Guys if you find out your wife/ girlfriend secretly works as stripper, how would you feel?

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molonski2 · Accepted Answer

Well , it would not happen ( secretly ) because of my background , so I'd already know.. but in my past role / occupation , I did see this on a number of occasions , and it was never a " happy ending " ..

We always had a rule in the club , no partners , and no bullshitting to partners , it was much much easier all round in 98 % of cases , that the girl was single , or just had some dude that didn't give a shit. All I wanted was smooth , no drama , sabai sabai , I dont want some guy turning up off his head with rage , I can think of maybe 5 of these , we just dealt with these guys , and sent the girl in question to a friends house.

Much Safer.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I would be amazed because

1. she is 61 years old,

2. I know where she works - a grocery store - because I occasionally stop and visit her while she's working, and she leaves home in her uniform.

3. She only works one night per week.

4. Most importantly, doing something like that would be FAR, FAR outside of her comfort zone.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I'd feel betrayed. If this woman and I are partners, why is she keeping this from me? Does she not trust me? Do we not know each other well enough for me to accept what she does?

And how could a wife keep such a thing secret from her husband? A girlfriend might be able to for some period of time, but eventually, this would have to come out.

Kelley1 · Accepted Answer

I don't know how most males would react, but all simps and some other men would be okay with it. Edward Snowden's girlfriend, Lindsay Mills, was an exotic pole dancer. Since she was on stage in skimpy clothes with a mostly male audience, that is similar.

Finchie40 · Answer

I would be hurt and upset that she kept that a secret from me and ask her why she kept it a secret from me? I would lose respect for her and have a hard
Time Trusting her. And I would probably walk the other way , unless she gave me an honest answer as to why she did it and she answers all my questions honestly then I might let it slide lol

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

I would feel betrayed in the extreme. Furious. Disgusted. And I would end things immidiately. That would be a ridiculously shitty thing for her to do. I would question our entire relationship. I sure hope this question is hypothetical.

ohsheeT · Answer

I'm still going to feel the same way I do today  With my hands lol

AviatorTom · Answer

I would wonder why she's keeping it a secret, and that might lower my level of trust for her.

Salaciousrouge · Answer

Wait! What? why didn't I note the smell of smoke, vomit, and desperation in her hair? Oh, maybe because I was out at all the *other* clubs in which she didn't work, when she returned home at 2:30 am.

Also, I'd be hurt knowing she doesn't trust me enough to tell me... where all the extra cash going compiled by the lack of sharing in our lovingly exclusive relationship.

This question is borders on ridiculous. The woman who even considers this as a capital venture let alone does this, likely engages with men who likely don't care. Or she's dating him because he's a pantless patsy who peovides her with a false sense of normalcy.

Me? I'd feel stupid, ingorant, and betrayed. But then again, if she's hot enough to be a stripper I'd probably play along till it became dangerous, illegal, or potentially puts my health or livelihood at risk at which time I'd be out without so much as a hat tip.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Somewhat off topic but I remember a story from an Eastern European nation where a guy's wife said that she got a job. One day when the guy's wife was at work, he went over to a brothel at a nearby town, and lo and behold his wife was working there! After that they planned on getting divorced. Not sure why? Isn't that the "Pina Colada Song" come to life? LOL...

Surely · Answer

I know that stripping can bring in good money. I would hope that she wouldn’t need to go to that extreme!
Most guys would want to date someone in that profession. But then they would become jealous afterwards!
As for me. I would rather she doesn’t and especially if she kept it from me!

KennethNoisewater · Answer

I would feel like a dumbass not picking up the signs that she was a stripper. I would be curious why she kept it a secret. In my opinion, a lot of the times when there are secrets being held from your partner, it’s usually the lies that piss me off more. Just don’t lie. If you’re lying to one another it’s because of compatibility issues. If there is compatibility issues then why are you even together?

Kaneki05 · Answer

Upset that she hiding it from me, and confused more since I have no problem with this.  She should know that I have no problem with her doing that.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Damn bitch! Where da money at? You shakin that fine ass and I'm sittin here eating franks & beans? WTF woman? Git yo ass back on that pole til I'm scarfin filet mignon from that back of my new boat I christen the SS "Ass 4 Cash". FFS!

soe11 · Answer

I don't answer "if" question  My girlfriend is trustworthy and loyal to me. We don't conceal each other, rather open transparent and open books. We both have mature understanding and respect each other choice

MannMitAntworten · Answer

If I had a wife who was secretly working as a stripper I would really have to question my level of paying attention to the going ons in my marriage. I mean, assuming you live together, wouldn’t be obvious something was up if she came home very late smelling of booze and various cheap colognes from the guys there?

sage2021 · Answer

I wouldn't like it at all. I like men that have more ambition in their lives.

