Would you date a stripper? What about a girl who used to strip? Would you be loyal if you did?

[Turntout4klout]

Not a stripper but i will update on what strippers think of their boyfriends

Updates

+1 y

Any guy that doesn't care that his girlfriend is getting naked for $5 and dry humping old men for $20 can't really say he cares. he's either a chump or a wanna be pimp

[DizzyDesii]

A lot of strippers appear to have bad attitudes and are always looking for money in exchange for something. Im sure if a guy found a rare one who wasn't like that, they’d consider it. But she’d probably also have to be a “former” stripper cause i imagine only cucks are cool with their girl showing her goodies to another guy while she's with him. If i became a stripper, it would be because i couldnt score any other job and i also would have to have given up on having kids or a spouse cause i wouldn't want to ruin anyones reputation like im ruining my own. The closest i’d come to being a stripper is a cage/gogo dancer. I think its sexy and i get to keep my clothes on while doing a hobby i love. Plus im not disrespecting myself or my family in the process

[lambrini]

Do you know what a stripper is? You have already disrespected your whole family.

[DizzyDesii]

@lambrini enlighten me 😑

[lambrini]

You don't have to be a cuck because your girl is a stripper, my girlfriend is a stripper and has had many people in her but I'm fine with it, we don't even have sex anymore because she gets a lot from her job because i don't earn money and she earns way too much.

I like that other men are satisfied because of her and I will always support her and encourage her to keep having sex with other men for our future.

[DizzyDesii]

@lambrini yea you’re a cuck. Have a good day sir

[MrOracle]

@lambrini That's the most pathetic thing I've read on GaG this month. And that's saying something.

[SteveSmith1985]

I would never date a stripper. Ever. I don't understand how anyone could. I agree with what you wrote in your "update". Usually I would ramble on for a while about this. But... you summed it up quite well.

Now, when it comes to a girl who USED to strip. That is obviously not ideal. But I do believe that people can change. I have known people who have. It would depend on the particular case. But I would not consider someone forever tainted because they were a stripper in the past. It depends on what they THOUGHT about their stripping in the past. How does she feel about it now? Is she still "a stripper" on the inside, or has she grown to become someone very different from who she used to be. I believe some people can and do change. On the other hand, some girls are still 'strippers' long after they quit working as a stripper.

[NetSapien]

I would and have many times.

I used to work in Strip Clubs and handful of escort services for many years. I've known 100s of dancers and even consider many of them very good friends. The girls I've known have always been very grateful, loyal, and honest with me, more so than many that look down on them for their work.

When I got divorced and was left to solo parent my daughter, out of all my friends, the ones who stepped up and offered assistance to me were actually, the dancers and escorts.

My daughter's fondest memories all involve them and I am eternally grateful for them being there in my life and helping me.

So yes, I'd date a stripper, more likely than one that isn't and definitely over one that looks down on them.

[NetSapien]

re update:

I think everyone cares. Some care a little too much that they're willing to look down on them, but everyone cares, I believe anyway, to some degree.

I do still stand by my statement. I'm more likely to date a stripper, than a woman willing to look down on them, or anyone for that matter.

[Turntout4klout]

Nobody is looking down on anybody I don't know why you keep saying that. There's no such thing as caring too much about a non negotiable.

[NetSapien]

really? just some examples in the comment section here alone include...

- "Any guy that would is just pathetic and sad"
- "They have no honor"
- "They belong in the bin"

Although I did not state you or anyone in particular looked down on them in my opinion, just that many have and still do look down on them in general. Many also do care to a degree. Religious groups, housewives, zealots, etc, have cared for decades about how 'immoral' Strip Clubs, how destructive they are to households, or how we're all going to burn in hell for their actions.. just a few examples.

Everyone's entitled to their opinions, and they must be respected. But these I referenced above aren't exactly putting strippers on pedestals and these aren't opinions exclusive to men either.

Your mention of 'care' in the update emphasized the context to mean "getting naked for $5 and dry humping old men for $20", not whether or not they were stripping. Not all strippers engage in lap dances or even getting naked. I do not understand what is 'non-negotiable' here.

I can understand if the context of a stripper itself being a disqualifier is 'non-negotiable'. But I've made no assertion to this one way or another.

Only other thing I mentioned was my experience with many of these women.

[Turntout4klout]

Well I don't know what fairy tale you've lived in but the strippers that I know get naked. Last I checked that's what strippers do. I didn't say there weren't good people among them but most of them are rotten

[NetSapien]

Well, I can understand your limited experience may lead you to that conclusion. I spent nearly 15 years working in them in 3 different states.

Different jurisdictions have different laws that apply to the level of nudity allowed in Strip Clubs.

- Nashville, for example, a 'stripper' can't come within 3 feet of a patron, much less "dry humping old men for $20"
- Las Vegas, If there's alcohol only topless nudity is allowed. No alcohol full nudity and 18 yr olds can enter.
- Tampa, FL, has a no nude ordinance in effect since the 70s. and the girls 'strip' in swimsuits.
- Miami, FL, fully nude everywhere.

