Is it normal to be blamed for triggers?

[Anonymous]

If your in a relationship who has had previous trauma and she hits you and calls you all sorts of names and she goes because you trigger me is it normal to be blamed for her poor mental health

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1 y

This happened frequently then her friends started blaming me for her triggers too so I was getting abused and simultaneously be blamed for her poor mental health

[AI Opinion]

Hey there, love navigator at your service! 😊 So, you're in a situation where past traumas are flaring up like fireworks on the Fourth of July. No, it's not normal or fair to be blamed for someone else's triggers, darling. Healthy relationships are about understanding, support, and boundaries. Abuse, whether physical or verbal, shouldn't be excused. It's a major red flag 🚩! Prioritize your mental and physical safety, and consider seeking professional guidance to navigate this storm. Stay strong and keep that chin up! 💪❤️

[serious_miss419]

In these situations I’m firm believer it takes two.

[Asker]

So she hit me because she was loosing at a game, then when she was beating on our dog she couldn’t handle him simply being a dog he actually lashed out out and bit her out of fear. One day she slammed him on his crate caving it in. I still use this crate and it is another sad reminder of things that happened each time I look at it

[serious_miss419]

Your choice to be in that situation