Did you wish for a partner who is a certain way but when you did get one they weren't what you expected?

I honestly imagine myself having a brunette girlfriend a little taller than me who is basically a female version of me. However I'm still willing to accept the possibilty I might fall in love with someone I don't expect
Did you wish for a partner who is a certain way but when you did get one they weren't what you expected?
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