What does true happiness in your relationship look like?

Question

In order for you to feel satisfied in your relationship, do they have to do or be something, or is it marriage, love, or sex, or is it just that they show up for you all the time. What does true relationship happiness look like to you? What does it involve?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Have you ever done sports and you get into this thing called The zone you don't see it it's a feeling of being one becoming one with somebody and there's a energy. Within you
within your partner. You can verbally communicate you can visually communicate you can physically communicate without saying one word there is a bond that's unbroken and you feel it you know it and no matter what you come up against it's all good because you know that person has your back you know that you are that person and vice versa

If there's a problem there's no point in fingers there's no blaming there's no trying to hide from it it's there and you deal with it and everything just comes together because you're both on the same page you both want the same thing and it's like walking in stride with somebody
There's nothing hard about it there's nothing easy about it it's just there and it's dealt with and the most positive ways there is a trust and respect there's a love this so beautiful because you're both one.

There's no jealousy there's just understanding

It seems like everything in life is physical but there is an energy understanding the spiritual a person within understanding that you both have that is so unbelievable so beautiful and you do understand it you just do it you become it you are it

Next time you make love to somebody there's a moment right before you have an orgasm that you both connect you become one and there is clarity you can read each other's minds you know each other's moves you can feel you can hear taste see everything about that person in that moment it is very spiritual moment and in that moment if you've never experienced it before that person that you're with you would say oh my God nobody's ever done this to me before this is love it's not love is when two people become one that is all of our destinies in life become one with self one with others one with this universe and that's all of our destinies right there that should be everybody's goal is to live in that moment 24 hours a day but with everything on this planet because that's who we're meant to be it's a big test it's a big game in a way
To become this with this universe with everything and that's what true happiness is I believe when there is no drama there is no judgment there is no point in the finger there is no arguing it's just a big smile of bond to commitment to give and to help anybody everybody in this world and you just take on this world except for you have a partner

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Being with someone that prioritizes you the same way you do them , being with someone that understands you the same way you understand them , someone that has your back the same way you have theirs. Love only grows when 2 people choose each other and prioritize each other , having amazing communication , having amazing chemistry and connection , having amazing intimacy and affection and understanding nothing is perfect but you both know you are perfect for each other , Happiness comes when you both know you can trust and respect each other and know you both aren’t trying to hurt each other. Basically you both wear each others’ shoes before making decisions. Selfishness is one of the biggest relationship killers , If you can’t remove selfishness for your partner , don’t expect them to remove it for you , it needs to go both ways , Relationships aren’t hard , Selfish people make them hard

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

It's difficult for me to answer, so I'll just list a couple of things that make me really happy in the relationship I'm in.

- He understands me, I understand him. We rarely clash. It's smooth sailing here to get things done, to voice problems, to listen. We communicate very clearly and do not let worries fester and become problems or huge arguments.

- Brings us to the second point. We support each other if we're stressed out or sad or worried. No throwing each other under the bus. That's right guys, he is vulnerable with me and tells me his secrets or things he is embarrassed about. He trusts me. And I'm not going to take that all away.

- I get to see Him. If you're not super close friends with him, you will never really know him. Colleague? Not good enough. Friend? Nope. You have to be real close and then he'll show you who he is. And as his girlfriend you get to see everything. He's more himself, less held back, and only I get to see that. I love that, call me selfish, but I like that limited edition boyfriend :p

- I know that he trusts me, loves me, cares about me, worries about me. He rarely says it, but every now and then it slips out and I live for those moments. Like we visited Turkey and while shopping some guys were creeping on me and my friend blocking our path trying to hit on us and boyfriend swoops in tells them to back off, they back off, he asks if we're okay. I just melt. After I reassured him that everything is fine, he reverts back to his normal chill self but those little moments. AAAAAHH!!

ihateTaylorSwift · Accepted Answer

never had that, maybe in the beginning
he was extra sweet cute
And romantic
But then I started treating him bad and he slowly fell out of love and he gave me a taste of my own
medicine & bullshit
I didn't really want him as much as I originally thought
guess thats why i never deserved to be with him that long and it didn't last because while he was giving me his all my attention was always somewhere else
Glad me and
him are finally over
Wished for each other
Just to end up regretting
He gave me nothing but good
And i never stopped
dishing out toxic drama
That always fucked it up

