Do you girls’ Love having a Man that will protect you and knock someone out for you?

[Finchie40]

Most girls’ I was in a relationship with that I gave my heart to , Loved how I would protect her if shit went down , it’s just my natural instincts to protect a girl that I love and cherish and it’s pretty much how I was raised as well , I guess you can thank My Grandfather who I considered a Ladies Man that taught me how to be respectful to women. But what I don’t understand is? seeing girls’ with guys’ that don’t protect her? Why do you girls ‘ fall for a guy like that?

[Summerlazing]

Honestly, who doesn’t want a guy who’s willing to stand up for them? In my experience most men have that urge to protect women, even gay guys, I always get surprised by how protective guys who are my mates are. But they just don’t all want to punch someone out to do that. And honestly I really don’t like that either.

You sound like a good guy just trying to do what’s best, but to me it feels like gorillas running around beating their chests and facing off with each other. It feels more like defending your pride, rather than her honour. Sorry!

Guys with muscles do absolutely nothing for me, I mean kudos to them for all that work they’ve put in, it’s impressive, but…nah!

What I love is a clever guy, smart men that are quick and witty, thoughtful and kind, who have a twinkle in their eye and make me laugh. A happy guy who smiles a lot and someone I can talk about anything and everything with. And I honestly would rather have a man who can tease me and doesn’t constantly flatter me. A man who keeps me on my toes, in a fun way.

As my guy friend jokes I like them “.. tall, dark and lanky…”.

[Finchie40]

I would only knock someone out , if they crossed the line , I wouldn’t just knock them out over something I didn’t agree with , that’s not who I am as a person , I am more the guy you described , I am more outgoing and laid back and honest and treat people the same way I pretty much want to be treated in return , fighting isn’t my thing whatsoever , but I will fight if it comes down to having to protect her or
Myself

[MemeSupreme]

ehhhhhhhhhhh fights are stressful and dangerous ESPECIALLY when you're up close

i want him to stand up for me or him but he doesn't gotta go all macho and fight when there's no need. if he's mature, said his piece, and walks away then im more into him

[RebelinSteel]

The world has changed since it was fists at dawn, even when it was acceptable to hit someone, it was only as a last resort when talking had failed or if it was severe enough to warrant it.

I do not know anyone who would resort to being happy to knock someone out, society has zero place for that type, same as the other scum.

Yes you can protect a girl, be defensive but to jump straight to violence is a bit pathetic, also that violence is often not far away from being turned on the girl if his dinner is not ready etc.

The other reality is a 46 yr old guy trying to knock someone out these days, is going to be bleeding out from multiple stab wounds, as it’s often knives that are used more than fists.

I've managed to get into all sorts of shit without having to resort to the ‘I’m going to knock you out’ , life is not binary.

[ManInChains]

They think if a man is strong enough to protect a woman he is also more dangerous than bears and therefore a threat to her 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the timeless allure of the protector! It's quite the love potion in many romantic tales. There's something magnetic about a person who radiates the vibe of being able to guard and protect the ones they cherish. It's not just macho; it's about feeling safe and valued. But remember, the knight in shining armor comes in many forms nowadays. Some wield emotional intelligence instead of swords, offering protection through understanding, emotional support, and respect. Why do some fall for those who don't offer protection? Well, attraction is a complex potion brewed with bits of mystery, personal history, emotional needs, and sometimes, a dash of wanting what we think we can't have. Everyone's love story is as unique as their fingerprint. But no matter the type, the core ingredients of respect and mutual care are timeless classics!

[DizzyDesii]

Yes I prefer that and I’ve only dated one or two guys who were either afraid to do that or simply couldnt fight. Thank goodness i could. However it feels good to have someone again who can throw hands. I actually have to talk him down from it cause he's always trying to scrap. he's rowdy but me likey

[purplepoppy]

No. People like you disgust me. The rest of civilisation can navigate life without knocking people out yet your type is always looking for an opportunity to prove what a big man you are. No one's impressed at you for punching a guy because you disapproved at the way he looked at your girl or his comment.

[IslaTheWitch]

If only men could read the room and act only if it is really needed, I would probably enjoy it... unfortunately, they mostly do it to show how manly they are, which leads to more unsolved problems than solved.

so, living in reality, I definitely don't want such a man... I have such a best friend, and I'm fed up already...

[NathanDavis]

you can't love the same a man that gets shot for getting impulsive and stupid instead of being smart, so he dies...

depends on the context

[DishLady]

Protect? Yes that would be nice. Knock out? Not my thing, no.

[Finchie40]

I would only knock someone out if they were crossing the lines and they got up in my face or her face and threatened us , I don’t just punch someone because I don’t agree with them , that’s not what I was saying. I was just saying my instincts is the protect her , if shit got out of hand. Most girls’ I have been in a relationship with tend to run their mouths when she is upset about something , when she would run her mouth about something, she didn’t like and she was just stating a point , usually someone else will intervene and start shit with her because they didn’t agree what she was saying , and that’s all fine and dandy , they can yell at each other , all they want , and I would just sit back and watch and observe to make sure it doesn’t escalate into worse , if it escalated into worse for no reason at all , that’s usually when I will step on and try to break up the argument between them , I have experienced this with girls’ plenty of times lol Most females can’t control themselves when she is in rage mode , sometimes her mouth will get her into trouble lol But when someone else tries to intervene and get in her face and threatens her , that’s when I will step on and tell them to back off , usually another guy will step in trying to stick up for his girlfriend , to show off and I will tell him to sit down as well and back up , if he comes at me or her , that’s when my instincts kick in to drop his ass lol

[DishLady]

Oh... well. I'd never put myself or my guy I a situation like that. Generally speaking I can defend myself pretty well for whatever I cause, and the guys I'm with know that. But that's usually small, verbal stuff or paperwork. Nothing nasty. HOWEVER, the one or two times I have been in situations where a random person is trying to start something with me and the guy gets riled up -- and that's just my cue to take a firm grip on my guy's arm and walk him away from random crazy people before he blows his top. I don't like any type of argument or violence at all. Seriously.

[Finchie40]

Well that’s a good thing , there is no reason to fight anyone, if you can prevent a fight from happening, that’s the best thing to do, just walk away , but sadly sometimes you can’t walk away , if they are coming at you and not stopping. All I am saying is I will protect her if need be , I would tell them to back off and walk away , but if they choose not to , and try to attack , that’s when my instincts will kick in and fight back to protect her , I don’t just swing for no reason, but I will swing if they are trying to attack

[DishLady]

I guess just choose partners who think the same way, then. Personally, I don’t start an argument I can’t see though to the end, but it’s exhausting to me so it better f-ing be worth the fight. My guy, though? I wouldn’t want him to get hurt or even just riled up for no reason… Save all that energy for something worthwhile.

[bobalife]

LOL I mean I wouldn’t encourage violence, but I do love a man who’s protective over me ☺️🥰 it’s very attractive, hot, and warm feeling~

[sheenagwapa]

if it's an emergency situation then i'd be glad i have a strong SO but in general i do not like quarrels it gives me heart attack

[DreamLife7]

Yes but knocking people out sounds like he lacks self control and will end up behind bars. Protect me yes but if u have to put your hands on everyone that's a problem.

[Finchie40]

No, only when someone crosses a line after fair warning

[Bonniemoon]

Yes, but not very problematic, it's just indicates Moments por situations

[CrabCakes11]

No. That’s not a trait I look for