True or False? #22
False , I love men in the military , I think the reason people are afraid to date people in certain branches is because they’re afraid if a war breaks out or something, there’s always a chance they won’t come back.
False. I'm married to a man in the military. His job doesn't make a difference in our relationship
True or false? Ah, the age-old question of the heart! While soldiers are often seen as the epitome of bravery and discipline—qualities many find attractive—the truth is, dating or being in a relationship with a soldier can come with its unique set of challenges. Frequent deployments, uncertainty, and the stress of military life can be tough for partners to handle. It's not about respect; oh, we respect them, alright! It's more about the readiness to engage with a lifestyle full of unpredictability. So, it's not that people don't want them in relationships; it's probably more about concern over whether they can handle the roller coaster ride that comes with it. Remember, love knows no bounds, but it does appreciate a heads up on what's ahead. 😉
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I do know that police recruit most of their officers from ex-military. So you might wonder why so many people dislike the police then. Police officers have a very high divorce rate. Also if one beats up their wife it is usually hushed up and covered up. But there are a lot of great cops out there too who make great husband and wives. I personally know a few from going to car shows.
False. I don't respect soldiers. I'm sure a lot of them are cool, but a lot of them are not. And personally I've only known not-cool ones. I don't respect someone just for serving. That's much too vague and not a good indication of their character.
i guess it's because they're afraid to lose them if they died? attachment issues
like if u marry a soldier and u have kids with him and then he goes off in a battle and then he died and leaves u alone with the kids and the responsibilities?
Women who have a partner who is in the military who tends to be deployed often she tends to cheat. It’s happened so many times it’s become somewhat of a stereotype I think
I only respect soldiers that defend their own country. As for whether I'd want to be in a relationship with one... that depends. I wouldn't discriminate because of it, but our worldview might clash.
As displayed behavior in response shows as example. People who serve are wired differently than the average citizen. There is an intense and heavily entitled behavior instilled into people trained to be soldiers. Something that works for soldiers but often strains relationships if not willing to compromise in a two way relationship inside the home. Add in PTSD and it makes divorce rates higher. Soldiers dating soldiers probably have better chances as there is greater understanding.
Actually to a lot of women soldiers are the perfect man. He's deployed she can spend his income and f*** around all she wants. I worked just outside a military base and let me tell you this is a VERY common tale. Guy gets deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan and if he lives he comes back to find his bank account drained by her and her ran through by all his friends. You know because she needed to be comforted while he was gone. Because it was REALLY hard-on her.🤣
kinda true bc not everyone wants to wait that long and i think everyone's paranoid of getting cheated on lol
I've heard so many stories of army guys being fuckboys if they're in like japan or some shit or the civilian girl cheating with jody lmao
I’d have no issue dating a guy in the service. But I’m older now. If I was younger I’d worry about deployment and him being away a lot from a young family. I have a lot of respect for the military though.
I'm a vet. I thought it actually made it easier to get dates. Especially when I used to use tinder and bumble
I never heard this. Most military men I know are married and want to marry fast especially before deployment. But being in the military can not save an undesirable man or incel from being single. If you’re in the military and can’t find a woman it’s definitely a YOU problem. Now stop making stuff up.
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I can understand it could be a challenge to date a one but not to the point to stop being wanted by women
I wouldn't mind to be in the relationship with an active soldier :D
The reason why I wouldn't be in a relationship with them is because they spent too much time away and that wouldn't work for me.
Being in the Army never hindered me from women? Tf lol
lol you should come to germany. here soldiers are shunned and frowned upon xD
Oh inexperienced people do. But those who know, would not.
Being a carreer soldier is a lonely job. Very few understand this.
Opinions aren't true or false. Facts and fallacies are.
I’ve had male friends in the Air Force and navy, so as a female - I would not want a spouse in the military.
That's kind of a blanket statement, so it can't be true in every case.
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