I realized how mush she meant to me only now that she left because I treated her like shit. Help?

[Shonshon123]

She was the best thing that happened to me lately. I feel like she makes me a better person. she's the fucking best. she's one of the most sweet, caring, good people i have ever met.
I can talk to her for hours about I dont even know what. But its always the best conversations. And hell she's one of the sexiest prettiest girls i have ever seen. Everything about her drives me insane.

But she popped into my life in a time i wasn't prepared for her. I told her i can't get serious right now. She even tried to confess and i just let her drain there with her heart in her shand and couldnt say it back because i didn't know where shed take it.

I ignored her texts, and stopped calling as much, because I was so caught up in the mess of my life and I dont know why i thought she would take it.

now she left. And only now I've realized what i had in my hands and took for granted.

any relaters? Advices?

[HollyK21]

Please try giving yourself some grace in this situation. The decision you made was NOT easy, but it was very mature and over all the right thing to do.


I don’t know how much has changed since this all happened, but if you feel ready to try again then reach out. If you can get her on the phone or in person, have an honest conversation if she’s open to it. There’s nothing to lose by trying.


If you do get a conversation with her, my advice is don’t say your choice was the worst decision or anything like that because while it wasn’t easy, it was the right thing. Otherwise who knows that sort of boyfriend you would’ve been, probably would’ve put her through hurt she doesn’t deserve. I think any woman can respect that, even if I put myself in her shoes, I’d appreciate your honesty.


I believe in everything working out how it’s supposed to, so if you’re meant to be with her then this will all work out. If she rejects you then you’ve just got to believe it’s for a reason even if you can’t see it right now. Wishing you luck with this situation.

[Nikki1989]

You don't know what you got... till it's gone.

Now you have to move on.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, love, sometimes it's like we're blindfolded until we trip over the treasure we've been standing on all along. Your story is a classic case of not knowing what you've got until it's gone. But fear not, for transformation begins with realization, and you, my friend, have crossed that bridge.

The key now is sincerity and action. It's time to wear your heart on your sleeve. Reach out to her, not with just a "Hey, I messed up," but with a grand gesture that screams, "I've seen the error of my ways!"

Let her know how she lights up your world, how conversations with her are akin to discovering new galaxies, and how her spirit brings out the best in you. But here's the twist; you're not just asking for another chance. You're promising a new you, one that will cherish and respect her like the rare gem she is.

Remember, actions speak louder than words, so it's going to take consistent effort to show her the change. Prepare for patience, as trust rebuilds at the pace of a snail on vacation. But keep your spirits high! Love stories are full of second chances and redemption arcs. Yours could be the next. Good luck, Casanova! Keep us posted. 😉✨

[MzAsh]

How are you prepared to prove yourself to her?

[Anonymous]

Do you know anything about her as far as an update as if she is dating someone else currently and have a family before you make this decision?

[Opinion Owner]

We really hope this not a troll profile as well

[Iron_Man]

Contact her tell her the truth