How important to you is having a partner that is a good kisser?

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sawno · Accepted Answer

Not at all, kissing was always led up to be this big thing but it doesn't really do much for me. I love to kiss as the gesture that I love her and out of passion but its not something I get much from as the receiver. So if she wasn't much of a kisser or didn't enjoy kissing me that much i'd be completely fine with it. I care more about the other sexual chemistry, telepathic connection and other deep forms of love expression then I do about the kiss.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

OMG , you know , I just think its the most vital of things , there are parts of Asia where they just dont know how to kiss , its not a thing , and no matter whats going on sexually you feel just so let down if that happens..

Its extremely important for certain.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I have only kissed 3 guys deeply with tongue, I'm not sure I am a good kisser. But I feel like my boyfriend's were not. My 2nd boyfriend wasn't very good but he was better than my first one. I was his first kiss so it was fine and he said I was really good at kissing. He left my neck sore for like 3 days tho because he was rough and grabbing my neck hard lol.

Damaged00 · Accepted Answer

Very important. The sexual part of the relationshipis just as importantas the emotional part. It's not a deal breaker and I'm hoping they are willing to learn but if they don't then I'm sorry to say that I probably couldn't deal with it.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not that important cuz I will teach her if she is that bad

HawkPerception · Answer

I think how good someone is at kissing does tend to correlate to how sexually compatible you are with them. It's not a deal breaker for me initially, but I'd like them to at least have the desire to get better and work on it, just like in sex. And I would do the same if they saw any ways I could improve.

exitseven · Answer

yes, I dated somebody who was a lousy kisser. I figured she would get better but she never did. It was a problem for me.

itsannalee · Answer

Not necessary, if u are good they can be able to learn from u when u kiss them. But if u are not goof enough to teach them it means u are not good kisser, so u are not in the place to complain if someone good or not good.

Pinkflowers400 · Answer

It’s not important if they have other good qualities about themselves. I could teach them to be better.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Very important, I love kissing, and I intend to kiss a lot when I have a partner. Would suck if there wasn't a good kiss for the rest of my life.

Lliam · Answer

Very. It shows their passion, desire, erotic nature, and innate skill.
There are some things you can teach.
Some people are full of inhibition. Some people are not sensual or erotic. Some people are phobic about swapping spit.

Saggitariusdiva · Answer

Not really  I don't even like kissing  And I'm very sure I'm not a good kisser.. So I'll say it isn't a deal breaker

Skinhead-1979 · Answer

I don't even know if I am a good kisser; I haven't heard any complains, and neither can I say I can really complain about the ladies I have been with.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

If you don't like the way someone kisses why would you be with them. I think it's very important

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Absolutely. There has to be passion in the way he kisses me, too.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Mine is. It's right up there with riding for therapy. Mind occupied, not thinking about anything else. It's important. And required, frequently.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Very important but, like most things, it can be taught.

clampfan101 · Answer

I never worry about how good they might be at something like that because I know they can get better. Plus I have no experience myself. Worst case scenario we’ll learn together. (One of many reasons communication is so important.)

slatyb · Answer

If that aren't, and they are willing, I can teach them. It would be odd for a woman close to my age..

ShadesVow · Answer

I wouldn't even know if I was a good or bad kisser. Have only kissed 1 person. Didn't have any complaints so I guess I did alright

MicahRaine · Answer

9/10 I loveeee kissing, so I need someone who is a good kisser. Fortunately for me, Raine is a great kisser :)

SugarSugarplum · Answer

Not at all. Over time as the relationship grows you'll fall into a groove.

Caroline91 · Answer

Can't overstate how important it is. And I got very, very lucky!

elizamichale1 · Answer

I wouldn't mind if he is a bad kisser coz u will turn him into a great one but he must be great at sex though

DizzyDesii · Answer

Like 9 out of 10 important. Out of all the sexual things, I enjoy kissing the most

Katebfun · Answer

From past experience if a man is not s good kisser he won't be good in bed.

jackieistired · Answer

I kissed only one guy with tongue and he said I was good for my first time, he used too much tongue but it was bearable

Peridot25 · Answer

It’s important. It’s better to go for someone who has a lot of experience.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Well she can always learn so not very important initially.

TheWombRaider · Answer

Not important at all. So many other qualities that are fucking more important than that that's absolutely not even thought of as important

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

Really important.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

It’s really important… I wonder if I will be a good kisser now that my tongue is pierced

blondfrog · Answer

It's pretty important. Kissing can actually be like the hottest thing if done right.

Dongie · Answer

Well being a good kisser isn't hard to do. I've yet to meet a woman that was bad at kissing.

dudeinohio · Answer

I would like it... but they'd learn better after being with me for awhile.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I haven't ever thought someone was a bad kisser so idc

Julian7312 · Answer

A personal connection is the most important thing to me... You can learn to kiss along the way

mrkdvsn · Answer

Since I don't really care for kissing, this isn't on my importance list

IloveWinters · Answer

It's definitely important to be a good kisser and people can learn that with practice

bobalife · Answer

Requirement or there’s no future

DishLady · Answer

Hell yes… (Pfft.)

SweetDripp · Answer

EXTREMELY important!

Carmen96 · Answer

Very important. Kissing = chemistry

worldscolide · Answer

Not all that important cause I can teach her.

Jennz6 · Answer

I love 💕 to kiss 💋 so it’s very important

Iron_Man · Answer

They can be taught

Dnice1 · Answer

Very important, I love kissing

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Very important as I love kissing a lot.

andy530 · Answer

Eh kissing is a skill it can be learned

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

DEFINITELY A PLUS

Anonymous · Answer

To me it's not a deal breaker but nice to have

Anonymous · Answer

Low, I hate kissing

TeatimewithCowboys · Answer

It can be learned.

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