If your fiancé lost his job just before your wedding, how would you handle the situation?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

It's not really a good thing LOL but I mean it's what it is and you're going to come across all kinds of things like this when you're married

If they're good at what they do they'll have another job in a heartbeat if they have a trade they'll have another job and a heartbeat but it's not losing his job or her job before they get married it's how you deal with it how both of you deal with it that's what you want to know that's what you need to get through it's not that they either have one or lost it or don't have one it's how you get through it that counts.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

A job has never been a symbolic or a reflection of my love for my partner. It would not change anything for me. I'd happily get married as long as I'm ready to do so.

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

If he's the type or in the business where it's easy to get a new job in a short period, proceed as usual and just be there for him.

If it might take longer, we could see if there was things in the wedding we could tone down to lessen the expenses and see how else we could save money until he got back on his feet.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

If I am able to support the both of us, go through with the wedding but if I'm not, I would still go through with the wedding, but maybe make some major changes like not spending as much money on the wedding or honeymoon. I would want to be supportive and be there for him no matter what though.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship coach here on Girls Ask Guys, I'd say this situation is a classic curveball life throws. 🎳 Emotions could be like a rollercoaster, but what's key is teamwork. Support and reassure each other. True love is all about facing challenges together. 💕 Maybe postpone some plans but not the love. Your bond can become even stronger. 🌟

backspace · Answer

You wouldn't. It's a ring, things like that tend to get lost. You get them another one or just wait until the weeding ring comes.

I once had a ring that meant a lot to me, I lost weight and once it slipped off my finger and flow of without me even noticing. I searched for it all night and called the place 10 times but nothing.

Rings get lost, hopefully it's not something really expensive.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, now they have plenty of time to help plan the wedding.😆

Honestly, why would your reaction be any different? Do you think you'll go your entire marriage without something like this happening? If you were just marrying them to be your meal ticket then you were marrying for the wrong reason.

Kelly6 · Answer

@itsmeirem You are marring a person not their job.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

but what is here to handle? I still work, right? so, we're proceeding with the wedding, and he is looking for a new job :D

blueonblack22 · Answer

Depends if their motivated to find another job.

Gwendoline · Answer

Well if I choose the right man which I did it would be ok.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It wouldn't be a problem. We would still make it through the situation. Love conquers all.

Sadia26 · Answer

Break it off. Let's be practical here. If you are living with a broke man, love doesn't take long to fly out the window. Why give yourself that trauma? Rather break it off to save yourself and him. It would also be easier on him to be broke and single rather having to fend for a wife while having no job.

MicahRaine · Answer

Well if I'm marrying a girl than preferably I'm already making enough money to support her without a second income, so I'd just be like "are you okay living on just my income? Yes? Than yay! Perfect timing 😁"

Anonymous · Answer

I let my fiance quit her job and become my wife. She doesn't have to work now and can go back to work whenever she wants to. She doesn't seem to want to. Being a mom is more important to her I guess.

paledreams · Answer

"honey, I think it's not me, it 'tis you" lol 😆 💍 🎄🎁 - sorry im being rude, serious answer would be "shrug, it's okay honey, I for one aren't one to talk" 😕😆😁

WhitneySnow · Answer

Comfort him, reassure him that he’ll find another one when we get back from our honeymoon

Straight2thepoint · Answer

You handle it like if you were the one who lost the job and wanted to be treated.

kaucky1 · Answer

Gotten caught selling drugs to D. E A. Agent may not come home 😱🫣🥴🫡

AmeerX · Answer

Going to be with her. I would be marrying the person and not her job lol

Anonymous · Answer

As a man I should be able to provide for a wife before I ever consider marriage at all. If I lost my job and couldn't get a new one shortly after I would break off the engagement

midnightmoon05 · Answer

He will get another one within 1-2 months…

WowGIrl4ever · Answer

I'd Support us and carry on

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