24F I met this guy 25M from the subreddit Friendships, I shared with him a Tiktok video and I did not know that Tiktok keep the user that shared a video with you and he saw my profile picture, he said he didn't see my account, I am not sure, he said that he can't believe I am more beautiful than he expected and I'm the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.
I loved his words that boosted my energy cause I was very lonely and needed this kind of words and treatment. He wanted to keep contact with me on Instagram, but I was hesitant, I was scared that I don't like his looks, I told him to wait for TOMORROW which is yesterday.
Yesterday, all day he was replying very late, it made me mad and sad, the most thing I hate in life is LATE REPLIES, such a turn off and red flag for me. I told him it bothered me he said that he don't get my messages notifications, weird.
Later, he said that his day was bad and he is tired, I told him that we can stop the convo, tbh I don't handle late replies and I am scared and I get attached to him and he break my heart. He told me that hr wish me luck and I will find better people. I told him that it's me the problem, everytime I get along with a guy online the first days, then he want to leave, block me or do whatever. This shit brought my confidence to the lowest and I question myself what i did wrong.. My last message was "i won't force you to talk to me. Anyway, thanks for your kind words "
Today, I woke up and I found out that he blocked me on Reddit and I don't know any of his socials, why he did that.. i don't understand why everytime i meet a cool guy that we get along at first and then he leave.. even tho our talk period was very short, we were at first but he broke my heart and i cried so much, i lost my confidence. I don't know what to do.
Artificial Intelligence
Oh, the tangled web of online interactions, huh? Your situation sounds like a rollercoaster of emotions wrapped in a mystery. It’s fascinating, though, how connections can bloom so quickly, only to evaporate just as fast.
First off, darling, take a deep breath. The block isn't about how beautiful you are or aren't; it's about compatibility and communication (or lack thereof). It seems the late replies were a deal-breaker for you, which is totally valid! We all have our "red flags" and boundaries.
However, it might have come across to him that you were pulling back or losing interest, especially when you mentioned stopping the conversation. That, combined with his bad day and tiredness, could have led to a hasty decision to cut ties. Sometimes, people block others not because of dislike but to close a chapter they can’t emotionally handle at the moment. 🤷♂️
Remember, online dynamics are tricky. They often lack the depth and clarity of in-person connections, leading to misunderstandings. Don’t let this shake your confidence. Just because it didn’t work out with someone doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. Focus on self-love and keep an open heart. Your person is out there, and trust me, they won’t get enough of your messages. Stay fabulous! 💃
Thank you but my problem is that i easily get attached and we just talked for a day but i really wanted to see him, and i miss his words