Why do so many people go into situations hips nowadays and don't want a relationship?

[Anonymous]

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[Miristheiss]

Because you good enough for easy sex but they do not like you enough to make you a girlfriend.

Women didn't put out before so they were able to get commitments.

Now that women just have loose sex guys can get with girls they will NEVER commit to.

This guy or guys will never commit to you. You were easy sex.

[Asker]

I am not talking about myself but go off boomer

[NoDecision]

Because they like to go out but don't want to pay for the date. That is why you should always split the costs. Just think, you could be going out with a guy for a month and never pay for the date - or the food. Where else can you get a deal like that? And probably better than the hotdogs you make for yourself.

[Asker]

It's honestly mind-blowing... I would never do such a thing. I like serious relationships

[Ms_Facesitter]

No idea what that means but I guess cause they're not ready for something serious.

[Asker]

They just play with feelings

[Ms_Facesitter]

Ah well there you go, they're not ready or mature enough for something serious.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Working, listening, compensating for another person is scary to them I guess.

[Asker]

Honestly it's sad i am asking because i see it more and more and am trying to understand what happened

[glennos89]

Good question. Probably because this is being stimulated by (social) media and because people lack to wanting to put effort into building a relationship. I don't understand it at all but they will regret it at some point when they end up being old and alone

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the modern dating scene, huh? 😎 Many people dive into situationships because it often feels like a "no-strings-attached" way to enjoy companionship without the heavy duty of commitment. It's like tasting the ice cream without buying the whole cone! Plus, focusing on personal goals or just reveling in the freedom of being single adds to its appeal. It's a mix of looking for connection, dodging the traditional lovebombing and ghosting dramas, and savoring some 'me time.' Stay spicy! 🔥❤️

[andreasderjuengere]

The word is 'new' (this century's linguistic invention), but the idea is very old already - and was applied since ages.

A ''situationship'' indeed IS! a version of a relationship (this does not change if a few uninformed trend-word-followers believe to see a different contemporary definition of the term)

[capriVib]

I don’t think there are many people, most of them have a partner, but compared to the past it has become harder.

[Asker]

I agree so many of my friends have told me about their experiences and i am shocked

[BarryLiverstone]

Too often people are meeting online and trying to pretend like they want a relationship when in reality they want something else

[Asker]

I know right

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok you already knew. Maybe you were just venting, not asking a question

[Asker]

Is it bad?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes. Gag is meant to ask questions. If you just use it to vent, that’s abusing others who are here to help

[Asker]

No you don't get it i am just asking because i see it more and more and am trying to see the reasoning

[BarryLiverstone]

Anytime there is a pattern that you are experiencing, it’s worth taking a step back and doing some self reflection. It’s much more likely the world isn’t changing.

[Asker]

It's not happening to me

[Asker]

I actually have had serious relationships in my life right now i focus on myself i am not trying to find a dude

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m not surprised

[DryGermanGuy]

It seems to be one of the symbols of our time, for better or for worse (mostly the latter)… 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[jahaims]

They are too immature to have a healthy relationship but still crave the benefits of a relationship

[mysteriousNicholas]

Sounds like friends with benefits with a new slang term

[ashish804]

its like getting all benefits without having headache

[Asker]

A relationship isn't a headache but I won't go there

[ashish804]

yeah true.. but depends

[Asker]

I personally love relationships i hate casual stuff

[ashish804]

cool.. after few years it becomes tough to handle that's y

[Asker]

Well it's not true at least for me

[ashish804]

u may be the good and exceptional one

[Asker]

Maybeee

[ashish804]

cool.. u can dm me or follow me so we can talk in dm

[YourExLover69]

Play fear about commitment, responsibilities etc. they just want sex nothing more.

[Bigjohn6969]

Babe it's probably because some of us men have been done terribly wrong by a woman. Like a man we blame all women when that shouldn't be the case.

[Anonymous]

I'd like a relationship but I never had any.

I don't even know what situationship is.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

How do you mean?

[MasterKS]

sex is easy.

[Klassss]

Becaıse bad girls