This is basically an example of a grown-ass-man acting like a little boy.
The motivation for his father's behaviour is the exact same thing that'll make a 12-year-old boy act like an asshole to his friends in front of a girl... in a misguded effort to... essentially "look cool" (while actually coming-off as quite off-putting).
I realize that's maybe hard to believe... seiing as how this man raised a grown-son and has seen war. But I guarantee you THAT IS what's happening here.
I don't know if it's a misguided effort to show one's dominance over others in an effort to impress a girl, or if it's a matter of trying to make yourself appear better by making others seem 'worse'. But... it's silly-immature bullshit most guys outgrow by the time they're done high school (often way before that).
Now, I know you're thinking..."but wait... this was my boyfriends's DAD... why would this dynamic exist between a father and son?"
The answer to that is: It's usually NOT a dynamic you find between a father and son. It's one that certainly not unheard of... especially if his dad isn't THAT much older than him (e. g. a 40 year old dad and 20 year old son). I would think it's more likely to happen, the more the father-son relationship is one of "peers" as opposed to the more traditional father-son power/respect dynamic. But... yea... it's kind of fucked to see a Dad act that way towards his son, in front of his girlfriend. But... that's you're answer. 🙂
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