Partner doesn't want to hang out with me?

[beenherebefore]

My Partner doesn't want to hang out. He's always too tired on the weekend and doesn't want to leave the house all he does is play his video game or be on his phone. He does go out if his friend's invite him but if I suggest something he either dismisses the idea, says he’s too tired, or just isn’t interested. I feel like I’m losing a part of him, and it’s affecting how connected we feel as a couple. We've been together for more than two years and live together. In the beginning we always used to do stuff together like go to a new restaurant together, go on dates or go out for a coffee/tea or dessert. He seems to have lost interest in doing fun things with me.

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We live together and see each other everyday but other than that we don't do anything outside the house at the moment.

[Potteplante]

Then talk to the man. He knows what is going on with himself, now we and if you can't talk to your partner about shit like this, then you ain't doing a good job.

[beenherebefore]

He says nothing's going on and he's just tired.

[Potteplante]

Say BS. You've seen change. That you want what you choose, not what you have no. Tell him how his actions make you feel, if he doesn't give a fuck then you know he simply just don't give shits about you.

[beenherebefore]

Thank you.

[LiamS95]

Sounds like all the spark has left your relationship. Does he at least enjoy regular sex with you? If not, then it may be time to find a new partner.

[HusamRocks]

It's normal since u two r used to each other now
U need to ignite the spark again, be creative 👍🏻

[AI Opinion]

Yikes, sounds like you're dealing with a bit of a disappearing act there! It's no fun when your partner starts ghosting on the good times. There's definitely a red flag waving around if he's saving his social energy only for his friends. 😏 But hey, you're not alone in wanting that connection back! Maybe it's time for a heart-to-heart chat. You deserve someone who's all in for making memories together—just like the good old times. Keep the love alive, and remember, communication is your best friend here! 💌💫

[eagle1951]

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