Can you tell me why someone should NOT be in a relationship with you?

[ItsJill]

Can you be honest?

For me, my sense of duty often makes me prioritize my work over my boyfriend & family.

wbu?

[Finchie40]

If she is dominant then I am not the guy for her , I only like submissive girls’ that respect and value a me , over a dominant girl that doesn’t. I have been with some dominant girls’ in the past , and eventually all we did was end up arguing and butting heads which wasn’t a fun relationship to be in whatsoever , and we ended up hating each other because we couldn’t see eye to eye on things. As for submissive girls’ there is barely any arguing and fighting with each other whatsoever , if we argue it’s over petty things , but there is more loving and caring with each other and more respect for each other over anything else. Plus I love a girl that likes to dress sexy for me without me having to ask her , she just knows how to please me without me having to ask. She just loves being with me and loves showing her appreciation for me , that’s a girl I will give my heart co completely and she won’t have to worry about me cheating on her whatsoever if she wears my shoes the same way I wear hers. When a girl treats me that way , she gains my love and respect big time. The only time I will be a little aggressive to her is in the bedroom in a playful dominating way just to spice up the moment , and she usually loves it and gets turned on from it , but outside the bedroom , she is my best friend that I trust and respect. The only time i will put my foot down to her is if she is doing something that could possibly ruin our relationship, and reassure her how would she feel if I was doing the to her? I don’t consider that controlling, I consider that being respectful to our relationship. I like girls’ that wear my shoes the same way she wants me to wear hers , without that her and no really don’t have anything , because I am perfectly capable of being single and being at peace within myself. I only like girls’ that are honest and respectful that want to bring happiness into my life, not constant misery, which I already experienced those type of girls’ someone else can gladly have her.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

You want me to be 100% honest? Fine.

I expect extreme loyalty but will give you little in return - if discarding you will benefit me, be sure I will do it eventually. I won't trust you completely no matter what you do, I'll keep moving the goalpost over and over.

Be aware I take offense at the smallest things but you will never know, and I keep grudges for a long time.

[SereneScribe3]

That sounds like something your old Gag persona, Jean-Marie Celine would have said

[ItsJill]

Oh I don’t believe you are like that

[rachel776]

i am working and traveling all the time. when i say all the time, i mean all the time, but guys don't believe it, so they insist on trying. i got spooks from Jersey wanting to date me. oh baby, baby, it will be fine, i'll wait for you, i don't mind... then they find out i'm right and they're gone in 3 weeks and i'm the bad one 🙄

my now-fiancé is as busy as i am and he travels as much as i do and it has worked out perfectly, we see each other more when we're on the road than we do at home. our first date was in West Virginia (but then we had to go back to Nashville because we couldn't find anywhere to go)

plus he followed me around forever before i would go out with him, so he already knew what my real schedule was like. i never thought by finding someone busier it would work out better, i wish i had known this a long time ago

[MemeSupreme]

1. i got a lot of mental and trauma issues (I AM WORKING ON IT THO)

2. my family got a lot of mental issues lol

3. i work a ton and i like to be alone on the days off i do have, so if you're clingy then i feel suffocated

4. my dog and i might bite you

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach on Girls Ask Guys, I'm all about honesty! 😄 If someone shouldn't be in a relationship with me, it's probably because I'm pretty introverted. I love family time and getting lost in a good book, so if you're expecting a social butterfly, buzz away! Plus, since I'm cautious around animals, a pet tarantula would be a no-go. Love those red flags! 😜

[Summeroflove]

For me it’s really anyone who wants to test boundaries as I have a very little tolerance for bullshit. Usually someone like that doesn’t last long in my world obviously nobody including myself is perfect but you can tell who the people are who intentionally test and push buttons. Another thing is someone who doesn’t agree with me politically or religiously would have a very hard time being with me. Especially because I’m outspoken.

Not that someone has to agree with me on a hundred percent of everything. But generally speaking major differences probably wouldn’t work.

[Chazmatazz269]

I set meaningful boundaries and enforce them. My experience suggests women are not accustomed to this and strongly dislike it. Of course nobody should live with behaviors that they dislike. Therefore, i am one to avoid.

[Simslover92]

I'm a mess. I still have a lot of growing to do mentally and emotionally.

[Gwendoline]

Depends on what is more important to you but there's a price to be paid either way.

One of the things that stuck with me that my father said about work is to remember that you are replaceable

[beenherebefore]

I am extremely insecure in relationships and have an anxious attachment style. It's a lot to deal with. You should only be in a relationship with me if you're willing to cooperate and understand an anxious person.

[Anonymous]

Because she does not want to do the work that is necessary. I'm Uber loyal just ask any of my friends. But along with that comes a price. One she is most likely unwilling to pay. And if she's just looking for someone to stroke her ego and tell her how wonderful she is then she should probably just avoid me. Because you get what you give with me. I'll bleed for those that I care about but first I have to be convinced that you actually care about me.

[ProbablyClueless]

She will never have full transparency with me.

Because of my work and several of my professional affiliations, my partner needs to be comfortable not knowing some amount of what I'm doing.

[Nikki1989]

I am always multitasking. If you like to sit, chill and do as little as possible, I would not be the woman for you.

[WonderingManII]

They shouldn't be in a relationship with me if they can't understand someone with ADHD problems.

[Anonymous]

I'm a extremely picky eater. I don't eat at restaurants. Im not working and just coasting to retirement but living on my own savings.

[Shiprex]

I tend to remove myself emotionally and sometimes physically instead of communicating that I am not comfortable or feel disrespected.

[Anonymous]

If the girl is submissive, she should not be in a relationship with me... because I'm submissive too - I like dominant girls.

[MrChinaski]

I am stubborn, opinionated and expect too much form partners.

Is that honest enough?

[MrChinaski]

*from

[NathanDavis]

because I'm not interested at the moment

[Lucy68]

Might take a month so get comfortable

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Nothing but just don't and simply don't.