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, love and happiness! My aim here is to help you navigate this exciting rollercoaster. True relationship happiness isn't about grand gestures or ticking off a checklist; it's the little things—those everyday moments that make your heart skip a beat 💖. It involves feeling valued and understood, late-night ice cream runs, and those inside jokes only you two get. It's not just about marriage or sex; it's about a partnership where you support each other, even when life throws curveballs. When your partner shows up for you, in both big and small ways, you've got the recipe for happiness, my friend. 🍦✨

Simslover92 · Answer

Where we communicate often and try to really understand one another. Also, physical intimacy and mental intimacy.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

First... just come to terms with what true happiness is... because it's different for everyone.

You figure that shit out and then you can look outward to who or what kind of people would advance your own cause. Also, consider their happiness after that. Do you have what would make them happy?

If the factors match up then proceed on pressing for something more.

With all that said... drop the ideas of others influencing what should or shouldn't be... society also. Like if you're sitting with a shopping list like height, money, dick size, and other such bullshit... you have the wrong idea. Like... there's tons of these guys that just want giant asses and tits right? but what is that going to do for them in the long run? They're not even thinking about the person attached to those things.

Hope I helped.

Cormac995 · Answer

Waking up with a smile next to someone you slept next to.

Sitting together silently cuddling because words aren't needed for the company to be enjoyed.

Surprising your SO with home cooking because you want to do something sweet.

Giving or receiving a gift that connects with you emotionally instead of financially.

Waking up with a blanket on you that you didn't place there.

Being happy because you see your SO is happy and you realize you create a feedback loop of happiness together in the special moments you have over the years.

Still hugging and kissing regularly after years and still enjoying it even after years.

Realizing that over the years you've learned about each other's bodies and "know" how to "Touch" each other by memory.

Realizing it's always nice to see them smile at you no matter how many years go by.

That's just a few things but the general idea should be well illustrated.

dustybiker2 · Answer

Life is unstable no guarantees. You are always trying to level balance. If you keep that frame of mind and hold your partners back chances are they will hold yours. That is all you have. Happiness is a leap of faith. Either feel it through letting go and enjoying the moment or lose out. You learn this through serious illness and or loss.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I look forward to my wife coming home, enjoying time just being together, having dinner, sitting, talking. It's peace, it's joyful, easy going.

All in the household are doing well, that's important. I wish we could share more of that with others. We do have visitors and share where we can.

Life is going well. Thank God and pray it continues and grows as life changes.

just_a_potato · Answer

When my boyfriend listens to what I have to say. No advice, no need to even agree with me. Just "I hear you" and then proceeding to hug me really tight. I do the same because he likes it too, it's nice to feel like your opinion or experiences matter to someone... also sex is nice LOL

Anonymous · Answer

No one’s satisfied, it’s fun at first then you slowly drift apart, and either start to dislike eachother or just lose attraction, see it everywhere, in the vast majority of relationships, everyone thinks they’re different and they’re going to be in love on the moon forever, take a look around you, how many people are divorced, single mothers, even people in relationships, miserable, always worried about this and that.

Anonymous · Answer

She has to make me feel like her choice not her option. And it's pretty easy to tell when a woman isn't being genuine. So if she tries to fake it I will see through it pretty easily. And that's worth than her rejecting me for someone else. Because she tried to pull the wool over my eyes instead.

AManOnTheWeb · Answer

When you're spooning together and she lets out a fart and you both belly-laugh about how it stinks so bad that even the dog is leaving the room.

easymfbrezzy96 · Answer

Well i guess to me TRUE Happiness is when you get along well with your significant other and there isn't no fuckery going between yoj to

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's very simple. She just has to first love me, and then admit that she loves me. And allow me to love her. That's it. That's all there is to it.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Peace and actively choosing to go above and beyond for one another because they matter so much to you.

NicholasRedone · Answer

My daydreams 😄♀️😋👀😉 with me and a woman in an ideal world lol 😆💘

BigTex53 · Answer

Marriage, or exclusive relationship with your lover.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Both young billionaires have a huge house and pool

Anonymous · Answer

I've never been in a relationship :(

Awomanof · Answer

Love commitment respect and sex

Anonymous · Answer

Being anon

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