Would you take it as a compliment or insult if your partner said that at first you looked pretty decent but getting to know you made you look amazing?

[Anonymous]

That's a terrible insult. Never say that.

That's a little insulting, but I'd like to know.

That's a little compliment.

That's a huge compliment!

[SamIam96]

I think it's a huge compliment. When someone you just meet thinks you look pretty decent, that's based upon only your physical appearance.

If after getting to know you, you look even better, "amazing", the only thing that changed is that they know your personality and that's what makes you even more attractive.

[SamIam96]

Thank you for the MHO.

[MicahRaine]

It's a huge compliment because it shows that they aren't just there for a surface level connection, but care about you deeply.

[Anonymous]

An insult. It not different when a 25yo. guy who looks like 80yo. one says "To begin you were stunning and sexy but with more time I just recognized you're a ruthless monster that lures men with pretty face and hot body then devours their soul"

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I would take that as a pretty big compliment that you made him less shallow by showing that his biases about you based on looks were wrong and that he became more attracted to you as he looked past your physical appearance.

[AI Opinion]

As the love doctor here, I say take that as a huge compliment! 😎 It means your inner awesomeness made you even more attractive. Beauty might catch the eye, but your fantastic personality is what wins hearts! It's like they're unwrapping the gorgeous gift that is you. Keep shining, superstar! 🌟

[RageBabe]

Yes, because he finally got a chance to see you beyond the surface, aka physical appearance, so that's definitely a compliment.

[Flower7]

It is meant to be a compliment, but honestly what it means is that the partner didn't think you were very attractive.

[Jay-_-]

That's not what that means

[Flower7]

So saying a partner’s appearance is “decent” is a good thing?

[Jay-_-]

I'm not saying it's either one until it's been clarified because maybe he was trying to show you that he isn't looking at how beautiful you are, he was MAYBE trying to show you he likes you for your personality and other features not your physical features.

[Flower7]

Personally, I want a guy who enjoys my physical features. Not someone who only thinks I’m beautiful on the inside.

[Jay-_-]

I didn't say ONLY I said maybe he's trying to show you he isn't looking at how beautiful you are he likes both but he wants you to know you aren't just a toy

[Jay-_-]

Id make it clear cause I wouldn't want you to think that I think of you like a sex toy, at the end of the day I'm not that guy so I don't know what he was thinking.

[NathanDavis]

story of my life... lmao

"you went from an 8 to a 14... "

[Anonymous]

You're kidding right?😆😆😆

Let me ask you this. Would you take this as a compliment or an insult. "I didn't find you attractive when I first met you then I got to know you".

[Asker]

That's a little different but what's your answer? I'm looking for answers of others. This has nothing to do with me

[Opinion Owner]

I'm trying to answer it. I'm trying to make a point. And I will answer you question if you answer mine.

[Asker]

I asked first but okay my answer okay that's fine. Now what about you

[Opinion Owner]

It's fine as well. But I'm guessing you don't think it's fine.

[Asker]

Ok sure

[Asker]

What exactly is the point you're trying to make with your statement though. That of course it is fine for men but probably not for women? You haven't really been clear. I'm genuinely curious

[Asker]

Please clarify

[Opinion Owner]

No, I was about as clear as you were when you said, "ok that's fine". If you feel no need to clarify yourself I feel no need to clarify myself.

[Asker]

Lol you're so cute

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks, that's what my momma always told me as well.😆

[WhitneySnow]

That’s a huge compliment

[Nikki1989]

It is a huge compliment.

[elizamichale1]

I think its a compliment

[sirderpsalot123]

Compliment

[Malwi93]

Yeah