Is it better to have a woman without a romantic past?

[ForevrLonely29]

My fiance never had a serious boyfriend before she met me, and I took her virginity and I am her first kiss. She is my first real relationship too.

I was 29 and she was 26 when we both met. She claims I am her first love too.

I much rather have it this way.

by the way, in case you are wondering about the username... I created this account before I met the love of my life. I seriously thought at one point I was never going to find my first serious relationship and was going to be thay creepy guy that still flirted with teenagers.

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[Makeushiver]

Don't be singleminded in your decisions. Everyone has a past, if they can learn from some of the mistakes that are invariably made than that person, man or woman, is a better person for it. If you are specifically referring to a more active sexual past, the only way men ever learn how to become better lovers is being with someone who can teach you. My experience at least

[Hellraiser1984]

The relationships you have the more jaded and misanthropic you become.

[ForevrLonely29]

I can most definitely see that. This is why I wanted a woman that didn't have a romantic past (or very mimimal) before me.

[Hellraiser1984]

I wanted that too but being a slut in en vogue these days. the only girls with few relationships are usually not very attractive or really religious.

[PeachyPie93]

I suppose it would be fine to for them not to have a past because then I know they don't have anything but at the same time I wouldn't want it to feel like they are settling for me because they can't get better. It usually feels like that way with virgin dudes.

[MzAsh]

You should probably stop posting if you don’t want prison time.

[Zack-Bann]

For dating a 26 year old woman? What country has that listed as a minor?

[MzAsh]

His other posts

[AI Opinion]

That's awesome! 🎉 Having a partner without a previous romantic past can be both exciting and challenging. It can create a unique bond and shared discoveries, but remember love is a journey, and every relationship is a fresh slate. Shared firsts can make memories more special. 🥰 Don't worry too much about the past; what really matters is the love and trust you're building together now. Enjoy your romantic adventure, lovebird! 🕊️

[Zack-Bann]

Why is bro getting shredded by the women in the comments?
What part of this was creepy?
He met and is dating a woman who’s 3 years younger than him and she was 26 when they did meet. I don’t see what the crime is.


If it’s the whole “I thought I would turn into a guy who flirts with teenagers” clearly it didn’t come to that


And yes: flirting with teenagers is a disgusting idea no matter the logic behind it. Just to be clear

[Agape93]

Dude you fucked a 16 year old girl and stalked her, by your own admission on here. By your logic she'd be better off with someone else.

[ForevrLonely29]

Why? That other girl wanted nothing to do with me afterwards. My fiance is my first real serious relationship.

[Agape93]

No shit she didn't want anything to do with a guy who fucks 16 year old kids and stalks her.

You expect women or girls to give you their first time and first relationships, but you can't return it. Hypocrisy

[ForevrLonely29]

You are just jelly because you are a used up hoe

[Agape93]

Why would I be jealous of a dude who fucked a kid and stalked her? Or jealous of a girl who got assaulted by a grown ass man and left scared while being stalked?

[ForevrLonely29]

Listen, that was about 10 years ago. I have moved on. She has moved on. We were both young and dumb, and she didn't want a relationship with me. That was her choice.

[Agape93]

And you chose to fuck a kid as a grown ass man, then stalk her and make her afraid for her safety after you used her. I don't give a fuck if it was 10 minutes ago or 50 years.

[ForevrLonely29]

We were 4 years apart in age at that time, relatively minute if you ask me. This was such a long time ago. She has moved on to become a therapist. I have moved on as well.

[Agape93]

I don't give a shit. You were a fucking adult, and manipulated a kid into bed and stalked her when she didn't want you. She can move on, good for her, but what you did was fucking vile and the fact you see no issue tells me you haven't changed a bit.

[ForevrLonely29]

I swear. You women on here are fucking bat shit crazy.

[Agape93]

Says the stalker child predator? What ever dude. Things like you never change. You see nothing wrong in what you did to her.

[blueonblack22]

Yes but that’s a highly unrealistic expectation for any guy past the age of 25. You are a rare exception to find someone like that (congrats).

But again for the vast majority of guys that’s just not realistic.

[Anonymous]

How nasty is this woman who's into an adult who wants to flirt with teenagers. 🤢🤢

Hope she be a disgusting soul too.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh you jumped from kids to women with development disorders. Not creepy at all. 🤢🤢😶😶

[ForevrLonely29]

I think you missed the point. I was desperate to find a woman that never had a romantic past. I was desperate and doing stupid things. Now, I don't have to worry because I now found the love of my life.

