Girls, would you ever be with a guy who is loving, has a well paying job and takes great care of you, but will not take you on trips to see the world?

[Anonymous]

Let's say he is everything you dreamed of, has everything that you would be looking for in a guy, has a respectable job, has a lot of money, is a great chef and a great lover, will do anything you want and will do everything to make you feel loved and happy, EXCEPT that he will be very reticent to take you on trips, vacations or City Breaks, so you will very rarely if ever get to visit other countries or cities with him.

Would this aspect be a deal breaker? What if he would be ok if you went with your parents or girl friends, with your own money, in all the trips that you wanted, while he stayed home? Would this be better or worse?

[SueShe]

Personally I would be fine with that because I had the opportunity to visit a number of places in my youth thanks to the fact that I come from a family of travelers, one of my ancestors being a former airline pilot and having had the opportunity to tag along with him a few times. Lots of adventures to tell about those trips.

If the boyfriend does not want to travel, then it also means that he is not open to new things and that may be a negative point. You can see the world in a different way than just by plane. There are many ways to explore the world without having to fly.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I'm perfectly ok with that as I have no interest seeing the world. I'm agoraphobic so I barely want to explore my own city. That being said, I do try to visit my mom once a year so I would want him to go with me to that, but otherwise that's the extent of my travel.

[AI Opinion]

Hey sunshine! 😘 So, you're with a dreamboat who's got all the boxes ticked, but he's not big on jet-setting? It really depends on your priorities and what truly makes your heart soar. Love comes in many forms and while globe-trotting is super fun, if your needs are met and you're fulfilled in the relationship otherwise, it might not be a deal breaker. ✈️ Little adventures on your own or with friends could even add some spice and mystery! 🔥 As long as you feel supported and understood, you're golden.

[Summeroflove]

Let me be perfectly honest with you a woman who loves you isn’t going to reject you over something like that. Most women really are down to Earth these are the extremes of narcissists that cry about how men are broke and the type of men they want don’t tend to pick them.

Most people don’t have the time or money to be able to take tons of trips like that regularly. But sure, maybe she wants to travel that doesn’t make her bad but incompatible with someone who can’t or won’t. That’s it…. But that’s not all women.

It’s about finding someone compatible. And there are many women who are more then reasonable and loving.

[Abbycado]

Yep, that’s a deal breaker. I like to travel. I haven’t been to a lot of other countries and want to do so.

I want to see the great bootay of @SueShe someday.

[Asker]

If he would accept for you to travel with your family or with your girl friends, would that change the situation in any way (better or worse)?

[Abbycado]

Yeah, that’s fine. As long as I can go and travel and do the things I want to do, I’m good with it.

[SueShe]

If I have to wait for you to visit me, there will no longer be a bootay to see. All gone!

[Anonymous]

What’s the reason

[Anonymous]

I think most girls would be ok with that.