Not all strip clubs are the same, and I've worked in all types. Most of my time working them though, was spent bouncing between Nevada and Florida.. This is the fairy tail I've lived.

[NetSapien]

I never claimed you said anything at all, bad or good. But I would disagree with the most of them being rotten. Many yes, but most, no.

[Harleigh90]

What makes a stripper less worthy of love or a stable relationship? Why should they be judge on a decision they made?

I used to work for a well known strip club in London, not ashamed of it at all! Because that's how I payed my way through university and work my backside off for a career.

Never once did I have sex or was even touch by a customer.
Because we provide a service, that's now assumed as cheating?

[devilman666]

So would you date a pornstar?

[t-8900]

waiting tables or being a barista wasn't an option? Lol

Like most guys can't pull off that job and somehow they survive college and pay off their debts too...

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s amazing how judgmental people are.

I date a girl that did similar to @harleigh90 she paid her way through Uni and is now a consultant at a major hospital.

@t-8900
you are a hypocrite, pure and simple.

@devilman666 that’s a bit of an assumption. However, would you consider a Cam girl a porn star? That is a very common way for both guys and girls to pay through university these days.

[Turntout4klout]

Calling people judgmental is a judgment in itself. there's hypocrisy in that sentence alone

[Harleigh90]

@devilman666 Yes I would. Because I wouldn't judge someone by their job title.

[t-8900]

@ChrisMaster69 ummm how? I've never sold my body or used it for money.

[ChrisMaster69]

@t-8900 I mean you as a person on this site.

[t-8900]

@ChrisMaster69 in what way dude? Last time you made assumptions and jumped the gun without ever explaining

[ChrisMaster69]

@turntout4klout yeah I am happy to call people out where suddenly they became a lesser person from something minor

[Harleigh90]

@t-8900 If you must know, I did that too. But the club payed more. Yes, but and many guys stripped too.. A job was a job, you took whatever you could.

[ChrisMaster69]

@t-8900 you preach how religious and forgiving you are then swipe at people.

The one you commented are you were lying.

[Harleigh90]

@ChrisMaster69 Thank you 💕 Many people won't speak out, their too afford at being belittled. It's disgusting. Like you said it very common using this platform to get through uni and save enough to buy a house.

[t-8900]

@ChrisMaster69 you can forgive someone and still not want to date that person. What's the issue exactly? Swipe at who? When? And what lie? The last time you tried to say I lied was about sex. I've had sex, I know what I like or would like. There's no lie in that. You just drew assumptions. And forgiveness goes as far as has the act stopped or is it still actively being done?

[ChrisMaster69]

@harleigh90 the way I see it is people are more than happy to have a go at people that try to make something of themselves, but also have a go at those that don’t.

When you as a midwife are delivering babies do they see an ex dancer or person doing a really hard job bringing life in to the world.

[t-8900]

@ChrisMaster69 read question again. It is talking currently. I would not be caught dating an active stripper. As far as claiming one needs the money I see other jobs available. The money isn't as quick, but imho it a different set of morals. It's not forced, it's a choice. So acting like there is no other way or alternative is as the say in your country "bollocks". There's not even a reason for you getting all upset 24/7 just because not everyone is a progressive. Everyone has a right to their own standards and to who they will or will not get entangled with.

[ChrisMaster69]

@t-8900 😂😂😂😂

Like fucking seriously

Swipe at quote

waiting tables or being a barista wasn't an option? Lol

Like most guys can't pull off that job and somehow they survive college and pay off their debts too...

Unquote.

Yeah I would say that’s a fair swipe at someone

Oh the sex thing for clarity, was you flip flopping between having it only once ever but stopping before you finished and a number of posts where you went on about other times where you were getting it, that’s called lying.

[ChrisMaster69]

@t-8900 stop trying to hide behind words etc.

You said it, it was a swipe, live with it and accept it.

[t-8900]

@ChrisMaster69 and I clarified band you didn't even bother. I told you I was raped MULTIPLE Times by a woman! Not once, not twice, not a dozen times, literally dozens and dozens of times! I had sex once of my own Accord and stopped midway. What are you nor understanding? I have never counted rape against anyone. I challenge you to find one time I ever have!

[t-8900]

@ChrisMaster69 it remains true. I can live with what I said just now, it's not an issue. And I have never "hidden behind my words". My mytakes have been there for a hot minute. Anyone can see and read them. I wasn't hiding anything. I've been more honest and opened then most.

[CaliSixx]

@ChrisMaster69 yass, preach it brother!

[rebeliouse]

@harleigh90
good on you girl. makes me laugh questions like this as whats diff between been a stripper and a life model but no one ever has a go at life models!

[rebeliouse]

@harleigh90
follow me?

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never dated a stripper but I have dated a woman who had previously (10 years earlier) been a prostitute. I found out after I started dating her and I didn't tell her that I knew; I waited to see if she would reveal that to me, and she did. I decided to not break up with her over that issue but to at least give her a chance. We ultmately broke up over an unrelated issue.

[exitseven]

It sounds like you made a pretty hard decision.

