her dogs or she was about to go for a walk with him and them and, one evening, I was at work and walked right past her in town at a bus stop where she was waiting to catch a bus to go see him!!
For the previous year or two before we broke up, every time I'd ask if she was coming over for family get togethers (Christmas, Easter, etc.) she always said she'd made plans to spend them with him or her Turkish friends, a married couple we both worked with. Finally, I called her up to see if she was coming over for Thanksgiving (2001) because my aunt wanted to know how much to cook and how many places to set at the table. She, again, said, "No, I can't. I'm spending it with my FRIEND, David." After having heard that quite often the past 2 years, I jokingly asked, "What are you gonna do, MARRY the guy?" After a long pause, she said, "Well... yes.". I dropped her like a hot brick!!
After being with this guy for another year, she said something to me about how he did a really terrible thing that scared her and she left HIM and went back to India!! Last I heard, she's teaching philosophy or something at a university in Denmark. As far as the Mel Brookes movie, "History Of The World Part One" goes, that makes her a bullshit artist!! How appropriate!
I bit her nipples off and took her implants out! No, not really.
Went to her apartment on Monday morning, because her car was not in the parking lot, where it usually is parked. My dad and I spent Sunday, all day, working on her car, fixing a broken window, and some other various problems with it. When I got to her apartment, the door was not locked, which was not only unusual, but stupid to leave it unlocked.
Opened the door and there she stood, naked, lighting a cigarette in the living room and she picked up a pillow from the couch to cover her tits and crotch. Didn't know what to say, to her, as I knew she had been fucking all night with someone she picked up Sunday night.
I went to work, talked to a friend at work and later went to her apartment, and threw a fit, and broke a dish or something. Later, like a stupid ass, I helped her move to another apartment. Of course, never saw her again. I knew she had been fucking others but never caught her in the act before.
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I think when I first broke up with the last guy I was with, he was trying to decide whether to chase me again or whether to date his best friend cause his best friend was far more educated than me, it was just she had more guys chasing after her so was a higher risk to date and keep. I think if I reach my goals in life, I will be too good for him so he is not a priority for me now.
u My then-wife cheated on me with another female in her AA circle. I heard about it through a mutual acquaintance because, apparently, they weren't being very discrete about it. We were divorced about three months later.
I've only been cheated on by my ex wife after about 18 years of being together. She actually told me that she would now want to have an "open relationship" given that she had a candidate at hand that she wanted to explore things with. I refused but she went ahead anyway. Divorce is still ongoing but the lawyer put a settlement offer together now.
On the positive side, I was alone only for a year and a half in which I found dating a thrilling experience. I'm living with a wonderful woman now.
yes, twice.
I thought something was going on with my ex-wife, and I did the come home early and I found her in bed, the landlord backing into the closet trying to pull up his pants.
She asked what was I doing there and I told her I used to live here.
It was 3 days before Christmas.
They never ended up together, and his wife divorced him.
I had an ex-girlfriend that was cheating, I figured it out, she wasn't all that smart, so I had enough.
It was maybe 6 moths or so she came to my business to see me, we talked a bit, not about what she had done, and I could tell she wanted to get back together, I still had feeling for her, but I didn't think I could get over the cheating thing, and I had started seeing someone else, so I never acted on it.
I guess the grass wasn't so green after all for her.
I still kind of wonder what if...
I've only had a couple of exclusive relationships and I'm married to the last one, so no.
In my younger more promiscuous years, nothing really counted as cheating since there was no exclusivity. I'm glad those days are long gone, though.
Women think that is empowering, but thinking back I feel I just disrespected myself.
Yes my ex wife cheated on me with a co worker, I busted them red handed by trusting my gut instincts , I knew something was off so I played investigator and I played it like I didn’t suspect anything , before I knew it , I busted her meeting him at a hotel and immediately filed for divorce wi had all the evidence I needed to take her ass down in court , She ended barely getting shit.
I have been cheated on. I found out when she told me about it afterwards. She did actually feel really bad about it but I didn't let it slide.
I ended it the next day after we talked about it more.
I was patient with anything and everything. But being cheated on is where I draw the line.
by every girlfriend i have had. 1st love, got a call from her brst friend telling me what she was up to, about an hour after leaving girlfriend's, lived with her bro-in-law and sister. her own sister wanted to beat her ass for this too. (bestie knew i was a good guy and didn't deserve the betrayal) not going into the others. also gave her another chance, years later. turned out she was about a month pregnant by another dude was the real reason she would share a bed with me but no sex.
It has happened if cheating is defined as a boyfriend dating another girl. I change boyfriends every few months anyway. Therefore, it is no big deal. I just change boyfriends. It is easy to get a new boyfriend.
Sorry to hear about your broken 💔. Would love to meet this woman to see what your boyfriend saw in her to risk loosing you over!
Might have been cheated on while in a rebound relationship. Actually, was probably a good thing. Because we were not made for each other. That is why I gave up getting involved too deeply in those relationships.
One time in couldn’t eat and the next time I couldn’t stop eating!
Can’t figure out why anybody would cheat on you if that’s your picture but yes I’ve been cheated on but I was married and I caught them because of the fact that her cell phone account was on mine and I could see all the calls and I could track her phone where she was
Yeah, my ex LD. It was revenge. I cheated on her after 4 months LDR. I continued to do it. I just didn't feel sexually satisfied.
I should have broke up with her. She wanted a LDR but couldn't stand to have something sexual.
I honestly thought she was gonna broke up with me, instead of cheating for revenge. Anyway, it ended. I felt it was a pen pal relation I was into. Far from what I expected.
I did get cheated on sort of. We were not really "official" and she went out with some other guy.. it really hurt and I was really angry but eventually we got back together again.
1st and 2nd time, too overwhelmed to do much. Innocent punk that couldn’t process what I was seeing. 3rd time, I didn’t care and took advantage of the situation. Long story.
He must have bumped his head really really hard before he cheated that guy's silly
I have been a couple times. One I was told by her friends, the other I realized when they broke up with me to be with the guy they'd been dating at the same time as my
I walked in on her and another guy. I packed my stuff as they were still going at it and walked out.
I haven’t been, but my friend has. He found out while he was at a wedding with her!
Not that I know of. Sorry to hear about your breakup. You look great in the photo.
Yes.
She was cheating with neighbor
I caught them and then I joined
Threesome was my fetish for long and was wondering how to get her into it
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