How did you know they were “the one” for you?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When meeting my husband for the first time after mass in the church hall, we were introduced and I as I shook his hand I just felt something downstairs, like a tingling. He was just so handsome, charming and tall, i could barely speak. I had to change my underwear when I got home, like soaking. I told my sister that I'd met the man I'd marry she thought I was crazy. I'd never had any intrest in boys b4 or any like sexual feelings and I kind of always dressed like a tomboy but after that I started wearing dresses and skirts, still dressing modestly and bought my first thongs.

I would meet him here and there after that and always have nice conversations. Was hard seeing him on dates with other women and I was afraid I'd never get my chance.

Anyway when I was 15 I met him at local health suite after a swim, he'd been to the gym. I was wearing my swimsuit, nothing too risqué just basic and I could see him checking me out. I went over to talk to him and as we were talking a while I looked down and noticed he had a huge erection, I was in shock. He made his excuses and left. A few days later after mass he apologised and said he didn't know what and I told him that I knew exactly what happened and that he should take me out sometime. He did and the rest is history.

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

We just kept agreeing on things, big things, little things, random things.

michalpl00 · Accepted Answer

I thought she was the one until she lied about sleeping with another guy in a dating stage. She said that she chose me in the end but went two months telling me that I was the only guy ever since we met when I found out it was true that she Was lying. It broke me and it hurt me and I never trusted her again. She was perfect pretty much but she lied and then she showed other trades of being deceitful and hiding stuff so I think that the honeymoon phase is amazing but you will know after sometime if they are the one I was willing to accept her flaws Because love is a decision. I don’t think it’s being perfect. I think it’s being imperfect and accepting and loving the imperfections and choosing to stay with this person and I chose to stay with her and she left me and put the blame on me because I didn’t trust her , it’s kind of hard to trust someone who lies

Purpleronnie · Accepted Answer

Generally speaking Nobody knows for sure do they , it’s a decision made around intention based on all the information present at the that time it’s made. But nothing stays still ever

I’m not married and never have been and in each long term relationship I’d always intended for them to be the one for many and different reasons sometimes , the core of which revolves around at least but not limited to respect, love , support , understanding etc.

Sadly to date either they or I have changed or messed up in such a way that they’re or my idea of “the one” also changed or has had to change.

I have been convinced from a young age that the idea of “the one” is a Disney fairy tale completely against nature. So while I hope for my forever I live in the reality of the present.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

On Girls Ask Guys, I'm here to sprinkle some love magic and help steer you through the sea of feelings! Knowing they’re “the one” often feels like a mix of comfort and fireworks. For me, it was finding someone I could be my quirkiest self with and yet still want to spice up every day with. It's the shared dreams, little quirks you adore, and that irresistible pull towards each other. It's like finding the peanut butter for your jelly, the yin for your yang, or in a flirty twist – the flame to my candle! 🔥❤️

Wiredone · Answer

I just knew right away that my wife was the one for me. We've been together for 35 years and married 30 years

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I knew I was at the right time, the right place, with the right person. Several times, several "the one". Simple as that.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I fucking hate this question. There is no such thing as "the one." Please, for the love of God almighty, people need to abandon this ridiculous concept and let... It... Die

Graptemys79 · Answer

I think it sort of dawns on you the more time you spend together.

BLP11520 · Answer

Unfortunately many people get this wrong look at the divorce rate 😑

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I didn't. Life is mostly about compromising :P

Iron_Man · Answer

You never really know because many people keep secrets and they tell lies, but eventually you’ll find out, but it could take years

moneymagnet24 · Answer

When no one wants you n only guy on earth wants you that's the time you should know "The one" for you

LiamJHayden · Answer

Have not had it happen yet.

katiesmuff · Answer

It surprised me as much as anybody else!

kaucky1 · Answer

The way body felt sensations given

Anastasia06 · Answer

How they react when you’re not at your best.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

They are ALWAYS the one … until they are not.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

She told me.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

NEVER GOT THAT FAR WITH A GIRL

laly520 · Answer

time proves

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