[SphynxUK]

Your update shows that your knowledge of being a stripper is limited.
Secondly, it shows that you don’t value men very much.
Did you consider the fact that a happy, mentally mature man can actually accept the fact his other half is a stripper, and ‘doesn’t care’ because he loves her and it’s just her job?

[Turntout4klout]

I bartended at strip clubs for almost 10 years and never once done a dance. trust me I know strippers better than you do.

[GingerGuy]

It wouldn't be "out of the question", but I think I would always question if her interest in me was genuine or not. Because it's literally her job to appear interested in guys. The fact that she's a stripper itself doesn't bother me though. So I guess it would depend on the specific person and her personality. How genuine I think she really is.

[LikeALog]

Yes. I have a female friend that became a stripper in a high class gentleman's club. She was pretty, had a very nice shapely firm body and was intelligent. She was the main attraction and got huge tips. Didn't do drugs. Didn't date customers. Saved and invested her money. After about four and a half years, she quit. Started a new life running a respectable business she owns.

She's still pretty, great figure and intelligent. She's not 27 yet.

[normalice]

As long as there is mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts, sure. Probably the biggest risk with a stripper is a risk that we have incompatible personalities, as I'm kind of introverted and I'd imagine strippers need to be extroverted as a baseline. I suppose sexual incompatibility is also a risk as there might be some things she wouldn't be able to do lest it interfere with her performances.

[ZackBan]

You can get 2 kinds of answers to this question:
Those who will not date a stripper.
And those who will lie saying they would.
Trust me anyone an feed you a line saying "yeah I would I'm modern and considerate and all that" but it becomes real and the stripper is there with him as a girlfriend he'll reconsider.

[Shizunk]

A currently working stripper 100% no chance. Someone who did it once, doesn't plan on going back to it, maybe. It is a red flag, much like past promiscuity, but I would listen to an explanation why such behavior will not be repeated. If I thought that a girl may possibly go back to stripping later, I would avoid her like a plague.

[jshm2]

Sure, already have dated strippers, escorts and camgirls. They are just people, after all.

But you can't make a whore into a housewife. You need to understand that some people just have too much baggage for themselves and you to carry. Not everyone can be happy and not everyone can get it.

[t-8900]

Depends on her story, why she came to that, when she was doing it, for how long, and if she was having sex with clients in a backroom for extra pay. But pretty highly likely, it's gonna be a no from me.

[t-8900]

love the update and loved the bait and switch. it's a lesson and reminder to never give up your principles for some tail. That's what separates the boys from the men.

The reason I gave my answer how I did was for one reason and one reason only. I was predated upon as a child. I have read numerous stories of women kidnapped and forced into doing certain things. Can I as a victim hold something like that against them? She would have to have told me at a later time after I was already in that emotional place but yeah, I don't know. All of this in context matters. If she had decided of her own free will to go do it, then hell no. And if she had any type of sex, oral, anal, vaginal, in her line of work then yeah even as a victim no because its just too gross for me.

[CaliSixx]

Usually strippers are actually very nice people. My aunt was a stripper and she was married for 22 years, and didn't cheat once.

[StrawberryShake]

Was she married while stripping? Or was this before

[CaliSixx]

@StrawberryShake she was married while stripping

[StrawberryShake]

Yeeeah that's cheating. Either that or her husband is a cuck. Smh

[tzdc21]

No. Would always be loyal but I will never date a stripper and a former stripper. I gotta REALLY REALLY REALLY like you in order to even consider looking past your sexual past. And even that's not a given.

[MCheetah]

Maybe a long-since retired one who has cleaned up her act, but definitely not a current one. I'd be friends with her, but that's about it.

And WTF is that picture? Is that you? Is she tall or is he just really short?

[MrGreen95]

Yes to the core. It shouldn't matter what they have done or did. I've done male escorting before. Things happen to us everyday that can alter our way of life. Just as long as you can get back up in your feet and move past it should be just fine Tho

[hi_it_is_me123]

I respect the strippers but i won't date any stripper. I am too jealous. I personally think majority of sex workers ain't doing it with their fully free will. So i think we should not judge sex workers

[Nik1hil]

Depends on kind of stripper she is...

How many clients she did for money...

Does she has any STD...

Whats she going to do after she becomes my girlfriend because stripping is off the tables...

[exitseven]

I probably would have said no but I met a girl who was a stripper at the gym I worked out in ans she seemed really nice. She was studying to get a degree in counseling and was jusrt doing it for the money.

[Danny_dan92]

Ehh… doubt it. Considering I know that strippers sometimes actually fuck the guys they do private dances on if they find the guy hot sooo yeah. No thanks.


I don’t wanna risk picking up an STD and get cheated on all thanks to her profession

[Poobutt711]

Or jus a non judgmental person who doesn't really care about anything, lives carefree and enjoys life.
I could say the opposite, that someone who cares if someone was a stripper cares too much about irrelevant shit.. it doesn't matter

[RebeccaBI2000]

I would have no issues. The ones I have known are usually doing it to pay for college and end up with no debt.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Lolol men want their girlfriends and wives to enjoy stripping for them, but can't handle a professional who might actually be good at it.