If you have ever been cheated on, how did you catch him/her cheating?

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ilovelamp · Accepted Answer

1. A friend called me and told me he saw my girl friend with my "best friend" at the mall, said they were pretty dam close looking like a couple. After that they just mysteriously happen to "bump into each other" more often out of nowhere... ya, right. I'm good looking but my old pal was 10/10 model quality from what other women have said so~ anyway.

2. The next one was from messages on her social media. She flipped out thinking i was cheating (she was projecting) and demanded to see my messages. So after i let her check it all out, i was like ok, now let me see yours. she hesitated and refused said to give her some tiiiime to think so i left the room and she called me back in. got access. See on this one social media platform, when you delete messages they didn't actually stay deleted you could click on deleted and read them. She was meeting up several other guys. who were apparently just "friends". haha.
Got confirmation of the cheating when i picked her up from her "girl friends" place after a night of partying. Go up to the door and a half naked dude answers it, 1 bed in the place which was she still in. Another guy came in behind me with coffee and said she dropped her necklace last night at his place.

3. When i was younger tried giving the whole long distance relationship shit a shot. we were "in a relationship" but like 8 months into it wooow ya she came clean on fucking so many other dudes. "Oh, you were serious about waiting until you could move here!"

Number 1 was a supposed good girl and was a good girl friend up to the point mentioned.
Number 2 was a 10/10 in the looks department but a total whore, slut. Nympho.
Number 3, evidently i never REALLY knew so won't mention.

So one was from an actual friend calling me and telling me whatsup, one who doesn't lie. Another was from social media and confirming it in person. Another was from her own admission. and there was a 4th or 5th where simply connecting the dots was enough to know.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've been cheating on my girlfriend for quite a while. Only online stuff, sending and receiving pictures and video. I'm open with those women that I'm not single and they seem to get a thrill out of it. Furthest I've gone so far is happy ending massages when my girlfriend is at work and thinks I'm still at home since there's a massage place real close by to where we live

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

He left at 4am saying that he “couldn’t sleep” and was going to take a walk. Then he came back home at 7am and got into bed smelling like another woman’s perfume. Later that week I asked him about it, and his answer kept changing. His answer started as “I’m not sure, I didn’t see anyone” then turned into “I met up with a friend, but we didn’t do anything”, then turned into “I gave her a hug but that was all”, and by that point I just said “hypothetically if you DID do something, did you at least use protection?” And he said yes. So I said “you don’t use protection for a hug”. I made him show me the text messages between them and he deleted her number. Me being stupid, I forgave him. 6 months later it happens again and 2 months after that I leave.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Happened more than once, one time I could not figure it out but then I found he was online and I pretended to be someone else, fake accounts and he hit me up, wanted to meet up for sex.

He was surprised when I was the one to show up and break up with him.

Other times it was pure random luck, but I also expect any serious relationship to share phones because that is the #1 way people cheat and get away with it.

If he won't do it, that is fine... we don't have to be together if he doesn't trust me with his phone the something fishy is going on. I let him have my phone and go through it all.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yes. From a friend of the girl he cheated with. I had a feeling he was doing something but I trusted him so I brushed it off. But nah the truth always comes out

electromagnetic · Answer

His girlfriend called me on my way to work to tell me that he’s been cheating on her with me. Then cheating on me with his ex wife and his ex wife with his other ex wife. Long story short, he was messing around with 4 different women from 4 different cities. Since his work required him to travel around, no one expected anything.
His girlfriend called me because they had argued and she kicked him out. He left his phone and when his ex wife called looking for him, he was like wtf. So she looked around his phone and I was also on there. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

AlexisDiani · Answer

The dumb fuck didn't realise that his iPhone messages also popped up on his iPad. So it was pretty obvious when messages saying "can't wait to fuck again this weekend" appeared on his iPad.

berisky23 · Answer

I had my suspicions, disappearing, sketchy about phone, but the guy she was fucking sent me a picture of them in bed together. She wasn't aware of the pic until I of course reacted and called her up going a bit mad. Which is what he wanted. Hurt me heaps but glad they both out of my life

PointTaken · Answer

First one told me but Ina way that she was forced to and then said she was tied down. No marks at all so she was lying. Also the story changed many times through time. The second one I confronted, then saw small evidence on the phone. She said he was really not her type and it'll never be like that. 10 months after wesplit she married him.

EricSummer · Answer

This happened to me once.  She admitted it and asked for an "open marriage". I did not accept and we are now with different people.

Sweety_Torneeya · Answer

As an introvert it is so easy to catch lie of someone else because you remember each and every thing about that guy and when he changes the same statement stated some days ago. Then you came to know that this person is a liar

FreyaRed · Answer

No, I wasted lot of time in a compulsive liar but he didn't cheat. After that I didn't care because it's per definition never something that should last longer than few weeks.

Andres77 · Answer

Came home early, saw extra cars in the driveway, snuck around back and saw them through the bedroom window.

Pegases · Answer

Not saying. These days I think a lot of women are just trying to find ways to be even more sneaky. Don't tell em fellas.

Mimi_758 · Answer

I have never been cheated on thank god if he would ever cheat on me I don't know if i would or could take it :)

Spongebobssocks · Answer

No and if they did I know who to call to have their dick cut off. I'm not joking. I make sure they know🤗

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sure I've been cheated on a few times at least. I'm probably being cheated on right now, but I'll never find out because I don't care. I prefer to remain oblivious and happy.
People cheat, it's the way she goes

msc545 · Answer

Keystroke logger on her computer dumping her input to my email. Caught both sides of every single post and converation.

Anonymous · Answer

Walked in on him getting a blowjob from his sister.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do not know, but if I suspect it I end the relationship because I know from that point forward I will never trust her.

sheikalana · Answer

The other women and her friends texted me lol.

sheena30 · Answer

this isn't to do with the question but what is it like to be the one that had the dirty done to them

Anonymous · Answer

With the first girl you cheated on me I saw them together at the beach. With the second one her sister actually told me.

MysticDevice · Answer

She straight up told me. So I said thanks for telling me and ended things right then and there.

Iron_Man · Answer

I’ve only had one long-term relationship and no I wasn’t cheated on

Vegasrunner · Answer

I've only been caught once in my life and it was awkward.

Greenbins · Answer

I have been a few different ways I found out.  They told me. Other people told me  Saw them together

shades777 · Answer

I've had my suspicions but never was told or found out

Britney04 · Answer

Was walked in on by her wife that’s when I found out she was married.

CubaPirate · Answer

Thankfully to the best of my knowledge I've never been cheated

alearningboy · Answer

For now not cheated or been cheated Im still on my first relationship

eagle1951 · Answer

cause her in bed with him

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Where was the all of the above option? 😂

Anonymous · Answer

nope thank goodness!

LavLavLuv · Answer

Voted B

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