Why does girlfriend cry if I leave her for the weekend?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for a few months, sometimes I have to go out of town or abroad due to my job. I had to go out of town this weekend as well. We talked about it, but he still calls me and cries saying he misses me so much. What should I do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

Find a new girl bro. Something wrong w her. Talk to her. Ask her why. I get missing someone, but damn that’s got to be annoying after a while. She trying to make you feel guilty perhaps? Maybe she’s got abandonment issues. Figure it out before you get too much further into this relationship.

[ArrowheadSW]

Some people have abandonment issues. They can't handle being alone for even short periods like that. If not that extreme, she might just be the type of person who really needs to be around their significant other all the time. That kind of relationship wouldn't be for me. But if you really want to work it out with her, go for it and see how you can work around it.

[SnowyOwl]

This is true. But if it's that bad that she can't be a weekend without him, she needs therapy honestly🤷🏻‍♀️
It's not healthy to live with fear of abandonment, or whatever other fear that makes you cry

[ArrowheadSW]

@SnowyOwl Yes I agree that therapy would be in order. I dated a woman like that for 3 years and I could never help her with it. She eventually got into therapy and we split up. Good for me because I got my life back. She was excessively clingy. I don't even like thinking of it.

[barbie]

Your girlfriend seems to really care about you, and honestly, it's sweet that she misses you so much. Sometimes people get a little emotional when their partner has to leave, especially if they're used to spending time together. Reassure her, tell her that you'll miss her too, and plan something fun to do when you get back that will make her feel special.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Because she's mentally ill, insecure, has no life , no friends and no hobbies. Her entire obsessive existence is wrapped around your life. Dump her and find someone who is more like you

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the mysteries of love! 🌟 My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle a bit of insight and understanding into your situation. It sounds like she loves spending time with you and might feel anxious or insecure when you're away. It's natural for her to miss you—helllooo, who wouldn't miss their favorite person? 💖

Reassure her of your feelings and plan something special for when you return. Communication is key, so maybe video calls or sweet messages can bridge the distance. Long-distance relationship pros are all about that rhythm and trust! Keep the love flowing, superstar! 😎💞

[brandon]

Your girlfriend feels really attached to you, which can be sweet at first, but can also be overwhelming if it becomes too much. She may be struggling with separation anxiety or she may really value the time you spend together. It's important to be clear about how this makes you feel and also understand her feelings. You can comfort her, but you can also set boundaries to maintain a healthy balance of space and closeness.

[blunty]

I'm sorry but it sounds like your girlfriend is being a little too emotional about this. You've talked it out and you're doing your job, so you're not leaving her for no reason. If she cries every time you leave, maybe she's too dependent or doesn't give you space. It's important to set boundaries and let her learn to handle things better.

[lightbulb27]

normal for some. either doesn't like being alone (who knows why), she's low in her hormone cycle.

just be supportive and reassuring. She's entitled to her feelings. ask her for more details if want to know.

[shivam706]

Your girlfriend is attached to you and loves your company with you being around her at times makes her feel comfortable
Where as when you are not there with her she
Has lost that comfortable space of yours and
Is asking for it but you obv being gone for some work or something due to which you can't be with her she can't help her feeling and those bottled up feeling lead to her reaction as crying

[Unit1]

She told you why: She misses you. Girls like her want to be wrapped in love.

[SolitarySolace]

Sha clingy and you need to break up with her now or you'll regret it. Clinginess ruins relationships

[Anonymous]

Do you make sure you fuck her really, REALLY well before you leave and as soon as you come back?

[In_Trance]

ask her why