Why do girls abandon boys when boys show emotions?

[Anonymous]

emotions betray boys. girls turn away from boys with emotions. girls want tough guy winners, not human boys with emotions.

soft boys with emotions may change to emotionless tough boys. emotionless tough boys may become winners. boys sacrifice their inner humanity to become tough guy winners. now boys are soulless winners. then girls are unhappy why boys dont have feelings. and the cycle repeats.

[Finchie40]

Because most women are attracted to a masculine guy that she feels is strong and confident that barely shows any weak side to him, She was attracted tto his masculinity and confidence when she first met him but now she witnessed a weak side of him that turned her off. Some females’ act like men don’t have a soft side to him , that he can handle whatever comes his way. Most females’ love a guy that keeps her in line , not the other way around. Because females’ are natural care takers , she is turned on by a guy that takes lead , that doesn’t act like one of her children. That doesn’t cry or pout over minor things. She likes a guy that says Fuck it , it’s not that big of a deal and will handle whatever comes their way , she is drawn to his confidence and leadership. of making her feel safe and secure. The key to keeping a girl by your side is to never allow her to walk over you , she should be on her knees for you pretty much. Without you having to ask her to. When a girl feels safe and protected by her man , she will take care of him and compliment him and pleasure him. Why submissive girls’ are the best girls’ for a guy to end up with , submissive girls’ love a dominate man that takes lead that doesn’t take shit from no one , she is drawn to his masculinity and his confidence , she will suck his dick every chance she gets. When a guy shows weakness to her , he is digging his own grave pretty much

[Summeroflove]

Women who are unloving and not nurturing do that. Women who would make absolutely horrible mothers and aren’t supportive of their husbands.

Dude if you can’t feel safe to be you in your own house. It’s time to dump that worthless hoe. Not all women are like that and a woman who is like that will DRAIN you…

[Asker]

I agree

[Summeroflove]

A woman who doesn’t comfort her husband during hard times creates shaking knees

[Amy10223]

I do not think like that at all. when a man shows his feelings, that makes him more human. I don't believe men should stifle feelings as society in this country has taught them to do. When I see a man cry, it makes me feel bad because I know the courage it would take to show such emotions. So I encourage men to show their feelings, unless they are negative ones that would hurt others. I would never abandon a man for that, especially if I had feelings for that man.

[Asker]

We can't find this in our ages and younger 😑

[Amy10223]

I always felt that way at your age. The women who think differently and make fun of men for this, are not the women you want to be with. Find a more sensitive type. They are out there.

[Asker]

Yes. I should find the good and sweet girls, not the ones like that.

[Amy10223]

Good luck, and thanks for the MHO.

[PeachyPie93]

It's because you keep dating shallow pieces of shit, woman with a girls mindset who don't actually like you. If this keeps happening to you, you either are picking the wrong types of girls or you are picking girls out of your league looks wise, so they are just settling for you.

[Asker]

Are you saying, that girls, not women, dont appreciate normal human emotions in boys?

[PeachyPie93]

Yes, immature girls don't appreciate normal guys. They want the mean bad boys who keep them guessing and break their hearts since they like the roller coaster of emotions. Where as a mature normal adult woman loves a guy with real emotions and a secure relationship.

[Asker]

Oooh that makes sense. Were you like that as a girl too?

[PeachyPie93]

No.. I didn't really date when I was younger, but I watched a lot of my friends and others go through stuff.

[Asker]

hmpf. those are little girls indeed 😑

[DishLady]

Where in the world did you get this tripe from? A woman will sit with her guy for eons trying to wrestle a genuine emotion out of him. On the contrary, guy who make it too difficult to “crack the code” to their feelings lose the girl bc she gets frustrated and moves on.

[Asker]

Where are YOU girls? The ones i get leave me after i show my real self like that.

[hahahmm]

Don't believe it when a woman tells you they want to hear everything or for you to show all your feelings. They aren't dudes. Don't make the mistake of thinking they care about your feelings. It is always from the pov of how do your feelings affect them. This is not how dudes look at women.

At the end of the day men are valued for what we do. Not for having vulnerabilities or softness of any kind. Or even if you show any vulnerability it better be only 1/20th of what she has or she will be thinking about how you're too much like a chick. It's how they're wired.

[hahahmm]

Also I disagree with the implied/suggestion you make that a guy showing emotions is less human. Men are NOT women. We don't need to act like women to be human. Just like a woman doesn't need to act like a dude to be human.

