Girls, for you , you think it's important for a man to know how to fight?

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Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I try think there’s only virtue in choosing peaceful solutions to problems when you do have ability yo inflict all the harm it would need otherwise

If a guy who can’t fight says he doesn’t believe in violence he’s not speaking on principle he’s speaking out of a personal worry about his self preservation

And in real life this translates to having to deal with certain hardships like not going out late at night in a big city
Not being able to take your phone out of your pocket in public transport
Trivial things like that

Someone who can’t fight has no limitations
And if he’s somewhat smart he’ll avoid fighting at all costs just make sure the potential mugger knows what the outcome could look like if he tried

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Some girls’ love the feeling of being safe and protected by her man , and are turned on by a man that can fight , especially from my personal experiences with girls’ that felt safe being with me , I am more a lover than a fighter , but I will fight if someone crosses the line. I use to work in the security field for a lot of years as well as being a bouncer , I would get hit on a lot by girls’ when I was bouncing at clubs for extra money.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

It is — which includes knowing how NOT to fight. What I mean is… for example… my friend J for instance looks like he can kick a guy’s ass up and down a city block. He looks a guy in the eye when they meet so it’s clear without saying a word that the other guy is expected to behave, etc. There’s a sense that J is barely restraining himself from clocking someone, even if he smiles and seems to be standing down… This “potential” of knowing how to fight and being super fit prevents others from starting a fight with him.

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

I would rather nobody ever fight, but yes in case it is ever necessary, he should be able to protect himself and me because I am not going to be doing any fighting.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aha, the ol' "knight in shining armor" scenario! 🤺 While some gals might like the idea of their partner being able to protect them physically, it's usually way more important for him to communicate, understand, and support emotionally. Being a good fighter in emotional battles and resolving conflicts peacefully is the real MVP trait. Relationships rarely need a boxing match, but those verbal ones? They're the real deal! 🥊 Much love! ❤️

NathanDavis · Answer

would be more important to know how to defend and protect yourself, and others

another very important thing to know and understand about fighting is... that you can actually kill people "with just one punch" and it can ruin your entire life...

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Not at all. The men who can protect their women/themselves are smart to take on martial arts for self defense… however…even smarter to use his brain to win over his opponent.

purplepoppy · Answer

No. Because men who know how to fight always go looking for trouble to prove it and sooner or later pick a fight with someone who puts then in hospital.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

I think a man and even a woman should know self-defense when necessary. It will be helpful not just for yourself, but also for others who may need help someday.

ABC1x1x · Answer

I'm a stray cat idiot from one block outside of Philly Pennsylvania. I been in close to 50 street fights and I won all of them. Got the living shit kicked out of me too. I married the first woman that tasted my blood after kissing me after a fight and said "you're fighting days are over. We are moving to Texas and we will shoot anyone that attacks us"

itsannalee · Answer

It’s always important to know how to fight no matter the gender are.

FreyaRed · Answer

Not only how to fight but how to win a fight

glennos89 · Answer

Is a guy a real man if he can't defend you or himself? I don't think so. A real man should be going into a fight to defend his loved one even if he already knows upfront he isn't going to win. At least he should give it all he got in my opinion

Phoenix98 · Answer

I think men should know how to and be capable of defending themselves.

Better to know how and be capable of it and never need to. Then to not know how and find yourself in a situation were you wish you did.

katiesmuff · Answer

I think it helps should it become necessary to use. I also believe in these type of situations when adrenaline get activated in a person they become able to do things they never thought imaginable

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yeah I think its good. Obviously I don't want to be with a hot head who goes looking for fights but its attractive to have a guy confident enough to not let people treat him like shit.

MemeSupreme · Answer

it's important for a man to know how to de-escelate but yeah i want him on a basic level be able to defend himself. he doesn't need to be a pro lol

EmmaMary · Answer

No I most certainly don't... They're the first to go looking for a fight or even provoking one.

RavVid · Answer

Some girls really seem to get off men fighting. Girls from poorer economic stratas in particular; they are more primal.

Samantha_Stevenson · Answer

Absolutely. Pro fighter or naah.

alice55 · Answer

It's important to know how to defend himself and me more than knowing how to attack but knowing how to attack is attractive.

msc545 · Answer

I can fight but I sure as hell will NOT do it over a woman. All those tough independent women can take care of themselves.

PrincessC16 · Answer

No, I could care less. Mature men usually don't get to the first fight stage.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I think all y'all women out there that say men shouldn't know how to fight are lying cuz the first thing y'all always say is when I'm with my man I want to feel safe. How can he defend you if he can't defend himself

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

The immense majority of people have nothing clue how to fight, just throw unbalanced punches hoping to hit something and get smacked in the face by crazy unbalanced punches as they go.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Not for this man 😭 if she doesn't want me then she can walk from me 😞 from me

lee_asksnanswersqs · Answer

To fight? No. To defend himself? Yes.
Basic posture and stance when being threatened is both important for yourself and makes your parter feel safe. Don't be a coward but don't break someone's nose for a laugh.

Emmytexrex · Answer

One thing I have always done it's always finding a peaceful way solve a fight because I don't believe fighting like an animal can solve anything

bddddd · Answer

Unless your man is aspiring to an MMA career, I do not see how that could be important

lyrem04 · Answer

Yea as long as they won’t fight women lol

serious · Answer

Subjective to a woman.

WhitneySnow · Answer

It’s a useful skill but not vital

RyanEC · Answer

I hope not because I can’t fight.

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

Not a girl, but yes. I think so

Dimitra9 · Answer

Very important like in nature shows.

Averagegirl2000 · Answer

Like on the Discovery Channel.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

why would it be?

Girls, for you , you think it's important for a man to know how to fight?

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