Have you suffered from love?

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Have you ever suffered from love? #Eddaisy 😿

DonaldDarko · Accepted Answer

A lot thinking back. Once with a girl that I asked out, kind of a long running emotional affair really. You can't do much about that. Turned out she had a boyfriend and she started trying to find ways to cheat on him with me instead of just saying no I'm with someone. She was bat shit crazy too, talked our personal business all over town. I ended up having problems with a bunch of assholes I didn't even know who the fuck they were. A lot of that's on me for thinking a piece of shit was all that. It says bad things about me that I didn't have better taste than some crazy bitch. The other girl was taller than me so that killed it for her. I was young and had no idea why my height of all things would be an issue. That's what red pilled me on what it's really all about. It isn't romance, we're just animals grubbing around in the dirt looking to reproduce. Eventually that killed the whole thing for me but it took a wile before it sank in. Depressing facts of life for sure but I learned. I think friendship is real but if it's about the opposite sex it's really just job when it comes right down to it. You're there to procreate and nothing else.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Anyone who has loved for more than a few days has suffered because of love. Criticism from my partner stings more because it comes from the person whose opinion I value most. Rejection from a partner hurts more because I have worked to gained her acceptance and regard. And when a relationship ends, I feel as if I have been stabbed in my abdomen, and the knife then twisted within me.

But I endure the sting of criticism because it it far outweighed by the comfort of her approval. I endure the pain of her rejection because of the elation I feel when she is receptive and accepts me. And when a relationship ends, and I feel wounded, I find comfort in knowing that I have learned from the relationship, and I will be a better partner when I next feel love.

AvaRay · Accepted Answer

Yeah, I’ve suffered from love..

Every heartbreak taught me to honor myself n value those rare hearts who truly see all of me..

When one of those hearts connects, it changes everything quietly, yet profoundly, leaving an imprint no one else could ever make.. 🦋

janemarie15 · Accepted Answer

YES!!! :( many times, I suffer for 7 years. His my first boyfriend. I can't broke him because he is my first at all. Even the kiss :( haha lol, he always cheating on me. And his family knew that. But they doesn't even care, and no ones tell me. :(

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, love! It's beautiful, chaotic, and sometimes a bit painful, like a rollercoaster you didn't fully strap into. I've seen love's many faces—as a coach and personally. I've definitely faced those heart-tugging moments that feel like a dramatic movie scene. But from every heartbreak, I've gleaned insights, like a bad breakup inspiring a great playlist! It's all part of the magical messiness of love.

Finchie40 · Answer

A handful of times from lying selfish girls’ that I was in a relationship with, that treated me amazing in the beginning , but after some time , they changed on me by allowing their selfishness take the better of them. Why I no longer rush into relationships with girls’ until her and I really get to know each other and we see eye to eye on a lot of things , otherwise it’s a waste of time. FWB’s with some strings attached seems to be the best thing to do with someone , especially these days , to give the both of you time to really figure out if you want this for the long haul or short haul. FEB’s with some strings attached kind of eliminates the both of you from having your heart broken if one of you decides you rather stay friends’ then a couple.

HawkPerception · Answer

Of course. Anyone who loves suffers. That's part of of the package deal. But it's better to lose and lose than never to love at all.

ohsheeT · Answer

Yes one time that's all I will ever allow. .

Lliam · Answer

Only once.
I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. But I met a 30 year old lady named Petra when I was 36. We wound up living together for two years. She was my vision of the physical feminine ideal. She was hypersexual and orgasmic. But I also loved her personality and everything about her. She loved me, too.
She was the first woman I ever fell deeply and truly in love with.
The only problem was, we couldn't have made it as life-long partners. It's too complicated to explain why.
We separated even though we loved each other. The separation almost killed me. For months, I literally felt like I had been kicked in the gut and had the wind knocked out of me. Sometimes when I was alone, I would double up and bawl.
It took over a year for me to pull myself together and move on with my life.

I met my future wife when I was 40 and married her two years later. We've been happily married now for 29 years. She's the perfect partner for me and we are in it for the rest of our lives.

