Those who cheated, what was the reason for your infidelity?

Question

Some people cheat because of unfulfilled needs, some cheat purely to fulfill their selfish desires, some chest because of “circumstances”, while others cheat simply because they can or because they just didn’t want to pass on the opportunity to do so.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Being disrespected constantly by her , being treated like a convenience, basically her way or no way , she can never admit she is wrong for her actions , Lack of intimacy and affection , the relationship basically turns one sided , her way or no way , She brings nothing but misery and barely any happiness , she expects to receive without giving in return , She doesn’t wear his shoes the same way she expects him to wear hers. Always nagging and bitching about things , she is never content or at peace , constantly comparing him to other men. Men need to feel respected and they need to feel wanted and valued , if he doesn’t feel that way with her , he will more than likely cheat or leave her ass for someone that does. Yes cheating is a selfish act period but it isn’t selfish , if he is being treated like constant shit from her and chooses to walk away , Now if he tries to come back to her after he cheated , then he is the selfish POS that only cares about himself. My thing is if you can cheat on someone , you already have your answer that you truly don’t love and value them so the right thing to do , is end it with them because you truly don’t love them. Cheaters that try to go back to their partners’ only love themselves , because they are afraid to admit they were wrong and they can not take accountability for their selfish actions. For any relationship to last the long haul , both partners’ have to make each other their top priority over everyone else , both partners’ have to wear each others’ shoes before making decisions, and both partners’ need to learn how to remove selfishness for each other , and understand you can’t always be right and your partner is wrong. It needs to go both ways

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

There is a lot of excuses people make and to answer the question I never cheated. You’re right it’s mostly to fulfill selfish desires many people are in good relationships but I will say the most common people who cheat. They’re people who are unable to build a genuine connection. They are seeking sex, money, social status, etc. Those are the worst kind because they will be with a good man or good woman who loves them. Most of the time one sided relationships and they’re out cheating constantly.

A lot of people make excuses because they can’t face what they have done. So to make them look better to others as well as sometimes (those who still even care) to make themselves feel better about it.

Instead of just breaking the relationship off like normal people they make the excuse that oh I wasn’t happy. Oh this oh that oh the other.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

I have never cheated, but I have known a few that have. They cheat because they are lacking something in their primary relationship. People who have loving partners, good sex and a family life do not cheat on each other as everything they need, they already have.

Anastasia06 · Accepted Answer

I never have but from what I witnessed. The person being cheated kept taking the cheater back. So they think they can keep doing so and nothing will happen.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, the tangled world of infidelity, a classic! My aim here is to help everyone better understand these complicated situations with a hint of flirtatious knowledge! People stray for reasons as diverse as a rainbow, from seeking personal thrills to a lack of emotional or physical connection. Sometimes, it's due to feeling ignored or undervalued in their current relationship, while others might not resist temptation when life throws a spicy opportunity their way. Just remember, it's a tale as old as time, and understanding the "why" can be the first step toward healing hearts and minds. 🌟❤️

Anonymous · Answer

This counts as cheating. I had a girl and was using dating app and was gonna meet a girl but didn’t because I chose my ex. Turns out she left me and not sure if she was faithful either. I guess I was unsure about her. She was my first girlfriend. And long distance relationship. I kind of rushed into the relationship for the wrong reasons. I lost my virginity to her too. So what was supposed to be a one night stand turned into a relationship. I was drunk when I met her and wouldn’t have picked her sober. I picked whatever to loose my virginity but turned out she was nice. Which made me want to see her again. So it was her personality that I liked the most. Her looks were okay. But later turned out that she wanted worth it. That nice personality of hers went out the door after i would out she went out with another guy while we were dating. she lied about it too for 2 months. I wasn’t sure about her, but I chose her. It was the wrong choice and got too attached so I didn’t leave. Things got toxic and she left and I am now glad she did. Now I see clearly and i should have left when she told me she slept with the guy. So the truth is I was lonely and rushed into the relationship with someone random. I got attached to someone that didn’t feel right. And did me dirty in the end. I learned that I will not rush into a relationship with someone I am unsure about

texascollegegirl · Answer

Big Black dick. A lot of it is my boyfriend's fetish for BBC and for my cheating on him and lying to him, but honestly even if he wasn't that way, once I had a really huge dick Black there is no way I would ever stop. If he changed and wanted me to stop, he could ask but I would still continue getting all the big dick Blacks I want and need. If it became too big an issue and lying to him didn't work, I'd dump him. I developed the fetish for lying to him and humiliating him based on how it turned him on... and then it turned me on. Can't give it up now and definitely not giving up the big dick Blacks -- ones I am with regularly and always looking for new ones.

Anonymous · Answer

Opportunity. Women don't get the can sleep with a guy pretty much anytime they'd like. Guys don't got it like that. So when a woman offers you don't pass that up. For some guys that like walking through the desert and coming upon a oasis and saying, "nah, I think I'll just wait for the next one".😆 ya just don't do it!

kaucky1 · Answer

I got more than one Weiner that buzzesand time traveled into worst screen longer I stay the more girls I get

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not a cheater. Never have and never will. I have however been cheated on and I would never want to cause someone that kind of pain.

moneymagnet24 · Answer

It's fun to cheat it's means you're smart enough to fool pussy

Anonymous · Answer

I was drunk and horny and I lacked self control.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

There's no need to try and rationalize it move on

Kelly6 · Answer

Have high sex drive

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Men r dumb fuck

Anonymous · Answer

There are several reasons people may cheat

Anonymous · Answer

It started with the self approval.

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