There's someone I get along so well, and he's a very touchy person. We're comfortable with each other, so physical contact isn't an issue between us. We consider each other friends, but I've noticed that he's extra touchy with me compared to others. He often pinches my arms and waist or tickles my sides. He also puts his hands on my legs or thighs—sometimes squeeze them or smack them. He can't seem to go a day without doing these things. I don’t necessarily have a problem with it, but it does seem a bit unusual since his physical contact feels intentional, even when unnecessary. One time, I was sitting on a chair doing something on the computer and he suddenly was tickling my upper side thigh, around the glutes area and just smack em (that was really weird). Also, there was a time he randomly massages my shoulders and I just played along with it. Also, there was a time we were watching a movie while eating a popcorn and my fingers where covered with cheese powder. A friend of mine called and while I was on call, that dude just let his intrusive thoughts win- The dude legit tried to bite my fingers covered in cheese—my fingers were so close to being inside his mouth. I literally smacked his arms. In addition, dude was hella flirty and suggestive to the point that I can't even process what he was saying. One time, he asked me to check whether he's infertile or not, how am I supposed to do that? On the other hand, aside from him being touchy, our conversations and topics are usually deep. It revolved around how we see relationships, what we think of it, family, kids, family dynamics etc. One time, he asked me what it takes for a man to date me. Also, asking my opinions on engagement rings, would I marry a mama's boy, whether should I stay with my partner if things are not working out especially when there are kids already, how many children do I prefer, would I rather marry someone rich and not work, or marry someone and still have to work, and etc.
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One time, he asked me if am I gonna leave my future husband if I found out he's infertile, he noted that it's legal to leave and also, he said that I just found out about it after getting married, will I leave the guy? I just said no and explained why... Then, he just randomly said about what if he's infertile (referring to himself). One time, he was being too childish and just randomly said "sorry (my name) if I'm being childish" and I just replied "it's okay. I don't mind" and he said "love u"
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Alright, love detectives, let’s dive into this mysterious mind-meld, shall we? His actions are like a neon sign saying, "Hey, I’m super interested!" 🌟 His touchy-feely behavior might be a bit overboard, but sometimes feelings manifest in unusual ways. The deep chats about relationships, kids, and marriage? 🚀 That's like shooting Cupid’s arrow straight from the heart! But let's sprinkle some reality glitter here: If this physical touch makes you uncomfortable or confused, share those feelings with him. It’s all about setting boundaries, babe! If you're vibing with it, maybe it’s time to reconsider the “just friends” label. 💘 As for that fertility question—well, quite the bold move! 😅 In the end, follow your heart, and if it feels right, it just might be love trying to sneak past your defenses! 💞