Anonymous · Answer

I’d walk. No self respecting man really wants a wife like that. Whether it’s a prostitute, stripping, or an Only Fans girl. It brings shame on your name, as an individual, as a family, etc. A lot of women seem to think that’s ok. I get some people are in desperate situations so they may go to such things, but that doesn’t change how most men see you regardless. There’s plenty of other options out there besides this type of work. But yes we’d be done.

sawno · Answer

I'd leave instantly. The whole foundation of a relationship is sexual exclusivity and honesty. If I find out I got neither from her there's no point in her ever talking to me again.

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

I don't get the point of stripping. I mean, I get it, I guess, but, like, the only thing different from stripping than just normal pole dancing, is that you're dancing half naked, and giving lap dances, etc..

If you want to pole dance, just pole dance, for FUCKING CHRIST SAKES

Sunrising · Answer

I'd be very delighted, that's one job I hate doing, but I don't mind wallpapering!

Bricealan · Answer

@kelly6 That wouldn't bother me a bit, Kelly.

slatyb · Answer

Amazed, given her age, and the fact that I know where she is almost all the time.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

That would be grounds for a breakup/divorce.. Firstly she's a stripper, and Secondly she kept it from me.. That's not something you can really hide one way or another.. It would come out sooner than later..

NicholasRedone · Answer

@kelly6 would've preferred her do a discreet private side hobby side job as a OnlyFans or PornHub content creator personally for extra wages dollars lol

bowenw · Answer

Hurt that she felt she had to keep it a secret from me.

Jove79 · Answer

I would get a bunch of single dollar bills, then wait until she gets home from work. As she walks in I’ll play some loud music that they play at clubs.. then I’ll start grinding on her and making it rain! 💵 💁‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Before giving her the boot.

loveslongnails · Answer

I'd wonder where she got the body to do it, and I'd be happy. :)

exitseven · Answer

I would be really angry but also a little turned on.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Well either she can quit that job or I'm gonna leave the relationship/marriage. Because I'm not gonna be with a stripper.

Makeushiver · Answer

I know one women who have folded a life as a wife & Mother along with a sex worker. She is smart and very intelligent about it.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I would feel like she could hook me up with the girls at the club.

Mark987 · Answer

I would end it, especially if we were married or going out together. If we were just seeing each I would accept it, because we aren't exclusive.

BobbyLee789 · Answer

No problem, I'd like it, I'd like to see her with other men 🔥

SteveO82 · Answer

if she’s doing it secretly I would leave her. Women are a dime a dozen so why waste your time with somebody keeping secrets? Every woman thinks she’s a 10 when most of them are a five at best. At the very least find somebody honest

glennos89 · Answer

Disgusted and betrayed. That would definitely be a deal breaker for me

Staximus · Answer

My friend's wife was working as a stripper behind his back. She was also fucking all the neighbors. It did not go over well.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

My first serious girlfriend was a prostitute, so I would be totally fine with it.

WonderingManII · Answer

I couldn't trust her anymore because she does it in secret.

Ironic_Method · Answer

If it's a secret, I feel like that'd be grounds for divorce. I won't tolerate lying.

Godihateyou · Answer

As long as she doesn't find out I'm a serial killer I'm not g9nna judge what she does on her free time.

dougeats · Answer

I would feel the need to go to the bank and get 300 single dollars

shortster · Answer

Why would I not know she has a job? You have to report that stuff on your 1040.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm single, so I would be surprised, my girlfriend is imaginary :P

Adrian2025 · Answer

How does that even possible? She is working as a stripper and I have no idea!!!

Catailian94 · Answer

Can I get a private show?

MrOracle · Answer

I would feel VERY SINGLE.

TallAnon · Answer

The secret parts makes it an insta nope.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Likely (but not 100%) BOOT THE B***H!!!

RavVid · Answer

Angry and betrayed.

Jennz6 · Answer

Most strippers don’t get married 💃

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Fine with me. It's just her skin.

tzdc21 · Answer

Well she wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore.

Shiprex · Answer

She would be finding a new place to live

MrChinaski · Answer

it's just nudity. not a big issue.

stratford · Answer

I'd demand a free show there and then :-)

Celticwolf78 · Answer

As long as I get a free lap dance I don't care

WhiteThought · Answer

I'd break up with her without hesitation

Lilly1979 · Answer

Get her so show for me.

Grond21 · Answer

That would be grounds for divorce.

LiamS95 · Answer

A bit disturbed

Wise4myage · Answer

Id be bummed she kept it from me.

austinbooth · Answer

I honestly would have no problem.

Dongie · Answer

I stock up on dollar bills. Then get me some.

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