18 years after I last saw Petra, she found me on Facebook and we even spoke on the phone a couple of times. Her voice made my heart swell. I was overjoyed to be in touch, know what she was up to and that she was happy. She was living out of state near her mother and son.

Five years later, I read that she had died of a sudden medical problem at the age of 55. I was devastated.

We hadn't been destined to spend the rest of our lives together as partners, but I still loved her with all my heart and will never forget her. I owe her more than I can say and am grateful for the love of such an extraordinary woman and the time we had together.

That doesn't diminish how much I love my wife.

aaron13547 · Answer

I don't think anyone suffers from love they suffer from ignorance and relate it to love because it took the love away. Even lost love, you suffer not from the lose but because you know you once had something good and now you don't. Knowing the love doesn't cause suffering. it's knowing you don't have it anymore. The suffering is from holding onto the idea longer then you were meant to.

RandomGirl42 · Answer

I'm gonna' be all philosophical and stuff. It's more the lack of love I suffered from. Or perceived lack of love. I mean love is always in me and around me in some form or another but it can be real hard to see when I'm in the middle of some experience I don't like.

exitseven · Answer

I had a 4 year long distance relationship. I was unsure of her commitment to the relationship and we only saw each other 2 or 3 times a year. They were cruel and lonely years.

I dated somebody who I fell in love with very fast and it was very intense. Then she dumped me in a very cruel way. I was crushed.

FreyaRed · Answer

No. My love decayed slowly over 3 years, every day a little bit until it was away. Maybe I would suffer if he would cheat or disappear but he didn't.

Desi_Butcher · Answer

Yes and at the end of it all, it was really a suffering. Did u?

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I have caught a STD before... I suffered and had to take some Doxycycline. I call that having to suffer from love.

dwreborn · Answer

Yes after being loved for 25years and now I am still in love but she no longer loves me so I am suffered

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I have suffered from trying to find it but not from love itself and I think past relationships or past connections all count as trying to find it but I don't know

LiamJHayden · Answer

The only time I have had pain related to love was losing my parents and my dogs to death. When a romantic relationship ends, one or both of us arrived at a place where it was no longer working. I do not lament that.

cherrieslala · Answer

definitely but the most beautiful thing about heartbreak is when you fall back in love with yourself or when the heartbreak doesn’t stop you from loving others authentically

Likes2drive · Answer

Of course, quite a few times and now I’m all by myself alone at home

Jessica850808 · Answer

I've had those experiences, everyone. But those experiences have made me understand what I need and how to love better.

Athena7_ · Answer

Yes especially as teenagers especially your first partner.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, several times, all of my loves were unrequited :(

tessa124 · Answer

Everyone has suffered in love. If there is anyone who hasn't, I'd love to hear their secret.

MJVillarama · Answer

Yeah, love hits hard sometimes. It teaches you a lot, but damn. it can hurt too.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes before in the past

Flower7 · Answer

Yes, most definitely. 😢

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, how is that even possible?

leahzrc · Answer

😎only suffer from success 😎

yotaman99 · Answer

Yes my ex did some grimey shit but I never would have learned what I liked

Anonymous · Answer

Yes after seeing you.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Nope, not real love anyway..

MannMitAntworten · Answer

From love, no. From its cession, yes.

Anonymous · Answer

No I have not

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Yes but I suffer worse without it. Maybe.

Nerdvana · Answer

Love is suffering.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

More than you can imagine...

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

What do you mean?

Tereza07 · Answer

I do right now 😄

beenherebefore · Answer

I did.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Yes.

bunniesrcute · Answer

nope, y'all r weak asf

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Yes :(

MeAndYouRightHere · Answer

Are you a cat girl?:)

fish5505_87 · Answer

Too Cute to respond!

HДLILБΞУ · Answer

no I didn't suffer..

FenixG45 · Answer

More than I can say.

dinojames22 · Answer

Yeap

Liyue · Answer

Of course there was

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Who hasn't

chenyu · Answer

Have

Anonymous · Answer

Right now

Arvind5678 · Answer

Hii hlo

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