Do you think his dad did a bad thing?

[Getback]

My friend is raising a son on his own and he just turned 18 and and some older woman seduced him. I heard she's in her 40s. My friend confronted her and called her a creep and she stopped seeing him because she felt ashamed.

Honestly I'd do the same if it was my kid.

Dad's wrong

Dad's right

[Jackblue]

If it were reversed I would say the dad had a right to be angry, if his barely legal daughter got pregnant by a 40 year old man that would be creepy. Boys however, don't get pregnant. There is a chance that a 40 year old woman might, but at that age, I think she knows how to take precautions. In terms of gay sex there are also too many risks, so I don't think there should be a large age gap there either.

[Getback]

These things have nothing to do with age gap, you are just sexist and homophobic.

Pregnancy is also one thing to consider too.

[Getback]

*Just one thing to consider too.

There are other factors too.

[Jackblue]

I mentioned the same sex thing because I didn't want anyone here to think I am a perv eyeballing young men, I am not gay anyways, but even if I was I wouldn't condone such large age gaps. I don't know about lesbian relationships with such an age gap, I don't really have an opinion on that.

[Getback]

What are you talking about? Lol

You are just a homophobe whether you like it or not, and sexist too.

[Getback]

@Checkyj Good for you

[Shiprex]

Maybe she is TRYING to get pregnant to trap this barely legal teen victim for child support.

[Spencer10]

This is tough. His son is of age so he can choose who he wants to be with. Before confronting the woman though I would have had a long conversation with my son first.

[Nikki1989]

They are both in the wrong, but why would any older woman want a male or is still more or less a child?

[Getback]

Because she's a pedo maybe?

[Getback]

Or has some fetish

[Flower7]

Seduced him how? He’s an adult and is old enough to make his own decisions.

[Getback]

I heard she chatted him up and invited him somewhere.

It seems to me she's a creep or a predator. My mate threatened to out her out publicly too.

[AI Opinion]

Hey there! As a relationship coach, my aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate these tricky matters with some spicy insight. In this situation, it looks like your friend acted like a protective parent, and honestly, who wouldn't want someone to have your back like that? There's nothing wrong with stepping in when it seems like there's a potential red flag. It's all about looking out for the ones we love and ensuring their relationships are healthy. Plus, given the age difference, calling it out can set healthy boundaries. Keep that love flowing, super dad! 😄

[Getback]

Only reasonable answer lol

[Celticwolf78]

I'd set ground rules for them