[overlord337645]

women want emotions but dont confuse emotions with the idea that you can be super angry and yell at a women and she is going to be ok with that what they want is for you to show them you are strong enough to be there for them if they need it emotionally and physically but they dont want so much emotion that it becomes a problem a good example is fights are almost always emotionally based she dosent care for you to argue with her and get mad but she does care for you to think about her and treat her right and listen to her

[RingOfFire]

*** NEVER *** be fooled by women when they ask you to "show more emotion" and "express your feelings." It's a trap women use.

They are giving you the wimp test to see if you can be manipulated into being a crybaby. If you go along with it they will immediately dump you. No matter how much they claim they do, they don't want a wimpy, emotional crybaby. They want a tough man who can protect them in any situation even when they are crying overemotional and scared.

YOU ARE THE MAN. MAN UP IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE!

[Hellraiser1984]

I've never had a woman not get pissed and call me out if I ever cry in front of them. It's not from being weak it's from being abused as a kid and having no one to comfort me. I was taught to be a complete hard ass drunken womanizer and crying will get you beat. I cried because I'm stressed out and looking for empathy. I have BPD. It's hard to not react strongly. I don't cry all the time. Just when stressed out. Even my female therapists have looked down on me when I cried. They don't like it when you show emotions. They like a$$holes not sensitive guys. The 90s are over and the 90s man is obsolete.

[RedTiefling]

Over-generalizing statements are always wrong. I'm sorry you had an experience that led you to believe this 🫂.

I have had relationships with women who were very supportive and nurturing, and gosh darn it I appreciated it.

There are just some crappy people out there, and if they abandon you for trying to be vulnerable with them, then that's a THEM problem.

[Asker]

I suppose

[Iquestioneverything]

I’ve always been drawn to Men that show emotion. I think it takes a real Man to show his feelings to me than pretend to not care or show emotion. My Husband shows emotions and he is also a GREAT Father to our children, so there’s that positive too.

[aahleynarrawhor2]

1. Girls crave the feeling of being used for sex due to their body
2. Girls love attention if a guy is using you for ur body and if he can’t get enough of using ur body for pleasure what could
Validate ur need for attention or be more proof that you are very attractive to have that reaction

[Anonymous]

Only immature girls do that. Anyways you shouldn't be with such kind of girls until they learn maturity of understanding the other person's emotions. Because they'll break your heart into million pieces in the long run if you let them treat you like a garbage. Instead be with a girl who always understands your emotions if you're looking for a life without many heartbreaks. Protect your heart. Don't let a girl play with it and don't play with her heart also

[mobiusforniner]

I’ve not had any woman abandon me for being forthright in what I’m feeling. If she’s bailing on him it’s likely his idea of showing emotions is having a hissy fit when he doesn’t get what he wants.

[lightbulb27]

They want emotions as long as they provide vulnerability and security towards the woman. They don't want emotions that cause insecurity, frailty, weakness... in general.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I've never seen that happen.
I've seen girls complain a guy is insensative, but never seen a girl complain that a guy is emotional (even if he's an emotional wreck).

[AnonAndrew]

Maybe there's a middle ground between "soft" and "emotionless" ?

[chilldude33]

Because men are evaluated by how much respect they get. Being emotional lowers your respect.

[Pohjolan]

Paradox is that the more though and masculine a guy is the more women tolerate feminine traits and weaknesses.

Mr Olympia can cry in his girlfriend's arms.

[Crazzyyworld]

Because of inconsistency. If you show you are tough then keep on doing the same don’t change in the middle

[Yulia-Bel]

Society teaches people to believe that men can't show emotions because emotions are exclusive to females. Personally, I find that ridiculous. Emotion is present in ALL humans.

[Anonymous]

I wonder the same, some girls can be very cruel :(

[Asker]

dont let those horrible "girls" dwell in your mind rent free. they are an insult to girls.
There must be nice and sweet girls out there for us but we will have to be nice and sweet ourselves in order to get with them.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm usually nice to girls, but lots of them aren't nice to me.

[Asker]

lots of them are not even girls to me bro

[Opinion Owner]

Good point... true but sad.

[Anonymous]

Society states that it is not proper for a man to cry or exude any type of female type emotions. This in society's opinion makes a man weak and unsuitable for marriage.

[missindiana93]

Because they want a robot with no feelings.

[Asker]

yes. they want that

[Anonymous]

Most problems start with self.

[DryGermanGuy]

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