How do I led my husband take the lead more in our relationship?

[momtotwo]

[ohsheeT]

I think for. Most men it just comes natural i mean you can force him to be that person by doing something he like. s but dont finish it and see who he really is give him the choice and see what wins out. If he doesn't finish it. He never will. If he takes control and finishes it then the part I was talking about.. it just become natural. Is still with in.. and he will do it...

But at the same time have you taken the lead so many times that you kinda made him not want to take the lead because of past incidences.

Try this it would take you 2 min to make him take the lead. But give it 20 min at least
When you get in bed to go to sleep.

Dont wear much roll over tell him shh sit up on top of him sit on his hips and place your just right I a very very very slow motion slid your hip forward. And then back. Again and again if he hasn't done it yet place his hands on your hips he will start to pull you forward and back. But he has to do it in slow motion. Make him do it in slow motion when he tries to speed things up

As you slide forward push your hips down hard so you straddle both side of his pole
Whisper grab my hair pulling me down or just take his hand put it on your hair and say pull leand forward now your breast on his chest kiss his lips and neck he should already be doing this to you then sit back up work your hips to tease and seduce him when its time you will know when roll off of him and let him take control and finishes.

If you want to make it hotter for him talk dirty when your on top sliding so very slow

But there are things you can do to make him want to lead

[Anonymous]

Honestly if he hasn’t done this all these years change cds are that won’t change. A lot of that is established in men when we’re younger. Something could change dramatically that could possibly make him change, but if it’s you who’s been the leader in all this it sounds like you display more male characteristics. To me it sounds like you control this relationship. You’re more in control of it than he is, maybe controlling.

[momtotwo]

I should have been clearer. He is very dominant. He just wants me to be more submissive.

[Nikki1989]

Instead of a general request, give him a concrete task. He should get the general idea eventually.

[momtotwo]

We're trying to find the right balance

[Anonymous]

He needs to be a leader. A real man leads , by being better , not by dimming his wife’s shine

[momtotwo]

He definitely dominant but he wants me to be more submissive.

[Opinion Owner]

What does he want u to do? How do u say he’s dominant

[momtotwo]

My two daughters are at their grandparents for the weekend. My husband bought a bondage whip and wants to do bdsm.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some fairy dust on your relationship! If you want your hubby to take the lead, give him little nudges of encouragement. Appreciate his efforts loudly, and show him you trust his judgment. Maybe even leave little notes or hints that you're all in for him taking charge. And above all, keep it fun and light-hearted — because who said life should be all serious? 😊💕

[TrimmedTip]

Want him to take charge? Tease his ego in bed. Whisper ‘I love it when you decide what happens next…’ then let silence do the work. Men step up when they feel needed—not nagged.

[momtotwo]

I'll try that

[Anonymous]

As long as he's the type to want to, or naturally do so, just make sure he knows it's welcome. Modern society has told men time and time again that tradition gender roles or traditional masculinity is not only unwelcome, but toxic. It leaves a lot of men hesitant or apprehensive.

[momtotwo]

We talked and discussed it. We both want to change our relationship roles.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Unfortunately leadership is normally something someone is born with, if not even if it succeeds he will have the probably force himself to be a certain way which would most likely lead to unhappiness

[momtotwo]

I should have been clearer. He is very dominant. He just wants me to be more submissive.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then what I said stands if you aren't willing to be more submissive

[lightbulb27]

may require communication and training and patience plus reward when he does right.

[momtotwo]

My two daughters are at their grandparents for the weekend. My husband bought a bondage whip and wants to do bdsm.

[DonaldDarko]

So you can top from the bottom. If he's smart, he won't.

[momtotwo]

Huh?

[DonaldDarko]

That's what happens. The man takes on all the responsibilities and the woman sits back and nags him until he does what she says. He drives her around, he picks out where to eat. It looks like he's dominant in the relationship but in reality she just doesn't want to do anything even make her own decisions.

[momtotwo]

He said he wants me to be more submissive.

[DonaldDarko]

Just depends on what you both like, go ahead if that's your thing.

[momtotwo]

Never been submissive but I want to try for him

[DonaldDarko]

It's up to you. I can't stomach the idea myself but to each his own.

[Staximus]

By not being a control freak

[momtotwo]

I can be that sometimes

[Staximus]

Well there you go

[momtotwo]

Open to talking if you send me a message

[Staximus]

You have a husband though

[momtotwo]

So, there a lot of things we can talk about?

[Grond21]

How long have you been married?

[momtotwo]

Less than a year

[Grond21]

Congratulations on the new marriage.

How's it going? Was it what you expected?

[momtotwo]

It's my second marriage. I was married for 15 than we got divorced. I got married to my second husband Dan last year

[Grond21]

I'm sorry for your first marriage did not work out.

Go Dan!

[momtotwo]

Dan is amazing

[Grond21]

How so? I just got married too by the way. I want to be amazing for my wife

[momtotwo]

Congrats on getting married!

[Grond21]

Thank you!

[momtotwo]

If you want to talk send me a private message

[jahaims]

Trust instead of nag

[momtotwo]

I do.