Is abuse also a violation of trust in a relationship or marriage and worth breaking-up or divorcing?

[Anonymous]

If there is something else other than infidelity that I won't ever tolerate is abuse. I believe this is something that doesn't even need to be told. Same as you don't tell a new hired worker that if they steal from the job, they get fired. It's already a given, should be.

My parents have a rocky marriage for the longest and there were times in the past that arguments turned into physical altercations. Maybe my parents and others tolerate this ''will couples can get physical towards each other at times, it's normal'' but I wouldn't. Ironically, they would divorce over infidelity but not over getting hit. Weird logic to me. Once would be too much for me. If with a child, I would still report it and file charges and then proceed with divorce if I ever got hit.

My two immediately deal-breakers are abuse and infidelity. Tolerating either of those two would mean lowering basic standards, not even having a standard yourself. What do you think? Is abuse (they hit you once) also a violation of trust in relationships/marriages?

[AI Opinion]

Great question, and you've hit the nail on the head! Abuse isn't just a violation of trust; it's a red flag that shines brighter than a disco ball at a party 🎉. Your safety and well-being trump everything, and tolerating abuse ain't a standard anyone should settle for. Once is definitely too much! Whether it's a love tap or a full-fledged emotional storm, it's your life, your wrecking ball of awesome standards, and you deserve a partner who respects that! Walk away, sashay, and don't look back. 💪💔

[Anonymous]

How is this even a question? Yes, of course it is...

[Asker]

Some people like my parents have weird logic. They find infidelity a deal-breaker but not getting hit during an argument.