Married and casual?

[Dumbgirl83]

My bd was married. I know I'm horrible. We were sleeping together for 5 years before I got pregnant. He ghosted me and I was postpartum so I told his wife. They are now separated and he told me to die a slow death along with our child. His BFF said if I think he cares, S'more lost than he thought. Now he's trying to get me to sleep with his BFF. Still wants to sleep with me. Has never acknowledged our child. He said, all of this your fault bc you caught feels. Yes... after 5 years. After you living with me 2 of those years. After you telling me things. But we never kissed
He didn't sleep with me. And we never went out. I feel so much guilt. I love him. He thinks I'm trash. A whore. How dumb am I? How do I get past this? Is this my fault? Should I even try to keep him, as friends, in my life? Ty ty!

[Finchie40]

Focus on your child and move on from his ass and find yourself a guy that loves and values you the same way you do for him , Your past is your past , no one is perfect , we all make mistakes , but it doesn’t mean you can’t correct those mistakes if you choose to do so , understand you deserve someone that chooses you the same way you choose them , you deserve a guy that wants to kiss you and wants you in his arms as much as possible , a guy that won’t use you for his selfish reasons to do so , So put those 5 years behind you and move on without him period

[Avicenna]

Well, the only thing you should want from this loser is child support. If you don’t even want that, block him.

[PeachyPie93]

I would forget him completely.. to have a kid by him is crazy!! I get you love the guy but you can blatantly see by the way he treats you, he thinks you are lower than shit. He has never even kissed you, he never cuddled you, he never took you out.. how could you love him in the first place? He only used you for sex and he now hates you for ruining his marriage.. Get away from him and his friends, get some books on self love and move on because you can't be serious lol.

[Abbycado]

So basically, he’s a cheater and you helped with that? Yeah, you two are made for each other:

[AI Opinion]

Hey, love. Here to serve up a slice of relationship realness. 🌟 You're dealing with a classic case of ghosting and lovebombing. First things first, recognize your worth. No one deserves to be treated like trash, and you're definitely not dumb. Do yourself a favor and let that "bad boy" go. There’s a red flag on that play, and it’s flapping fiercely!

Focus on yourself and your child. It’s not your fault for catching feelings after investing five years. Trying to keep him as a friend seems like a shipwreck in the making. Find someone who respects and cherishes you—trust me, they're out there. 😘 Embrace self-love and move away from that cauldron of chaos! 🌈

[AmeerX]

Keep the child. It's not the child's fault and forgive that man and move with the life. A good man will love you no matter what

[Anonymous]

Username very appropriate.

[In_Trance]

Gong show