[Opinion Owner]

So desperate that you either go for children or the disabled. Congrats creep. You won the creepiest man on GaG awards. 🤢🤢🤢

[ForevrLonely29]

I am disabled too you know. Me and my fiance both have anxiety issues. I am diagnosed as being on the Autistic Spectrum. I think she is too, but she is undiagnosed.

[Opinion Owner]

You're mentally ill not disabled if you've anxiety. And I understand you having anxiety being an adult fiddling with kids, you're probably afraid to be murdered by some of those children's parents.

[Opinion Owner]

Only time I say someone deserves being mentally ill and that is towards a fricking creep who goes after children and disabled because they're a fricking failure for life.

[Opinion Owner]

You stalked a fucking child too? What the actual fuck is wrong with you. No wonders you're anxiety ridden. 🤢🤢 Fucking nasty ass shit.

[ForevrLonely29]

Holy shit what the fuck is wrong with you people? And yes, I am disabled to a degree. I am on the Autistic Spectrum. I also have severe bipolar. I was hospitalized countless times in my life.

[Opinion Owner]

What is wrong with us people? You fucked and stalked a child and there's something wrong with us?

[Opinion Owner]

Spoken like a true pedophile there.

[ForevrLonely29]

For one, I was seriously developmentally delayed myself and this was like 10 years ago. Me and the girl were only 4 years apart in age. Why the fuck am I explaining myself? This is irrelevant and a long time ago. I found the love of my life now.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't give a shit. You fucked and stalked a child and see nothing wrong with it you disgusting pedophile.

[Opinion Owner]

You fucking and stalking a child will never be irrelevant despite of you manipulating someone with a development disorder you fucking pedophile.

[Opinion Owner]

+ the fact you added you thought you'd be here fiddling with teenagers for life. Like jesus Christ you freak.

[Opinion Owner]

Hope the "love of your life" knows you're into children. 🤢🤢🤢🤢

[ForevrLonely29]

Some of what I say is for shock value. But I did find love now and I am happily engaged.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Whatever story helps you sleep better at night. I doubt she exists, and if she does, I doubt her story.

[ForevrLonely29]

She is on the Autistic Spectrum, undiagnosed, but she does have diagnosed anxiety.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

... and? That doesn't mean she's incapable of lying. I have anxiety too and I can easily lie and say it wasn't totally creepy that you slept with a teenager as an adult and then stalked her. See how that works?

[ForevrLonely29]

That other girl everyone keeps bringing up was a long time ago. I was 20; she was 16. We were only 4 years apart in age and she did not want to have a relationship with me afterwards. I was young and dumb too.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I'd think instead of asking if it's better to find a woman without a sexual past, it would be more fitting to ask if it's better to find a guy without a criminal past.

[molonski2]

I think at the ages you mention then your scenario is perfect , obviously for the likes of me , you'd have to guess something was seriously wrong , lets say she was 40 ?

[Abbycado]

Do you think it is fair to steal someone’s chance of having no romantic past, like you did?

[ForevrLonely29]

I love her with every inch of my heart and soul. I was her first kiss and took her virginity. We are each other's first real relationship.

[Abbycado]

How about the underage girl? Where is her chance at what you think all girls have…no romantic past? You stole that, didn’t you?

[ForevrLonely29]

She didn't want to pursue anything romantically with me afterwards. This was of course about 10 years ago. She has moved on. I have moved on.

[oldpigg]

Only a loser would be with a penetrated woman because he can't get a virgin.

[Yohenis]

Let's keep it this way you want to use a new car right when you enter a showroom? You don't go for "used" cars ;)

[Anonymous]

It might just be easier for the masses to order a girl in a box.

[Anonymous]

I hate to say it but we have drama. Whether the drama of our romantic past was beautiful or not, we over romanticize them. And, that's drama. You'll hear about it whether you like it or not.

[Anonymous]

Oh look, people being judgmental.

No wonder loneliness is sky high.

[Anonymous]

in some questions, didn't you say you were sad and depressed because you never got to have a girlfriend in your teens or beginning of your 20s?

[BigTex53]

I prefer experience in a woman.

[Crazzyyworld]

New sugar baby is the best I guess

[Anonymous]

I prefer a woman with some experience.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes.

[Iron_Man]

Yes …//