Should I apologize for drunk dialing?

[Anonymous]

This guy I was seeing, that left me because I drunk dialed and told him I wanted things to be just physical. He traveled without his phone so it's been off. I so drunk dialed again! I have no idea what I said...I just remember crying. OMG. Do I call and leave a voice mail to apologize, or leave it alone. I've probably now for sure ruined any chance with this guy and need someone to kick me in the shin and take my phone.What do I do?

[KBMC1]

Not if you didn't insult him or something.. Only apologize if he acts different as usual because of the last-drunk-messages, then I would apologize for your behavior towards him and he will understand =)

[BriscoCountyJr]

Wait for the return call if there is one. And if there isn't you can delete that number so it don't happen again. If there is one.. just open with hey I am sorry and I won't do it again.

Good Luck,

[NonchalantBro]

is your name Snookie?

[Asker]

whats year problem? Can you entertain yourself withot insulting people?

[Asker]

Go ahead and make a comment about how I can not spell or type. Then make a comment about my intelligence.

[NonchalantBro]

i didn't think that was insulting. figured you'd laugh at it, but I guess this is a bad time for ya.

[Asker]

Sometimes sensible people become inebriated and act like a fool. I made a mistake, many mistakes. Don't make me feel worse. I was asking for advice.

[Asker]

Also, as a psych student you shouldn't use another person's vulnerability to amuse yourself. Defend yourself by saying you 'are only telling it like it is'. But that is a cop out. As a psych student you should use your knowledge to understand people and be kind. No need to be a jerk.

[NonchalantBro]

well my intentions were good.

and yes, I would leave a voice mail apologizing. not doing that would make you feel like crap later on and you'll regret not doing something.

[NonchalantBro]

oh?

First off, I don't use other people's vulnerability to amuse myself. I like making people laugh and take their minds away from the sh*t they have to deal with...and maybe look at things from another perspective. ..and "telling it like it is" a cop out? where'd you get that from? I have no idea what you're referring to but if telling the truth or getting to the core of things isn't a bad thing.

...and about being a psych student...you have no idea what I do or how I am.

[Asker]

wow...I went off, didn't I? yea, It was a bad time for me.

[couchfry666]

i always say sorry for doing that.