If you could put your partner through a lie detector test, what questions would you prepare for them?

[HawkPerception]

[CrazyGirl2]

I would never do that to my fiancé, NEVER! If there ever came a time where I didn't trust him enough that I actually wanted, or felt I needed to do that, then it’s time to end the relationship! Love cannot exist without trust, it just cannot! So if I didn't trust him enough to believe what he says to me, then I just need to end the relationship. I cannot understand how some people do this to their partner? Even if he asked ME to take a polygraph (which only measures the body’s reaction to stress. So someone could be so afraid of failing because of a false positive, then that would register as a lie, even if they were telling the truth. It’s why you cannot polygraph a person with an anxiety disorder, and why the results of lie detector (polygraph) tests are not admissible in court! They are simply not reliable, and they do not tell you if someone is lying. They can only tell you if someone was stressed when they answered that question!) Anyway, even if he asked me to take a polygraph, the relationship would be over! Again, if he does not trust me enough to believe what I tell him… Then there is no love left in the relationship, so there's no point in continuing it! If the person who tells you, they love you more than anything in the world needs a machine to tell them they can believe you… they don't love you, the relationship is over, just shake hands, say goodbye, and call it quits!

Laura 🤗 🥰

[CrazyGirl2]

@HawkPerception Thank you so much for the MHO. I really appreciate it. 🙏

[sage2021]

Yes, it would have to be if he cheated on me and name names!!

[sage2021]

That's again for another MHO! 😊

[ohsheeT]

I wouldn't prepare anything. I wouldn't even go through with having to do that all I would have to do is ask her something she would tell me if she wanted to lie to me she knows that she could or she would be honest with me and I accept that there's some questions I would not even want to know because it's none of my business and whatever happened in the past happened in the past so really there's nothing I would want to ask or believe that she was lying about and that's with any girl that I'm in a relationship with the past is the past and to go to that extreme to find something out of this ridiculous

[HawkPerception]

That was 2 sentences lmao

[ManInChains]

Are you cheating on me?
Have you ever purposefully left your partner in order to get with another guy?

Do you have any disorders I should know about?

[Vesuvius87]

I only had to read the question to already know the answer. Honestly if I even felt the need to submit my fiance to a lie detector test, then what would be the point of being in the relationship in the first place? The relationship would be over by then because if there is no respect nor trust then that's not love and so therefore, there isn't a relationship.

At any point, if you even think about what questions to prepare your partner on a lie detector test, just end it there. No relationship should lack trust nor have drama nor toxicity.

[HawkPerception]

I really don't see it that way. There are usually things that partners have trouble bringing up, communicating, or expressing to each other in a relationship. Or thoughts they may have had that go might conflict with their partner.

I think going through this could be a great experience that either makes you stronger as a couple or breaks you up.

[Vesuvius87]

I feel this may work better on younger 20-25 year-olds couple that need time to work things out, grow stronger and wait a couple years more to commit. I don't have the patience nor time to go through all that, long trial period. At this point in my life, I shouldn't even be playing the role of a counselor. Either you're emotionally established at certain age and ready to commit at a quicker pace or you're not.

[Finchie40]

I I wouldn’t even consider putting a partner through a lie detector test in the first place , if that was the case? that would be my decision to end that relationship right then and there, if I couldn’t trust my partner. So If she wants to stay in a relationship where she is lying to me? That’s her problem not mine , sadly she is wasting her time with me , and missing out on true love , if she chooses to lie instead of being honest with me. So if you don’t have trust and honesty with your partner , you are best to end that relationship and move on from each other , cuz sadly you will be wasting your time as well if you are lying to her. That isn’t love , that is selfish convenience

[AviatorTom]

Interesting question, but for me, a useless one. Lie detectors are only used when you don't trust the person. If I don't trust my partner, then she really shouldn't be my partner.

[HawkPerception]

There are almost always some things that are hard to express or bring up with your partners in every relationship. You may have some regrets or you may think the bedroom experience could be better but don't want to hurt their feelings. You could want more attention or want to do things that interest you more but be afraid of bringing it up. There are countless ways in which this could be used.

You could have the utmost faith in your partner's character and still have questions you'd want to know.

[AviatorTom]

@HawkPerception I understand what you're saying, but a lie detector is not the way to find answers to those "questions you'd want to know."

[luvstoned4him]

Have you ever cheat on your exes?
Do you love me?
Have you ever cheated on me?
Do I stress you?
Do you see me as wife material?
Do I make you happy?
Do I make you feel wanted?
Did you ever question my fidelity?
Are there things I do that make you insecure?
Would you ever tell me the things that bother you?
Do you see a future with me?
Does your family love me?
Do you think our relationship can stand the test of time?

[msc545]

None and in fact I would never even bother using a lie detector if it were available to me. It doesn't detect lies but it does take your money. There is a reason a lie detector results are not permitted in court and that reason is that the results are grossly unreliable.

[midnightmoon05]

1. Did you eat the full box of cookies? 🍪

2. did you eat all 5 bags of jackfruit chips?
That’s all I can think of for now.

[lightbulb27]

you know the answer is yes, except for 1 cookie and 1 chip.

[midnightmoon05]

@lightbulb27 😂 exactly!!
If I ask if you had one cookie or one chip!! You better answer “no”
You collie monster.

[midnightmoon05]

Cookie 🍪 *

[imfreeze95]

Do you believe in a higher power?
Do you like my family?
Have you ever cheated on me?
Have you ever thought about killing me?

[PatKirby]

If you must put your partner through a lie detector test, the relationship has already died. You just didn't know it.

[HawkPerception]

I respectfully disagree. It could be a bonding experience. Many people have doubts in relationships. They may trust their partners, but they can have an inkling of doubt in them from past experiences, they think their partner is too good to be true, etc.

"Did you cheat on me?"

"Have you thought about anyone else else sexually while we've been together?"

"Have you ever thought about leaving me?"

"Are you genuinely happy with me?"

The list can go on and on...

If you had the chance to put your partner's doubts at ease, even if it was only a shadow of a doubt, wouldn't you?

[PatKirby]

I respectfully disagree.

Having to ask someone if they're being dishonest means the trust is gone. Once the lying starts, it's never really the same. You can't fix a distrust issue with more distrust. The relationshit proceedeth from a false position of mistrust to begin with. People who behave this way are basically children in adult bodies forcing the other partner to be the parent.

Since there are better quality fish in the sea, it's better to let that one with honesty and integrity issues go. But go ahead and stick your hand in the fire again if that helps you. Fire is an excellent teacher, to both parties. Hope this helps you.

[Mwolf]

Wouldn't be "did you cheat on me?"

[Smashingdoozy]

Probably stupid ones especially considering lie detectors don't actually work

[DrPepper12]

I can't think of any that I don't know the answer to already. I might ask who ate my Italian leftovers two nights ago?

[LiamJHayden]

I wouldn't do so. If I felt a need to do so, there would be no trust and I would not be with her.

[TurboAnon]

"Have you ever cheated on me?"

[BetaBucks]

I don't wanna know any more than I already do 😂

[codytoe]

"Do you know how easily these tests are fooled?"

[Luopio27]

I would never do that.

[Surferboi_02]

I wouldn't do that it shows you don't trust them

[Cheerfull009]

How many boyfriends you have now?

[HappyButterfly34]

Did you cheat on me?

[scott04sa22]

Everybody lies

[HawkPerception]

Not true at all

[HawkPerception]

And that didn't answer the question