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When someone is showing signs of being into you or telling you directly, how do you feel/react? Do you believe them? Why/why not?
It's never happened to me, I get the feeling that type of honesty will never find me. It's always a game of attention, presence and smooth boldness.
... and I just don't have the patience for it. Yet.
If only I was too dumbfounded to notice, I'd be relaxed long enough to get close.
The many times I've been that brave (or stupid!), it's always too direct, too honest, too soon or just the last resort; to make it black/white so I can move on sooner.
The reception has always been poor. Whatever was there is gone as I open my mouth, when the mystery goes so does the tension and there's no playingfield between us.
Not sure why I still do it.
It's high time I stop thinking in those lanes and start seeing everyone as flirty friends, just being spicy. Just resist the urge to dare think anything has deeper meaning. They're just friendly.. touchy, eye-batting, chatty, reappearing.. friends.
Sorry, gag for me is almost a journal at times. Too personal. It's part of why I do it.
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I always trust my gut feeling.. it just feels genuine or not.. plus who would bother doing all that if they didn't actually like me, so..
It depends on how long I have known them. I have had guys expressing their desire to date me within 30 mins or an hour of knowing me. It makes me feel scared, honestly and I get the beed to run away.
But, if it is a male friend I have known for a while, it makes me get an ego boost. And I feel joy. Their confessions are validations that I can be loved. Sometimes, it makes my heart flutter, but that is only if I am attracted to the guy to a certain degree.
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you can feel it if someone is genuinely into you... and it's not about words... how he acts toward me, how he looks for time together, how he cares... if I feel the same, we will probably talk about it. If not, it depends on this person, but I would openly show that I have no feelings for them...
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Navigating through the maze of modern romance, when someone is flashing those "I'm into you" signals or outright confessing their feelings, it's a rollercoaster of emotions, right? I lean into the thrill, with a sprinkle of skepticism. Why the caution? Well, in my line of work, I've seen lovebombing, where it's all fireworks at first and then *poof* ghost town. But on a brighter note, genuine connections shine through. It's all in the consistency and depth of their actions over words. So, do I believe them? Yes, but with a keen eye on whether their actions are singing the same tune. It's like a romantic detective story where you're piecing together cues, not just the sweet nothings. 😉
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Actions speak louder than words. Words are nice, but I also want to see actions that go with the words.
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I’ve only twice experienced overt expressions of interest and they both turned more than a little stalkery. Now, if i’m detecting something that seems like it could be signs of interest, i get defensive. I’m assuming that the woman is conning me or that i’m the target of a practical joke, or something of the like.
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I believed my wife. She point blank asked me when we were three months into our relationship "Do you love me? Because i love you." I was floored. I told her "Let me sleep on it, Im not trying to push you off, But i dont want to lie to you and tell you i do and not mean it" I didn't sleep that night. I thought about it, and thought about it, and When morning came, i woke her up with breakfast in bed and told her that i loved her with all of my heart.
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I don't have reasons to not believe them
unless... they're really trying to get in the car with them, then I might suspect... -
@Pinay_ako Truthfully, some women are scam artists or they're trying to get a man arrested. So I for one am very suspicious/guard up if a woman starts flirting with me, flash eyelashes the eyes or tries to get me to flirt back
I for one don't take the bait lol 😂😆 with the nerve of some women these days. ♀️😈😋 Ask me out on w dating app instead is my thinking in my head for such weird women flirting in the job, gross 🤮🤢 -
I’m just like SpongeBob in that situation cause I don’t believe what the guy says
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I was oblivious when it was happening but if they were outright I wasn't trusting it, I certainly wouldn't trust it now
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I don't believe them because I've never been told that by a girl in person. Hard to believe someone could confess love to someone that they met online
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So ur very cold and calculated? Shocking 😮🤣
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I wouldn’t trust them. They may show they’re into me but that can change real fast. Sometimes even actions can fool you.
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Straightforward doesn't happen to me. If it is someone i don't find attractive, i be honest with them. But normally I'm oblivious or play it as she is just being nice.
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Seems like a lot of us would have to evaluate the possibility that we’re being put on.
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If someone is telling you directly you disbelieve them?
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No lol but I'll use it to my advantage to fuck them.
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Actions speak louder than words. Look at what they do, not say.
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That depends on the person but most times I don't believe them doe to my trust issues
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I neither believe it nor trust it.
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Me: I am spoken for good day
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Haha. Yeah, I'd be like my man SpongeBob there.
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