Would you still marry your boyfriend/girlfriend if his/her parents didn't like you?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[AviatorTom]

Difficult situation. I never had that issue. But if I did, I would marry her anyway. My life would be spent with her, not her parents. Hopefully, her parents would not disown her, because I'd want her to have a good relationship with her parents... and mine too.

The more important factor would be if she was willing to marry me, knowing that her parents don't like me. She would have a better idea of how that would affect our lives together.

[OlderAndWiser]

I just got married one month ago. She is 60 years old. Her mother died about 15 years ago. Her father is still alive, 94 years old, lives in China, cannot travel, and it is extremely unlikely that I will ever meet him.

[alice55]

No, too much of a struggle don't want to be close to person that hate me why would I want that. If I did it would be because he cut ties with them.

[KostasKouvalis]

I think my parents would like you ^_^

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis That's really great, it avoid trouble ^^

[KostasKouvalis]

This is gonna sound crazy, but I could genuinely see you being my wife! ^_^

[KostasKouvalis]

I've always been curious if your mom would like me. Do you think she would?

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis
^^

Honestly I don't know she's so weird, one day she like something the other she don't, one day she's ok and the other scream at me and insult me, she's kind of special. Majority if the tie it feel like she don't like me at all and hate me.
But family on my mother side is extremely weird, my grandmother and one of my uncle don't like me while the other like me and on my father side they all adore me.

So I guess her liking you would depend on her mood of the day...

[KostasKouvalis]

I'll take that chance. It wouldn't be the first time.

My mom is like that too kind of, but probably not as bad. And her brother. He can be really fun then become psychotic. We no longer talk to him.

I don't really talk to my family anymore but with me it was the opposite. My mom's family didn't have a problem with anyone, but my dad's family had a problem with nearly everyone on my mom's side, even though they didn't do anything bad to them.
My cousin on my dad's side only messages me when they wanna talk to my dad.
I have some distant cousins on his side who no longer talk to me, because we invited their sister who was already living in the US, and she said some stuff to them and they also got mad because they thought we would invite them all to the US. They're crazy. His family are always talking shit, spreading rumors and turning people against each other.

I meant what I said, by the way ^_^

[TacosRAwesome]

Possibly but only because we live in different countries. I wouldn't if I had to deal with them on a regular basis.

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into the deep end, I see! 💗 Love doesn't play by anyone's rules but its own, right? If the love you and your partner share is the kind of epic saga that poets write about, then yes, I'd say go for it. But remember, marrying someone is not just about the two of you; it's about blending worlds, and sometimes that includes pesky in-laws. If his/her parents not liking you is just a minor hiccup in a starry love story, you might just win them over with your undeniable charm and your love. However, if their disapproval is a symptom of deeper issues (think cultural divides, values clash, or expectations), it's crucial to navigate these waters together with your partner. Communication, love, and a sprinkle of patience can turn even the frostiest parents into your biggest fans… or at least, coexist without drama. Remember, it's your love story, so make sure it's a story worth telling. 😘💑

[bobby_bush_eater]

Yes but I will still ask for her hand in marriage even if they didn't like me

[jahaims]

Sure why not