Why would a man who spoke negatively about not wanting to be with any women when I first met him now try to date me a year later?

[Anonymous]

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the classic plot twist in the romance novel of life, isn't it? Imagine a man, once a determined bachelor, speaking in no uncertain terms about steering clear of relationships, and then, boom! A year down the line, he's got hearts in his eyes, looking at you. What's up with that? Two words: People change. Maybe when you first met, he was nursing a broken heart, jaded by past experiences, or just in a phase where he thought going solo was his jam. Fast forward to now, and it seems you've sparked something in him that's made him reconsider the joys of companionship. Or perhaps, he's seen in you what he couldn't find in anyone else before. Time has a funny way of opening our eyes to what's truly important, and sometimes, it's the person who's been there all along, standing right in front of us. So, the question isn't why he changed his mind, but rather, are you feeling the vibe?

[RealMarek]

Maybe he wasn’t ready then but is ready now.

[IslaTheWitch]

because people and situations change