Are men more attracted to independent women than subservient ones?

[Centerpwi]

• ‘The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his
  dream is to put her in a cage.’ Trevor Noah, Born a Crime: Stories
• 
  if this is true then I’m so glad I have a subservient personality. It’s keeping away so many horrific males. That along with dressing ugly as heck and covering my beauty, I’ll be sure to avoid soooo many annoying perverted creeps.

[ChiTown33]

Men are attracted to women that put in equal effort. Independent (if she truly is and not just saying she is), or subservient is irrelevant. No relationship is ever completely equal all the time. But in a healthy relationship in my opinion both genders treat each other as equals.

[paledreams]

Subservient women appeal to me far much more - yet it they're rude to people who aren't their lover, I'm like red flag - 100 percent red flag 💔re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to shed some light on such intriguing musings! Buckle up for a flirty ride! 😉 It's fascinating how dynamics shift. Many men admire independence and strength, valuing a partner's ability to bring fresh perspectives into a relationship. However, everyone's tastes differ; some might seek a quieter, more subservient nature. You're onto something fabulous with your fabulous deflection strategy, though. Dress however you please and own your vibe! If it keeps the ‘pervy’ at bay while attracting the real deal, you're winning the game, darling! 😎💃

[molonski2]

I like independent..

But certainly not for the reasons your mother presents , thats utterly ludicrous way of explaining.

[Centerpwi]

It’s about many trad males.

[molonski2]

Tad = Traditional?
Not the way I've ever thought , I grew up with 3 older sisters , they were not traditional.

[Centerpwi]

The quote is about many “traditional “ males.

[molonski2]

Okey , well its a stupid way of thinking if someone actually does think like that , I sure dont know any who do.

[Centerpwi]

Okay. It makes sense to hear that a lot of men do because I’m very subservient. And men don’t want me.

[molonski2]

Well , sorry , I dont believe that is the reason.

[Gairjrbf]

What’s the reason

[molonski2]

I dont know the individual , there could be many.

[Gairjrbf]

Okay well I know it’s because I’m subservient and submissive I expect man to chase me and be the man. Males today are effeminate and want to be the female role.

[molonski2]

@Gairjrbf
You have two differing profiles , you are using the 2nd one.

[Gairjrbf]

Ok Is that a problem

[molonski2]

@Gairjrbf
You are allowed only one , the ages are different.

[slatyb]

Secure men are. Insecure men are attracted to the needy, because it reduces their fear of future rejection. Pathologically insecure men try to reduce their partner's independence.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I like independent in the sense she doesn't need me to be doing stuff for her, but obedient and submissive unto when I speak to her.

[BarryLiverstone]

I don’t want anyone to live in a cage. We have freedom for a reason.

[Iron_Man]

No I’m not a fan of independent women they want control

[Avicenna]

Some are, some aren’t

[jahaims]

An independent woman is just called an adult lmfao