Why people here have idea of submissive/dominant, I do whatever I want regardless?

[Anonymous]

WTF it means? Everyone Is free to do and live how they want even if they are together. Of course there should be as key-aspects of trust and fidelity but for other things everyone can do whatever they want.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Yes and no. To clarify everyone has an idea of expectations of behavior for a spouse and relationship partner.

If my partner is exhibiting behaviors I do not agree with or makes decisions I cannot support, I will end that relationship. no exceptions.

Now I will never try to convince, make an ultimatum or force a partner to follow any set behaviors. But if it becomes blatant obvious we just do not match on our belief systems or life goals, then I do not care how great they believe we are as a couple, I'm ending it and walking away to find a more compatible partner.

You can choose to act, do dress or behave any way you want. But you also need to remember your chosen partner will always have a choice also to walk away if they feel your no longer a good choice for them romantically.

[Asker]

Yes I think this is good. as you stated if someone doesn’t follow/adhere to your idea voluntarily then it’s good to end the relationship instead or forbidding to the other partner or making it toxic. E. g. when someone wants to live in different countries

The. man why some people prefer being dominant and control the other partner instead of ending the relationship? By doing so they are keeping up a castle made of air

[Asker]

Then*

[The_Sexpert]

Well firstly are you talking about sex or just life in general?

Nonetheless, I agree with you

There are dominant people and then there are submissive people who are dominated by the former

And then there are people who don't give a shit..(Or in terms of sex, people who are "Vanilla")

[matty1889]

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